lemongrove
How very old fashioned some of your comments are, not to mention both bitchy and wrong. Carrie Symonds was not a
‘Mistress’ but a girlfriend before she became engaged to Johnson. She had a responsible and well paid job and wasn’t ‘kept’ ( which is what a mistress would be.) Neither was he stringing her along just as an affair.Many men have affairs with somebody before they divorce their wives, if they loved their wives or had worthwhile marriages that wouldn't happen.
So my marriage wasn’t worthwhile
. In my experience a man won’t leave his wife unless he has someone else to go to whereas a woman is more likely to either stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of the children or leave with no one else to go to. My husband wouldn’t have left if he hadn’t found someone else to go to. Someone who told me on the phone that I was a bad wife. And then left my husband to go back to her ex husband. That’s why I have no sympathy for the ‘other woman’. And I know that some people in here seem to have had happy divorces but it infuriates me when people that have had no experience of divorce and it’s impact on someone’s life seem to brush it off so lightly. And I’m still waiting for a response regarding Symonds being sacked from a previous job for wrongdoing.


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) “love nest”, “love child” and indeed the assumption that marital breakdown or divorce can simply be laid at the door of a “roving eye”, “bit of skirt” or “sultry temptress”
