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Irrational dislikes on sight

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nanna8 Thu 24-Jun-21 08:33:06

Are there any famous or well known people you just dislike for no rational reason ?
Nigel Farage is one for me
Simon Cowell another. Never met either of them and probably never will but even before I knew what they were known for,something made me dislike them.

Lucca Sat 26-Jun-21 09:18:22

FannyCornforth

Some of the comments on this thread are absolutely revolting.
Yorki, yours especially.

Absolutely agree.

Lucca Sat 26-Jun-21 09:47:34

FannyCornforth

Some of the comments on this thread are absolutely revolting.
Yorki, yours especially.

Agree. Horrible

janipans Sat 26-Jun-21 11:02:57

Ant and Dec
and Jamie Oliver

Gwenisgreat1 Sat 26-Jun-21 11:59:04

Danny Dyer irritates me, trouble is I'm a fan of Eastenders!!

olliebeak Sat 26-Jun-21 12:27:57

Nigel Farage
Gillian McKeith
Esther McVey
Tommy Robinson - or whatever he calls himself these days [anger]!
Piers Morgan
The 'new' Inspector Barnaby (sorry Mr Neil Dudgeon)!

olliebeak Sat 26-Jun-21 12:28:41

Gwenisgreat1

Danny Dyer irritates me, trouble is I'm a fan of Eastenders!!

Oh YES - I forgot about HIM. Not an Eastenders fan though.

Alegrias1 Sat 26-Jun-21 12:43:09

So the people who Grans dislike range from a far right anti-Islamic thug, to a woman with an annoying fringe.

shock

Chewbacca Sat 26-Jun-21 12:59:02

Reading here as to how many irritating people there are on television makes me glad I don't have one; at least with the radio, I don't have to look at them!

tinaf1 Sat 26-Jun-21 15:32:56

Trinny Woodhall ( think that’s right) watched her do her make up advert this morning and for some reason took an instant dislike to her , think it’s something to do with her voice.

Have watched Jeremy Clarkson’s program on Amazon and really warmed to him he doesn’t mind taking the p**s out of himself , I would rather someone like that than someone who’s full of their own importance.

Blinko Sat 26-Jun-21 15:42:24

I think I've been on the receiving end of 'dislike at first sight'. I bumped into a friend in a local garden centre, she was with another friend whom I didn't know. She introduced us. I said 'Hello, Maureen' or whatever her name was - she actually glared at me. Or I could be paranoid, of course.

Blinko Sat 26-Jun-21 15:44:51

Oh yes, I can't take to Neil Dudgeon either. Come back, John Nettles, all is forgiven.

Mollygo Sat 26-Jun-21 15:51:20

This is a great thread. We’re allowed to say we dislike someone on sight, whether we’ve met them or not. If someone irritates us get it off your chest. It’s doing no harm, they don’t know and they don’t care.

TerriBull Sat 26-Jun-21 18:50:37

I think irrational hate on sight is rarely the case. Sometimes characteristics of high profile people can get on the viewer's nerves for various reasons, for example I don't like Stacey Dooley's voice, but she as a person, I have no idea,! possibly she's quite nice.

I once liked Jonathan Ross, but went right off him when he talked incessantly about himself, wife, children, dogs and often interrupted his guests...........and I thought he could be incredibly rude and sexist to some of the women he had on at times. I particularly went right off him when he and Russell Brand got involved in humiliating Andrew Sach's granddaughter, can't remember the finer details but didn't put the pair of them in a good light. I prefer Graham Norton as a chat show host. I never liked Michael Parkinson either. there were occasions when I thought some of the things he asked were intrusive.

John Barrowman sounds bloody awful, who in their right mind thinks exposing themselves is a bit of fun for heaven's sake.shock

Having read about Philip Schofield and his blubbing and his announcement of "coming out" on their ghastly show with the equally nauseating Holly Willoughby telling him how brave he is made me very glad I never watch them. Two overpaid very irritating people imo!

Gemma Collins just what does she do exactly?

