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Wedding gift

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mama1 Sun 25-Jul-21 21:43:30

Dh and I have been invited to a wedding but are unable to go due to other commitments. The couple who are getting married have asked for money towards their honeymoon and as we have not been to any weddings for some time, we have absolutely no idea how much we should give them. We do not see this couple very often and we are not particularly close to them but we do very much appreciate that they thought to invite us. I'd really welcome any advice on what would be a suitable amount to give them!

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GillT57 Tue 27-Jul-21 23:26:07

I agree that it is rather crass to ask for cash specifically for a honeymoon, but most weddings we have attended over the past few years have requested cash, if possible, to put towards something special as they have all the everyday stuff they need. One couple used the cash gifts to buy a rather nice original watercolour. Those who request specific amounts are vulgar beyond belief.

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Kim19 Wed 28-Jul-21 06:06:07

Gosh, people are so perverse. For our wedding, 54 years ago, we requested 'just bring yourselves. No gifts required'. We were inundated with lovely gifts and some cash. Our guests simply couldn't handle it. Funny old world!

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Shropshirelass Wed 28-Jul-21 09:41:38

Just give what you can afford and are comfortable with. It is always difficult when you give money rather than a gift. The couple should be pleased with whatever you are able to give.

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