She should have what she likes..When i remarried, id bought a wedding dress from a charity shop,it came as a tophalf & skirt half, but cream satin with trim,i had it taken up & in on the sleeve 'holes' but when i got it back it was too tight,and too late to change it, so a few of us went to local debenhams bridal and the girls/ ladies were getting accessories for their outfits, as i looked through the wedding dresses or separate top halves that they stocked.But id found nothing, so they all went to wait for the bus while i had a quick look on other racks of prom dresses- and there it was- the most perfect long darkish RED prom ballgown perfect for me as a long full length wedding dress! (Im only short) it had a full skirt and was a strapless style (even had straps if i wanted to add them) and a tiny train at £99 was a bargain! I bought it quickly and didn't show anyone what I'd bought- later i just put a couple of stitches in the darts underarms and the next day at my wedding everyone was so surprised it was a red dress, but suited me perfectly and looked stunning.It still fitted in with our colourway too as original dress 'top' had red trim so I'd worked the colourway around that, as it was an autumn wedding. I gave other dress back to charity shop. And after a few years donated the red one too.