I do think Ellen DeGeneres sounds anything but generous, mean spirited and horrible. A bit like Harvey Weinstein when that many people say the same thing, eventually the whiff about their behaviour becomes an overwhelming stench, they, the accusers, can't all be wrong. Similarly, Chrissie Teigan, who I'd only heard of recently, sounds another horror, having sent tweets to people she didn't like telling them to kill themselves, does make me wonder about the sort of person she must be to do that.

I don't like the Beckhams simply because I think they are unfair to their children and use them in promoting their brand. Allowing them to have very high public profiles from their earliest years, is not doing them any favours, particularly when they can't make an informed choice about that. Most young people making their way in the world make their mistakes, we all did, they need to be afforded the privacy that their peers have. Exposing the minutiae of day to day live, youngest child reading a book or making breakfast, ridiculous, particularly when it's accompanied by some dis ingenious caption of "rare insight into x doing whatever" It isn't rare it's relentless and obviously they have control over what they release to the media.

FannyCornforth Sun 27-Jun-21 06:30:50

Mollygo

This is a great thread. We’re allowed to say we dislike someone on sight, whether we’ve met them or not. If someone irritates us get it off your chest. It’s doing no harm, they don’t know and they don’t care.

Orwell's Two Minutes Hate springs to mind

Alegrias1 Sun 27-Jun-21 10:41:11

Very apt observation Fanny

Mollygo Sun 27-Jun-21 10:41:28

I get your reference, but hate is too strong a word. If you fill your life with hate, and constantly revisit that hatred, you’ll have no room left for love.
I can dislike people, places and things for good reason or just a gut feeling, but I don’t spend time maintaining that feeling.
Do you think the sometimes quite viciously reiterated comments on GN are expressions of dislike or examples of Orwell’s Two Minutes Hatred?

FannyCornforth Sun 27-Jun-21 10:48:20

Molly there's loads of hate on this thread!
Of course you are right about 'filling your heart with hate'.
That's why I'm not keen on this thread.
I'm pretty certain that many of the most vitriolic posters are also members of the 'be kind' brigade (when it suits them).

Alegrias1 Sun 27-Jun-21 10:52:32

Sorry, I know that's for Fanny Mollygo but I'm here and posting smile.

Just read some of the posts, and the language used. This is not dislike in the sense of thinking someone is a comic, for instance, but "I don't really like their work."

People give posters the creeps, they have evil eyes, they make people’s skin crawl, they are “playing the race card” hmm, 61-year-old TV presenters are well past their sell by date.

Where’s that wee donkey when you need him?

Maybe it’s all OK though because we are being nasty behind people’s backs? People we don’t know? So they don’t count, do they. They’re celebrities, not real people. hmm

FannyCornforth Sun 27-Jun-21 10:58:23

Yorki's post about their deep seated and inexplicable hatred towards a group of talented young dancers is a case for a Freudian scholar.

I think that the post in question is still up.

Mollygo Sun 27-Jun-21 10:59:59

Alegrias1 that’s sometimes like GN.
They’re people who, for the most part we don’t know so they don’t count do they. They’re posters, not real people.

Alegrias1 Sun 27-Jun-21 11:13:01

I don't recall any poster telling another that they were past their sell by date, that they were a giggling ninny, that they were dead-eyed or nauseating?

Or comparing them to Weinstein, because after all, no smoke without fire, eh?

One poster made a list of people she didn't agree with but that was weird. And she got told so.

FannyCornforth Sun 27-Jun-21 11:16:20

Alegrias I must admit, I'm loving 'giggling ninny'.

Alegrias1 Sun 27-Jun-21 11:20:51

All quotes are authentic, Fanny wink

FannyCornforth Sun 27-Jun-21 11:27:42

Alegrias looking back, I've seen that one poster has had a pop at the (brilliant) Tracey Ann Oberman for having a 'ridiculous name'. hmm

Callistemon Sun 27-Jun-21 11:30:29

^^susieq3
I disagree about Rita Chacrabati (I also don’t know how it’s spelt).
I like her soothing, sensible way of reading the news. No matter how bad, it seems better when she reads it.

I like Rita Chakrabarti too.

I find Tom Bradby's style of news presenting irritating, he' too chatty, matey and opinionated.

I will say that I have met one of the gushing presenters mentioned earlier and no, she is not at all like that in RL. Quite rude, in fact.