We’re are you popular at school?

I was rather like you, Lillie

I was the sort of girl others would have hated. Those were words spoken by my teacher to my mother. Pretty, clever, sporty, funny, popular.

Sounded a right goody 2 shoes. What they didn't know was in fact I was rather wild but hid it well.

I was so small for my age so never picked for any of the sports teams. I then got chosen as a Prefect which I hated but brought out my bossy side so generally I was pretty unpopular. Always amazed how much the GC love it.

oh gosh i am going to spoil this thread and say i was very popular at school

i was told it was because i didn't ruffle any feathers
though a few posters on gn might not agree

i always won competitions and prizes but i had the ability to laugh at myself
i even left a swimming trophy on the bus once

i was head girl and had a beautiful silver badge the same as one i saw recently being sold in a vintage auction for 50 quid

my report said a born leader but i never got to run the country

not boasting just trying to work out to whom i owe the credit

I don't remember any of the 'popular' girls who weren't the prettiest. Looks seemed to win out over brains, personality or sporting prowess. Looks attracted th

No i wasn`t tbh,i also hated school.
I went to an all girls secondary school and was treated awful by the teachers as were most of the girls there.
My mom said i needn`t go back as we were moving to a different area in two weeks.
Much nicer, and the teachers were lovely.
But i still wasn`t popular except for a lovely Welsh maths teacher who`s name was Mr Graham Leggasic who treated me with such kindness.

Maggiemaybe, we were never invited to take a second exam for entry into grammar school. The standard of education we received was so poor I doubt we would ever have caught up academically in a grammar school.
Blossoming , thank you for that - makes me feel better! All water well under the bridge now and I have done ok . Still a sore point for me though . Not a big deal in the grand scheme if things but I was very happy my children were not subjected to the sane injustice.

No I wasn't largely because I lived in a council house and had moved to this little seaside town from the East End of London - talk about a sore thumb with a rough accent. I was bright too so that made me even more unpopular. All the other girls lived in the posher areas and teachers actively sought them out for parts in plays, choir solos, teams, prefects etc. It was a good grammar school education and I benefited from it but it made me very aware of inequality

No, not unpopular either, but considered odd by both peers and teachers, so a bit of a outsider.

Fortunately, there was someone else like me and we became good friends and remain so to this day.

Judging a child of 11 on one mornings test was so unfair!!! The 11+ examination had ruined many lives.

Some recent posts on my Facebook Old Girls' group reminded me that there were 12+, 13+ and 14+ exams for entry to my grammar school. I wonder how many educational authorities offered these? DH is pretty certain that the 11+ was your only chance to get into grammar school in his area. My school had a designated form in each year for the girls who joined us later - I'm assuming they had different lessons to catch them up with the curriculum.

To answer the question, I'd say I was one of the popular ones at my small primary school, but tootled along with my own friends, like Niobe, at secondary level, and was very happy with that. I was never going to be head girl!

No. I was very rebellious so only a few like minded girls put up with me! (It was an all girls school)

No but I don't think it bothered me either! I was always very happy being who I was and doing what I did. One of my sons is very much like me too (though they are all free spirits to be honest) but he just doesn't care what people think of him or about fitting in. Not in an arrogant way, he is a very kind and thoughtful soul but he just doesn't feel the need to do things just to be part of something.

I'm not sure this makes sense

I went to a rather posh grammar Shelflife. I couldn’t wait to leave either!

To respond to the question - yes I was quite popular in school .

School- couldn't wait to leave. I too attended a secondy modern school - the 11+ was the most unjust method of assessment. My sister and I both 'failed'. Brother went to Grammer school. My sister had a senior position as a special needs teacher , I taught adults with special needs. Took my degree in Manchester as a mature student and gained a first ! Failing the 11+ damaged my self confidence. I am not against streaming in schools or against private education for those that can afford and want it for their children. Judging a child of 11 on one mornings test was so unfair!!! The 11+ examination had ruined many lives .

I attended a girl’s school and was not one of the popular ones but I wasn’t unpopular either and that suited me just fine! I liked tootling along quietly with my own friends.

When I was 45 I applied for a place at teacher training and did not expect things to be any different as most of the students were much younger than me but , without putting myself forward, I was voted for as Student Rep on to the board that ran the college. The person who proposed me said that I always had something interesting to say! Someone else said that I always asked good questions and that was why she wanted to be in my group during tutorials. Thoroughly enjoyed that time of my life!

No, I was always the odd one out too, something which has stayed with me all my life. Never fitted in...

No, I’m always the odd one out.

I put were, honest… don’t want to be jumped on from a great height!! ?