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Isn’t it time social media was brought under control - dreadful abuse after England football defeat.

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25Avalon Mon 12-Jul-21 09:26:25

Following England’s narrow defeat yesterday evening Rashford, Sancho and Saka were subjected to dreadful racist abuse on social media yesterday evening. This is happening in all walks of life where cowardly people go online to vent their spleen anonymously on others. Isn’t it time something was done to bring social media under control?

Mollygo Mon 12-Jul-21 10:52:34

Gwyneth, boycotting social media-in an ideal world, yes! But SM is like GN, in that users would just go back to see if there’s a response and then post something else.

CafeAuLait Mon 12-Jul-21 10:58:05

It's terrible. Do they think they could have done better? One of the teams had to lose. They should be praising the team for getting so far and giving it their best. People need to bring themselves under control.

growstuff Mon 12-Jul-21 11:05:10

How could the UK control Facebook and Twitter when they're not UK owned or registered?

We could block the sites, but at the risk of becoming like China.

People would just find sites on the dark web, which most people wouldn't even know about.

Gwyneth Mon 12-Jul-21 11:06:14

Thanks for your comments doodledog and mollygo. I really don’t know what the answer is to these people who anonymously make abusive comments. They are cowards whereas the young men who put themselves forward last night to take the penalties should be applauded. They have my utmost respect. We can only hope that future technology will be able to successfully track these people down and prosecute them.

Chestnut Mon 12-Jul-21 11:11:34

As others have said this is a drop in the ocean of social media abuse. People receive abuse every day and youngsters are groomed and bullied. It's horrendous and a massive problem for society in general. It all goes back to people being able to open online social media accounts with no accountability and no identification. If everyone had posted as themselves from the start this would never have happened. It would have required authorisation to identify you by your real name and location (not full postal address), but this never happened and so we are where we are.
Instead people can have an unlimited number of social media accounts in any name they choose, with no idea who they actually are. It's no surprise this is abused by nasty people.

LauraNorder Mon 12-Jul-21 11:14:38

Education, education, education.
We are all responsible for ensuring that racism and any other form of bullying is stamped out by education and example. Social media platforms can only do so much.
The world seems to be full of hatred and a need to blame someone else.

Alegrias1 Mon 12-Jul-21 11:17:42

A few people have mentioned me in posts so I'm just letting you know I've read them, thanks smile

GillT57 Mon 12-Jul-21 11:47:03

Like everyone else, I am disgusted by the vile racist bullies who picked on these young men, despicable. I was heartened to read on Fb this morning that there are thousands who have decided to try and track down these racist bullies and expose them. Good. Does anyone now think they should question why the English football team take the knee before matches?

25Avalon Mon 12-Jul-21 12:00:25

GillT57 stop hijacking my thread please. I don’t agree with taking the knee but that does not make me a racist. This thread is about all online abuse not just the vile racist remarks directed at our three young footballers. How do we stop people posting any kind of abuse on social media?

Galaxy Mon 12-Jul-21 12:06:24

I am more frightened of social media giants having more control over speech than a few ignorant racists. Imagine if trump owned a social media platform, would you be happy to have him control speech. I agree with Laura it's about education and an ongoing discussion about social media and what it is or isnt doing for our society.

Doodledog Mon 12-Jul-21 12:41:00

Galaxy

I am more frightened of social media giants having more control over speech than a few ignorant racists. Imagine if trump owned a social media platform, would you be happy to have him control speech. I agree with Laura it's about education and an ongoing discussion about social media and what it is or isnt doing for our society.

This is the thing, isn't it?

If everyone were identifiable online, dictatorships would crush dissent, as they do in China and Saudi etc. Look at that case a few years ago when a man was sentenced to 1000 lashes for starting a blog.

Also, if the authorities could identify people, it would be a short step to extremists being able to do so too, and they could threaten anyone who spoke out against them. It's not straightforward at all.

I think that we should look at ways of making racism unacceptable (as happened with drink-driving and smoking indoors), so that people wouldn't want to post their bile. I know that racism is more ingrained than either of those examples, but if there were a will I think it could be done.

GillT57 Mon 12-Jul-21 12:43:55

25Avalon

GillT57 stop hijacking my thread please. I don’t agree with taking the knee but that does not make me a racist. This thread is about all online abuse not just the vile racist remarks directed at our three young footballers. How do we stop people posting any kind of abuse on social media?

