Good Morning Monday 18th October 2021

Oh dear....... So so sorry.... Sending you much love......

Thinking of you harrigran.

If he can't be nursed at home, he will have to move to a nursing home. I am sad for you Harrigran sending hugs.

I am so sorry to hear this Harrigran but a nursing home is the answer and your DH and you will feel safer.

What a difficult day, among many hard days for you harrigran.
I am thinking of you, with warm regards.

Your husband wants what’s best for you harri, you want the best for him. A really difficult decision for you both. Being a wife rather than a carer will be a wonderful thing I’m sure but I do understand how difficult today has been. .

What a wonderfully selfless man is your DH! You couldn't have done more for him but you health is important, too. You'll have peace of mind in knowing he is being cared for whilst still enjoying his company at any time when you visit.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Harrigran,how brave he is thinking of you when he is so ill.

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Harrigran thinking of you

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Very sad news harri, but it is for the best, and a blessing in disguise. In time you would have worn yourself out caring for him, and that would be of no help to either of you. Time for you now to make some more happy memories with your dear DH.

?For Harrigran at this sad and difficult time

Harri, I am sad that it has come to this but relieved for you. You can now go back to being a wife. And, what a lovely thing for your DH to do for you.

Dear harrigran, so hard for you but once twenty-four hour care is necessary there really isn’t a choice - no one person can do it all, as I am finding out. Hope the right place is available so you can share the load.

Dear Harrigran. My heart goes out to you. On paper (and in time) it is the right decision but will feel all wrong. Is there anyone around to support you? As others have said, you should be able to visit and be his partner again rather than nurse. You have done an amazing job. You could not have done more.

harrigran I'm so sorry your DH will leave the home you have together but it seems the right decision. It's become an increasing struggle for you and you need to keep going. I hope you both have more companionable times together now.

Oh harrigran my heart goes out to you, what a difficult decision to make and you must be feeling so sad and upset
Sending you much love and support ❤️

So sorry that’s it’s come to this harrigran. A difficult decision to make but I hope the right one for both of you.

Oh, harrigran, what a dreadful decision to have to take, however rational. My heart goes out to you. You are all certainly in our prayers this end. Much love ? ❤️

Sending hugs to Harrigran

Such a difficult time for you both. ?

That is such a hard decision Harrigran but your husband needs the care and you can be his wife , not running ragged as his carer ! How brave of him to agree xxx

Very very difficult time for you harrigran but nursing home care would give you more time and energy for just being with your DH

Very sad harrigran and so hard for you both, in my thoughts.