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Good Morning Saturday 8th January 2022

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Michael12 Sat 08-Jan-22 06:04:28

Good Morning Everyone,
Its a dark, and a wet morning here in brackley this morning.
Todays plans are to go via Buckingham to Bicester and return direct .
I will have a breakfast bap in the bakery cafe I use in Bicester plus a coffee ,and then a small shop.
Later I will have my usual Saturday Chinese , mind you I wanted my regular Fish & Chip shop take away yesterday , but it was closed due to a family member having Covid .
Take Care,
Mick

Grandmajean Sat 08-Jan-22 08:32:06

Good morning from Cheshire.
Sorry to hear Gingster that some cancer cells remain after your daughter's mole removal. There will be a plan to get rid of the rest of them I'm sure. Best wishes.
What a lovely way to remember a lost baby Stilllearning
I can hear rain outside so won't be going far today. No shopping needed so will only go for a walk if it clears up.
Enjoyed your chatty post Urmstongran

Urmstongran Sat 08-Jan-22 08:33:11

Here we go. ?

GrannyGravy13 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:38:34

Morning Mick and all

It’s grey and damp outside in S E Essex.

Gingster your DD is really going through a rough time with her mole, I do hope it’s sorted soon ?

Dear Urmstongran your delight in being back in Spain shone through your post, enjoy your paseo stroll and the sparkling Mediterranean.

Will pop down the other end of my road to the butchers and Sainsbury’s local this morning, after that the sofa is reserved for me and my book…

(((Hugs))) to all our.morning friends with troubles ??Hope your RA consult when ok Marydoll

Keep safe and well folks ?‍♀️?

baubles Sat 08-Jan-22 08:42:14

Good morning Mick, morning all from South Lanarkshire. Looks like it has been raining but there’s still a lot of ice and frozen snow on our street.

Stilllearning flowers

Sorry to hear that you have had a bad night Mattie, lack of sleep makes everything more difficult.

I took your advice yesterday Kalu, see photo smile.

I really hope I’m going to be well enough to start my new job on Monday, I think my chest feels lighter this morning, hard to tell till I start moving.

Wishing everyone a peaceful day.

Anniebach Sat 08-Jan-22 08:42:30

Good morning Auntyflo and all x

Urmstongran Sat 08-Jan-22 08:44:31

Thank you Grandmajean. I know my posts can be a bit much for some. It’s certainly not ‘where I live and the weather’.
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I’m very sorry to hear that wider margins will need to be taken from your daughter Gingster. Upsetting for your family but soon all will be well and she will be allowed to heal. x

That was poignant Stilllearning about the baby and cherry blossom. I’d not heard that before. ?

Chrissielou Sat 08-Jan-22 08:48:00

It is a grey, wet and cold morning in our rural West Oxfordshire village. Soup making for me too this morning, more batch cooking for DD and children and a chilly walk with dog. Will light the fire this afternoon and brighten a dark dismal day with candles and firelight.
Thoughts go to those who are finding life a struggle, it is sad to hear that there are so many mums in the same position as I am, with AC and DsiL going through such difficult times and facing treatment we never imagined they would need to endure. I want to thank those who have reached out and shown me such kindness, I'm so grateful.

Marydoll Sat 08-Jan-22 08:49:18

Good morning all from a very wet Glasgow.

Thanks Pants and Urms for the travel insurance info. The query arose after DH and I were having a conversation about whether travel insurance covers Covid or do you pay extra. Unfortunately, it won't affect us, since none of the specialist insurers will insure me nowadays!
Tiggy, I have a small watchmakers toolkit, which has a tool for opening backs, but have one cheap watch, I have never been able to open.

Thank you to all to those kind Goodmorningers who wished me well for my appointment, I was a bit overwhelmed, to say the least.
Unsurprisingly our trip yesterday was horrendous, two hours to travel 12 miles. DH said it was the worst driving conditions, he had experienced in twenty years! The road hadn’t been gritted and cars were sliding everywhere in the snow, plus it was dark and snowing. We saw the first gritter on our way home at 11.30 am. ? I'm guessing staff shortages due to Covid are the cause.
The dreaded junction was gridlocked, we counted six traffic light changes there and no-one moved at all. When the lights changed again, DH ended up facing sideways! ?
We had three near misses, I have never been so scared in my life. Poor unflappable DH was chalk white. He was determined to get me to my appointment. #myhero

To make matters worse, I had the first appointment, but when I tried to phone the hospital to say what had happened, my phone didn’t work, it was totally flat, despite it being on charge all night.
This is the very fraught conversation we had, after not moving for twenty minutes.

Me to DH: Where is the charging bank I gave you to keep in your car for emergencies?
DH: What charging bank?
Me: The one I bought for you to put in your car.
DH, I don’t know what you are talking about
Me –-through clenched teeth.-- Ok, where is the spare charging cable, I suggested you keep in your car? I can plug my phone into the USB port.
DH, I don’t have a charging cable in my car.
Me, very smugly I have both a cable and charging bank in MY car!
DH, well, we are in MY car and I DON’T have one.

At that point I decided that discretion was the better part of valour and zipped it! wink
However, I could have wept with frustration, since I have waited two years for this appointment and could see the hospital in the distance. So near, but yet so far.. ?

