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phoenix Fri 06-Aug-21 17:14:54

To see that Mawbe had posted a birthday message to me on Wednesday 4th August!

I had quite a few surprises that day!smile When Mr P opened the front door to let Oliver Sprout in (he was rather a soggy moggy, his own fault for for going out in the rain. He does it because he likes being rubbed dry!)

But I digress. Mr P said "I think you'd better come and have a look. So being in an affable sort of mood, I did.

Well, you could have knocked me down with a Tena Lady wrapper!

There was a cluster of balloons with helium numbers 6 &3 attached, a rather small balloon arch (handy if you were expecting a visit from a troop of little people, which I believe is the correct term to use, and a good hostess should always be ready to cater for all types of guest. None arrived though.confused ) and a beautiful plant.

Later a friend arrived with a delicious apple and almond tray bake, complete with candles and sparklers! grin, then another friend with flowers and champagne!

I had lots of cards (more than usual) and Mr P cooked a delicious mealsmile

It really was a fabulous birthday, which was great, because you see it will be my last.

I was diagnosed with terminal cancer back in mid December and despite the best efforts of all staff involved, the prognosis given during my last consultation in July, was that I had about 3 months sad

I won't bore you with details of the various treatments I had, but will reassure you that I'm still pottering about and enjoying what I do.smile

Please don't inundate me with PM's. I would feel that I had to respond to each one,and my time and energy have to be used carefully these days (quite interesting planning ones own funeral though wink ) but I will read any posts on this thread.

With love, and every good wish for a successful gammon at Christmas!

phoenix

xxxxw

Marydoll Wed 18-Aug-21 11:29:36

Our beloved Phoenix passed away early this morning, in the loving arms of family and her two close friends. Please see the updated thread and in future post all comments there.
It becomes confusing, when two threads are running about the same thing.
Thank you all for all your kind and loving posts.

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299918-Phoenix-An-updated-Thre

Callistemon Tue 17-Aug-21 23:00:32

kittylester

Aren't we lucky to have 'known' her for so long.

Yes, she has certainly enriched our lives

muse Tue 17-Aug-21 21:48:12

I think perhaps that I am amongst many of the newer GNers that will have come back a few times to this thread. I discovered it on Sunday thanks to a nudge in this direction and am discovering more and more about Phoenix, thanks to those who followed her posts and got to know her very well.

Tonight I took Phoenix's advice and watched Pata Pata. A few of you have mentioned it too. Thank you for the link Riverwalk.

I shall follow the update thread but keep popping back here.

kittylester Tue 17-Aug-21 12:05:51

Aren't we lucky to have 'known' her for so long.

glammanana Tue 17-Aug-21 11:41:22

Such a special lady is our Phoenix so many stories which had your sides splitting with laughter about Mr P's escapades,what a lady she is she will be missed by everyone on GN we have known each other since day one I think and although we didn't pm as much the past few years I will always treasure her friendship specially when she was looking for a giant tie -back for her door curtain years ago and with me working in a charity shop I found one for her you would think I had sent her the crown jewels she was so grateful such a wonderful lady.I feel so sad and hope that she is comfortable surrounded by her loving family and her precious cats xxx

Granny23 Tue 17-Aug-21 10:27:18

No words only flowers thanks

Auntieflo Tue 17-Aug-21 09:32:53

I am another who missed this thread, thinking it was possibly about even more family troubles.
How wrong could I be.
Dear Phoenix, you keep us on our toes even now.
Much love and gentle hugs to you and your family.

BlueBelle Tue 17-Aug-21 08:18:14

Phoenix♥️

seacliff Tue 17-Aug-21 08:16:08

So sad. I know many of us always welcome the appearance of another very unique and identifiable Phoenix thread title. Yep, that will be Phoenix we think, and we are usually right. You certainly have your own inimitable style dear Phoenix, a very special funny lady. Gransnet will not be the same without you.

Wishing you peace now. Loving thoughts to you and Mr P, and all your family. xx

Marydoll Tue 17-Aug-21 07:25:49

This is the link to the new thread.

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/a1299918-Phoenix-An-updated-Thread

NanKate Tue 17-Aug-21 07:23:16

What a sad sad situation. However this heartfelt thread has highlighted Phoenix’s unique personality ?

downtoearth Mon 16-Aug-21 19:51:12

Been here since almost beginning.
Followed ,* Phoenix* as another parent who had lost a child to suicide.
You will be missed * phoenix* for your sense of humour,and your bravery.
I hope you feel at peace,and not in any pain,sending my very best wishes and thoughts to you DTE

M0nica Mon 16-Aug-21 19:33:01

Posted early on, but not since, because faced with the news Phoenix gave us, what could one say, but I have been following it every day, often with tears in my eyes. Sometimes life is a bitch.

Marydoll Mon 16-Aug-21 19:28:16

Now addicted to Josephine Solitaire, thanks to Phoenix!

Curlywhirly Mon 16-Aug-21 18:54:03

kittylester

Lovely posts here for our phoenix.

Just thought you should know that she is not up to reading gn and hasn't been for a few days but she does know about everyone's lovely thoughts.

Oh kittylester how sad that phoenix is not up to reading gn - she is obviously really poorly. Have been hoping against hope that she would be fine for quite a while yet. Life is so unfair at times.

kittylester Mon 16-Aug-21 18:08:20

deedaa flowers

Deedaa Mon 16-Aug-21 15:23:16

kittylester this is sounding so like DH. Two years today since he died and the internet was always his lifeline until he could no longer read his messages. Please keep us in touch, so many people are thinking about her.

SusieB50 Mon 16-Aug-21 14:53:09

I too missed this thread from being away and no access to WiFi or 4G for a while . I rarely post but usually read posts most days , so sad to hear about Phoenix , I love her sense of humour and hilarious stories . Wishing her a peaceful time with her family , a much loved poster .

Marydoll Mon 16-Aug-21 14:49:38

There will be a new thread, as I am aware many have missed her sad news. Typical of Phoenix to not put her name in the title. However, the thread will probably be started by another poster, who is the direct and very supportive link between Phoenix's family and her friends. That's where you should be able to find news.
Until a week ago, Phoenix was still entertaining a few us with her inimitable and no nonsense take on life.

Sadly there will be no miracles.

merlotgran Mon 16-Aug-21 14:37:37

Good idea JulieNoted. I often miss a thread because I don’t recognise the content from the title.

So sorry to read that Phoenix is not well enough to read our messages but how lovely that she was able to write one last funny post describing her birthday.

Gransnet will be an emptier place without her.

JulieNoted Mon 16-Aug-21 13:46:41

KittyLester I am so sad to read this. Poor Phoenix, it's so wrong, so unfair, she's always been so full of life sad. She is in my thoughts constantly, I keep hoping for a miracle too SueDonim

Marydoll, do you think it may be an idea to start a thread entitled something like Please see this thread about Phoenix and give the link in the first post? Would that be allowed do you think?

GrannyGravy13 Mon 16-Aug-21 13:42:46

Holding you in my heart and prayers dear Phoenix

Thinking of Mr.P and their friends and family ?

Marydoll Mon 16-Aug-21 13:32:40

Such a sad day, Kitty. Many, who know Phoenix have missed this thread, I hope we can keep it going, to alert as many posters as possible.

SueDonim Mon 16-Aug-21 13:31:02

That’s very sad, KittyLester. I am hoping for a miracle for Phoenix - this all seems so wrong. ?

Kalu Mon 16-Aug-21 13:00:50

Thank you kitty. So sad knowing time is running out for our dear friend. Loved by so many as this thread shows. ❤️