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Babies being given unusual names.

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Quizzer Sat 09-Oct-21 10:47:04

My parents gave me a very unusual name. I’m not putting it here as it’s so unusual it might give my identity away.
It is a real name, probably Irish in origin but it doesn’t have a weird Gaelic spelling. It’s very like a similar male name and several other girls names, so why can’t people pronounce it correctly. Similar to Camilla, most people pronounce it either like Cameeela or even Camillaaah!
I have enjoyed it being unique but I feel sorry for all the children given odd names or odd spellings. They will spend the rest of their lives correcting pronunciation and spelling out their names.
Anyone else out there with the same thoughts?

Callistemon Tue 19-Oct-21 17:04:47

Actually it’s not just unusual names that need spelling!
Think of Lindsey.

With an ‘a’ or an ‘e’?
With or without a ‘d’?
An ‘s’ or a ‘z’ with perhaps a ‘y’ or an ‘i’ at the end?

grin Urmstongran

I always think of Lindsey with an e is female, Lindsay with an a is male (I have met both)
I also met a Linsey and a Linzi!

annsixty Tue 19-Oct-21 17:41:06

My S had a girlfriend many years ago whose name was Sheila, I suppose it still is.
One of my friends who always thought herself a cut above everyone else announced one day that her Son had a new girlfriend whose name was Shelagh, NOT the common spelling as my S’s girlfriend had.

welbeck Tue 19-Oct-21 19:15:07

? a better class of sheilas; were they ozzie ?

valdali Tue 19-Oct-21 19:26:36

I do feel a bit sorry for the teachers in reception who have to remember all the children's names really quickly. Must have been easier when you had a couple of James, a couple of Katies, Emmas Gemmas Jacks. The newest babies all seem to have names that haven't been used before so Ardens & Eiras & Navys & Aliunas & Nevas & Kalia-Raes & Treys. However do they remember them all? I would have struggled even with the traditional names.Do like unusual names though & wish I'd been more imaginative naming my own.

M0nica Tue 19-Oct-21 19:52:56

As 'sheila' is a name of Irish origin. Shelagh is probably nearer to the original spelling.

This happened a lot in the late 19th century in England. Caitlin became Kathleen; Mairin became Maureen, Noirin became Noreen, Sile became Sheila.

The Anglicisation of foreign names, which we do to this day.

Callistemon Tue 19-Oct-21 20:01:42

I do know a Sheelagh - perhaps her mother wanted to make sure people knew it was Sheela

I know two women called Eira too, it's Welsh, but I haven't come across any little Eiras so far.

Caoimhe anyone?

Beswitched Tue 19-Oct-21 22:10:29

Caoimhe is an Irish name and reasonably popular in Ireland at the moment. It's pronounced Kweeva.

Callistemon Tue 19-Oct-21 22:30:12

? Yes

I expect someone somewhere has spelt it Kweeva.
Neeve and Shivawn are not that uncommon!

Rosina Tue 19-Oct-21 22:35:31

I knew of a lady who was the youngest daughter in a huge family, and her parents had run out of ideas, so she was registered and Christened 'Girl'.

CanadianGran Tue 19-Oct-21 23:12:18

I find that great-grandparents names are coming back in style. We used to tease that my MIL's sisters sounded so old fashioned; Mary, Millie and Nellie. Now those names are very popular again.

Grandparents will have to wait a generation I think. No babies with Susan, Debbie, Cathy, Linda or Pam that I have heard of recently!

My family is mixture of French/British, so my parents tried to pick names that could be pronounced in both. My sister Martine always hated her name because she was the only one around, always had to spell it, and my parents berated her for not rolling her r's properly. Granted it does sound much nicer with a french accent, but it is more common now, and she has grown to accept it.

Beswitched Wed 27-Oct-21 14:49:09

There's a thread running on mumsnet at the moment about the name Shay, and some posters are dismissing it as chavvy and common.
This is seriously annoying Irish posters who are pointing out that names like Shay, short for Séamus, and Liam and Conor, also regularly regarded as 'common' on mumsnet, are actually perfectly respectable and traditional Irish names.

I have to admit, as an Irish person, it does rile me when our lovely old names such as Kevin and the ones I've mentioned become really popular in England and then seem to acquire a chavvy reputation.

grannysyb Wed 27-Oct-21 15:37:59

My DGS has a name which is quite a common boys name in Ireland, but a girls name in the US.

NotTooOld Wed 27-Oct-21 18:07:00

I was given an unusual first name and we also had an unusual surname, so I was often having to spell both. Also, the two names did not really run together. I was teased at school about both my names and dreaded the first day of a new school year when the teacher went round the room asking our names. When I said my name the whole class tittered and, as a shy little girl, I was so embarrassed. My parents were lovely and I'm sure had I told them they would have done something about it. When I left school I changed to using my second name which helped me but now my parents are gone I sometimes wonder if they were upset about that as I never asked them. When I had my own babies I gave them simple (but nice) names that no-one could tease them about. I think children are not so cruel these days as many of them have unusual names and (hopefully) no-one laughs at them.