To see that Mawbe had posted a birthday message to me on Wednesday 4th August!
I had quite a few surprises that day!
When Mr P opened the front door to let Oliver Sprout in (he was rather a soggy moggy, his own fault for for going out in the rain. He does it because he likes being rubbed dry!)
But I digress. Mr P said "I think you'd better come and have a look. So being in an affable sort of mood, I did.
Well, you could have knocked me down with a Tena Lady wrapper!
There was a cluster of balloons with helium numbers 6 &3 attached, a rather small balloon arch (handy if you were expecting a visit from a troop of little people, which I believe is the correct term to use, and a good hostess should always be ready to cater for all types of guest. None arrived though.
) and a beautiful plant.
Later a friend arrived with a delicious apple and almond tray bake, complete with candles and sparklers! 
, then another friend with flowers and champagne!
I had lots of cards (more than usual) and Mr P cooked a delicious meal
It really was a fabulous birthday, which was great, because you see it will be my last.
I was diagnosed with terminal cancer back in mid December and despite the best efforts of all staff involved, the prognosis given during my last consultation in July, was that I had about 3 months 
I won't bore you with details of the various treatments I had, but will reassure you that I'm still pottering about and enjoying what I do.
Please don't inundate me with PM's. I would feel that I had to respond to each one,and my time and energy have to be used carefully these days (quite interesting planning ones own funeral though 
) but I will read any posts on this thread.
With love, and every good wish for a successful gammon at Christmas!
phoenix
xxxxw
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Hello, Phoenix! Happy birthday - have some 
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I’m shocked at your health news, I had no idea, and thought you were just ‘resting’ as they say in the acting world. I hope that the medics have got it wrong and that you stay with us for a good while yet. And please give Oliver Sprout a face-smoosh from me! Xxx
Dear Phoenix, I hope you enjoy your remaining time with your family, surrounded by their love and care.
I’m so pleased you had such a lovely birthday, please accept belated
You have brought such a lot of joy to so many people on here, including me, with your love of life, witty comments, and ability to see the fun side of things.
I hope you had a big slice of that delicious traybake after eating the dinner Mr P made for you.
Sending love and hugs to you.
I was so pleased to see that you had posted Phoenix and so sad to read your news. I wish you peace of mind and every possible comfort and care. Warmest thoughts to you and your family.
Phoenix I really want to come and give you a gentle hug. We're all going to miss you and your quirky sense of humour so much.
So pleased you had a lovely birthday with Mr P and your friends, sending you love and gentle thoughts
xxx
So sorry to read this, I don't post much but I read a lot and have always very much enjoyed your posts
Your birthday sounds just perfect
Take care, sending kindest thoughts to you and yours
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