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Calendargirl Mon 09-Aug-21 18:28:29

Spinster.

Makes me visualise a thin, grey-haired, timid, sad lady.

Very out dated for today’s hip young singletons.

Iwtwab12bow Tue 10-Aug-21 16:01:39

Crevice, forbid, punish,dictate,expert, influencer,glutton, hilarious, " sorry for your loss ", " let's join hands", Emma Thompson.

sluttygran Tue 10-Aug-21 16:01:29

I dislike the word soporific.
I thinks it's because a person I know uses it instead of 'sleepy'.
He thinks it sounds posh, but of course he's using it incorrectly.
I have to say that he 'properly gets on my nerves', another phrase I dislike intensely.grin

Daisend1 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:56:16

Without hesitation the F word has to be the one I despise most. Although an action carried out by both human and animal life never the less hearing it used so much as an 'expression' makes me cringe .

ElderlyPerson Tue 10-Aug-21 15:52:55

Notsooldat75

‘Widow’ for me ( I actually am one, too!)
Also ‘thigh’, ‘moist’ and people who start every sentence with ‘So….’

What I think is very wrong is how some official forms try to force widows and widowers to identify as single.

Where I worked for some time the rule was hat people were listed as Single or Married, but someone who was Widowed or Divorced could opt, if the person so chose, to be listed as Widowed or Divorced. That seemed to me a sensible and humane way to do things. Even if the widowed person gets exactly the same benefit as a person who has never married it would be humane to not try to force a widow to declare herself as single if she does not want to do so.

cb1963 Tue 10-Aug-21 15:46:26

Quirky is one that grates on me, seems to be a favourite on the antique shows.

Greciangirl Tue 10-Aug-21 15:46:06

So, Meat, and what does the S word stand for? Anyone!,

Esspee Tue 10-Aug-21 15:44:28

Interesting that moist heads the list so far. It has no unpleasant connotations for me. I like my cakes and meat to be moist and juicy.
Surprising that the word lavatory features. W.C.(water closet) and lavatory are the proper terms (as used by the Royal family for example). Common as muck people use the term toilet, or so my mother always said and we were working class. Personally I couldn't care less though I do find the American term rest room annoying.

blondenana Tue 10-Aug-21 15:11:27

JaneJudge i watched it too, and cringed a bit,also grease is similiar language wise
I sometimes have subtitles on and only realised what some of the actual lyrics were when i read them
Would not be allowed today
Please don't let them be banned though love those films

Newatthis Tue 10-Aug-21 15:04:59

Fart - (can i say this!) I really don't like this word.

MawBe Tue 10-Aug-21 14:46:08

Notsooldat75

‘Widow’ for me ( I actually am one, too!)
Also ‘thigh’, ‘moist’ and people who start every sentence with ‘So….’

I agree about widow
For reasons I still don’t understand I had to fill in my marital status for a restaurant loyalty/discount card not long after DH died .?
That was the first and last time I ticked “widowed”
Now I tick “married” if I have to opt for anything

MawBe Tue 10-Aug-21 14:43:11

Georgesgran

We are having a local dispute at the moment and have involved our local Councillor - Mr Bill Moist!

Lucky he’s William and not Richard ?

hollysteers Tue 10-Aug-21 14:32:22

Grandma70s?

Sloegin Tue 10-Aug-21 14:31:50

Granda. It's commonly used in Scotland and N.Ireland to refer ro a grandfather. In my family it was always Grandpa but I only recently realised we were unusual in using that name. I'm not keen on nana or nanny either. Prefer Granny.

Grandma70s Tue 10-Aug-21 14:28:19

The term ‘non-U’, meaning not upper class, was in fact coined by Professor Alan Ross in an academic paper, but was popularised by Nancy Mitford.

Grandma70s Tue 10-Aug-21 14:21:14

We were not allowed to say toilet either at school or at home. It had to be lavatory.

I dislike the use of the words nanny, nana etc for grandmother. A nanny is either a female goat or a nursemaid. I didn’t hear it used in my childhood, but it seems to be used a lot now.

rowyn Tue 10-Aug-21 14:11:21

Amazing. Isn't it amazing how many things / people/ events/ are amazing!

Georgesgran Tue 10-Aug-21 14:08:28

We are having a local dispute at the moment and have involved our local Councillor - Mr Bill Moist!

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 14:02:40

Ah, thank you.
You're the first person to ever answer that. smile

hollysteers Tue 10-Aug-21 14:01:18

Non U; words which designate people of lower social stations.
Coined by the snob Nancy Mitford.
My mother in law was scathing about toilet etc.
I could go on and on……..

annifrance Tue 10-Aug-21 13:58:37

Lost, passed, passed away, passed over. Or any euphemism for dead, died or death.

MissAdventure Tue 10-Aug-21 13:56:39

Now there is a phrase I dislike intensely.
What does "non U" even mean?

hollysteers Tue 10-Aug-21 13:54:59

Certainly agree with amazing.
Although disliked, lavatory is the U word, toilet definitely non U. and frock is U not dress. (If we care ?)

Granny23 Tue 10-Aug-21 13:54:59

Hemorrhage - horrible word for a horrible experience.

annifrance Tue 10-Aug-21 13:41:16

Speculum? Isn't that a French biscuit?

Chaitriona Tue 10-Aug-21 13:41:03

Bluebell. Yes! Hun, hubby, fur baby.