Woah! What merited that attack? Back off, I did not mention you in my comments about taking the knee, if you must know, I was meaning some of our politicians who seem incensed about it. You are extremely wrong and very rude. Good grief

henetha Mon 12-Jul-21 12:48:48

Absolutely yes, it's time something positive was done to stop these low-life ignorant racists.

Platypus Mon 12-Jul-21 13:21:01

I think people do it because they actually believe these things and it gives them a voice to express themselves that they might otherwise not have.

Instead of being outraged, I just realise everyone is different and I can’t control their words.
But I can control MY actions.
I can choose to scroll past and not give them a voice. If no-ones listening their words are meaningless.
So maybe turn your outrage into action and write something positive to counteract the negative and smile to yourself that YOU did some good.

MissAdventure Mon 12-Jul-21 13:23:13

I hope they're traced, and feel the full force of everyone's disgust.

AmberSpyglass Mon 12-Jul-21 13:29:36

People have a right to be anonymous on social media. What they don’t have is a right to express racist views and platforms have to crack down on this. And let’s not pretend it’s a social media problem - it’s a society problem.

GillT57 Mon 12-Jul-21 13:30:14

So maybe turn your outrage into action and write something positive to counteract the negative and smile to yourself that YOU did some good. I completely agree. many people are doing this, bombarding the young men's social media accounts with positive messages.

OnwardandUpward Mon 12-Jul-21 13:44:47

It would be ideal if people could be stopped from trying to control other people's medical decisions by spreading their opinions. It's their choice to go anon and use sites like Telegram or Parler, Tiktok etc but I am sure the government know exactly who these people are, especially the ones using those sites to sell class A drugs even though they do use proxies.

I think people should not be allowed to be racist or to spread false information.

rafichagran Mon 12-Jul-21 13:52:00

Yes,agreed, these cowards should be made accountable for what they post.

25Avalon Mon 12-Jul-21 13:57:27

I have just done a safeguarding course for children i.e. anyone under the age of 18. 20%of 3 year olds apparently use a laptop and 30% suffer online abuse. Children under 13 should not have social media accounts but somehow they do. 40% of over 13’s will suffer online abuse at some time and even more if they are disabled.

This is why I wanted this thread to look at social media as it is quite a frightening phenomena where it is being used for these purposes which include but are not limited to racist abuse. We talk about freedom of speech but if you were to say or write some of the things you could be sued.

What’s unacceptable offline should be unacceptable online. I see there is an online Safety Bill (details on Uk Gov.website) being looked at right now. Ofcom will have a role to play. It will also include scammers such as romance scammers who chat people up online to extract money.

OnwardandUpward Mon 12-Jul-21 14:08:56

"What’s unacceptable offline should be unacceptable online." @25Avalon I totally agree!

It is illegal to sell class A drugs, yet on Telegram they are advertised! They have teenagers on that site! I looked at their terms of service to see if I could report it, but the only thing they ban is porn! Tiktok has a Ketamine problem, yet these sites are used by loads of young people. I really believe that the laws and values of this country should be upheld online ad that any type of brainwashing or bullying should be exposed.

timetogo2016 Mon 12-Jul-21 14:50:34

I wonder if these faceless racists walk out of a surgery etc if there is an ethnic/black proffesional is about to treat them.
I think not.
Mindless hypocritcs.

AmberSpyglass Mon 12-Jul-21 15:41:47

But if it’s happening online, then it isn’t necessarily happening in the UK….

Callistemon Mon 12-Jul-21 15:47:35

Alegrias1

I'm with WWM2 Serious question.

How do you all propose Social Media do this?

They delete offensive posts, they suspend accounts, they report the worst offenders to the authorities.

What else should they do?

Please bear your answer in mind next time a GNer gets banned from this platform and everyone wants them back.

Might I point out that in the case of posters being banned from GN and other posters requesting that they be allowed back:
No posters have ever, as far as I know, requested the return of any poster who posted racist or any other such offensive comments, nor would they.

To infer that is vile.

Whitewavemark2 Mon 12-Jul-21 15:48:01

AmberSpyglass

But if it’s happening online, then it isn’t necessarily happening in the UK….

Watching the men in London, Wembley and elsewhere in the U.K. and listening to them booing the young lions as they take the knee, I would bet my last £ that the vast majority are English.