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Infinity2 Mon 12-Jul-21 23:09:36

The motto I’ve found most helpful to me in my life has been this -
Waste Not Fresh Tears Over Old Griefs.
( Euripides)
When I’m feeling sorry for myself and find my past mistakes and personal sorrows overwhelming me, this is what I say to myself to drown them out.
What is your personal motto that’s helped you in the tougher times of your life ?

Rainwashed Wed 14-Jul-21 14:11:55

I hadn’t heard the one in OP, but is advice I could learn from.

Rainwashed Wed 14-Jul-21 14:10:21

“Always wear a smile, because smile and the world smiles with you, cry and you cry alone” . (I know you can’t do this in all circumstances).
“ Do as you would be done by”.

sharon103 Wed 14-Jul-21 13:55:55

nexus63 flowers

sharon103 Wed 14-Jul-21 13:53:31

What goes around, comes around.
You reap what you sow.
Don't judge me unless you've walked in my shoes.
Having a bad day, then I tell myself that tomorrow's another day.

LizzieDrip Wed 14-Jul-21 13:36:05

Live in the present moment.
The past is gone and can’t be undone.
The future is unknown.
The present is all we have.

knspol Wed 14-Jul-21 13:28:31

My dad always used to tell me not to judge others unless I'd walked in their shoes, something I try to remember but don't always succeed.
Love the inner beauty/lipstick quote Oopsadaisy1.

nexus63 Wed 14-Jul-21 13:21:32

if it's for you it won't go by you, i even said this to my consultant when he told me i had cancer, a few weeks ago i said it to another consultant when told i had cancer again but a different type.

Aepgirl Wed 14-Jul-21 13:17:01

Don’t panic about a bit of dust I. The house - nobody gets a medal for housework.

lilydily9 Wed 14-Jul-21 13:12:31

If you obey all the rules, you'll miss all the fun.

Notsooldat75 Wed 14-Jul-21 13:10:36

Quite agree, dogsmother, “To thine own self be true”

Grandyma Wed 14-Jul-21 13:09:02

Least said, soonest mended.

Sheilasue Wed 14-Jul-21 13:02:04

Short ???❤️

Sheilasue Wed 14-Jul-21 13:01:11

Life’s to shirt to peel a grape.

Nanamar Wed 14-Jul-21 12:57:03

Let go or be dragged

Infinity2 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:55:08

Tattygran14 - love that quote - Sudden prayers make God jump !
I’m always on my hot line to the Lord so He must be a nervous wreck by now !

Oofy Wed 14-Jul-21 12:51:25

An old Christmas cracker joke; I asked my father what it meant, he said stick it on the Scrabble box, you'll understand it when you are older; its' still on the Scrabble box 60-odd years later:
"Our necessities are few but our wants are endless"
Our old school caretaker wrote in my autograph book when that was a craze:
"This above all, to thine own self be true"
From one of the "Katy" series of books by Susan Coolidge, read when I was a girl, about a mother who worried about her children's heads being knocked off on a barge going under a low bridge:
"She lived through a thousand disasters while dreading the one that never happened"
Often think of all three of those.

pen50 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:48:05

There is no such thing as too much garlic.

May explain why I've no friends...

Notagranny44 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:47:55

Mine is "Blessed is she that expecteth nothing, for she shall not be disappointed!".

tattygran14 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:40:30

Sudden prayers make God jump.

Mamma7 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:34:50

On a lighter note - the light at the end of the tunnel probably means a train is coming…

nannypiano Wed 14-Jul-21 12:33:01

A black nurse on night duty when I was in hospital had to get me to the toilet a few times a night. I felt so guilty troubling her. When I kept apologising, she would always say "Don't worry be happy". I loved it when she was on duty. Lovely lady.

Infinity2 Wed 14-Jul-21 12:29:57

kwest - I completely agree.
There’s enough sorrow in the world without adding to it, and we can avoid the less than desirable characters in our life without behaving like them.

Secondwind Wed 14-Jul-21 12:29:38

Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.

Kartush Wed 14-Jul-21 12:22:47

To really see, look with your heart not with your eyes

LauraNorder Wed 14-Jul-21 12:12:17

Orlin’s motto
If at first you don’t succeed try doing it the way the wife suggested.