Eventually arriving at the hospital, we found only patients were being allowed in and the social distancing barriers had been reinstalled. Poor DH was not allowed to accompany me to the clinic, the security guard eventually allowed him to sit in the foyer. I got to the clinic to find there were no patients and only two nurses. The consultant was stranded somewhere in the snow, as were most of the staff.
I overheard the receptionist on the phone, saying We have one, we have a patient!.
The staff were so kind to me, as I was very flustered and breathless, saying I had nothing to apologise for. Eventually a doctor appeared and explained that my consultant was missing in action, but he was happy to see me instead.

Due to the lack of patients, I had a very lengthy appointment, so the snow had actually been an advantage.
He diagnosed a major RA flare up, explained the months of awful 'flu like symptoms were part of it and injected me with steroids there and then. His suspicion was that, as with his other immunocompromised patients, the Covid vaccines had compromised my medication and stopped it doing it’s job. In addition, he will organise and appointment for steroid injections in my elbow and hands.

It sort of went downhill after that. He agreed that I was very unwell and something untoward is going on, with either my lungs or heart, so further investigations await me. I had a huge shock when he mentioned a further heart problem, discovered after my latest heart attack, that I knew nothing about! My cardiologist had never mentioned it. ?
RA is the culprit again!

Also, he managed to persuade the short-staffed x-ray department to do some x-rays while I was there, rather than me having to come back. I have rarely come across such a courteous doctor, it was heartening to see the way he spoke to both me and his colleagues.
Curious about the sign the radiographer had put on the door of my changing cubicle, it was only later, after I came out of the cubicle, that I noticed it said Sheilding patient. Worrying, but reassuring in a perverse way to see so many Covid measures back in place.

What surprised me was that the doctor was able to tell me how many lateral flow tests I had done and mentioned the PCR I had, due to DS having Covid, advising me that I still had to be extremely careful.
I did get brownie points for trying to keep myself safe and testing often!!! The wonders of modern technology! Big Brother is indeed watching me! ?

He suggested increasing my Fentanyl patch dosage, to get some relief. I declined saying that it would make me woozy and unable to function. I burst out laughing when he said in will it make you doolally? I hadn't heard that word in years! grin
Not surprisingly it wasn't the best of news, but I am further forward than I was previously. The most important part was I could actually discuss the implications and prognosis face to face.

On the way home, we stopped off at Morrisons for a small shop, which turned into a very large one, as I haven’t been in a supermarket for some time. The shelves were quite bare, but what was there seemed to have jumped considerably in price. ?
I did get next year’s religious Christmas cards for 30p a box, a pack of vegetables for soup at 20p, a turnip for 11p, six dessert apples for 32p ( apple crumble for DH) and a few other reduced items. grin My world was back in equilibrium, I had managed to get some bargains!
I did negate my frugality, when I treated myself to flowers, a magazine and a piece of chocolate cheesecake, which definitely cost more than what I had saved! I am living for the moment!!!

Enjoy your takeaway Mick, we are having fakeaway tonight, I'm becoming quite an expert at it! ?
Special thoughts and prayers for GSomerset, such a difficult time. So many on this thread with health and family worries, I hope, as I do, you find that the friendship here is of comfort to you.
Whatever your plans, make the best of it, we never know what's ahead of us!
Please feel free to ignore and gloss over my indulging ramblings. I just need to get it out my system and don't want to worry my children, just yet.
Happy Saturday, everyone!

Jaxjacky Sat 08-Jan-22 08:51:32

Thanks for your post Urms, we can vicariously ‘share’ your trip.
Very touching Stilllearning and rather lovely ?.
Not what you wanted to hear Gingster but I’m sure there’ll be a way forward, enjoy today.

Susan56 Sat 08-Jan-22 08:55:18

Good morning from Shropshire.Heavy rain at the moment.

I had a lovely day out yesterday with DD and DGD.I enjoyed the cinema,there were only about 12 in there then onto lunch where we were the only people in the restaurant for most of the time.Then shopping.I was exhausted at the end of it all and in bed by 9!

Ash, we had a similar scenario at the church where we take Henry to playgroup.There just wasn’t enough income to keep on a permanent member of staff and his role has now been filled by several volunteers.Very sad.

Stilllearning, thinking of your DD and your family today?

Gingster, also thinking of your DD and hoping the consultants have a plan in place to sort things out as quickly as possible?

Hoping Marydoll had a successful appointment yesterday???and thoughts with Mattie and her husband?

Urms, we(me) are seriously considering a post Christmas break to Spain this year??

Thinking of GrannySomerset and her DH?and all with worries and struggles??

Susan56 Sat 08-Jan-22 09:01:26

Crossed posts Mary.Glad you were able to have a long discussion with the dr and that even though the news wasn’t all positive that you are further forward than you were?

Pittcity Sat 08-Jan-22 09:02:47

Good morning from rainy Colchester.
I've caught up with my washing and the new dehumidifier is busy drying it in the spare room. I'll check the smart meter later to see if it is as economical as claimed.
DD1 is bringing the boys over this afternoon. They can finally open their Christmas presents now that they are Covid free.
Lots of love to all ? x

FannyCornforth Sat 08-Jan-22 09:09:40

Good morning everyone.
It’s another dark, wet day in Derby.
Instead of a funny I will share a little trivia titbit.

The term doolally (as mentioned above by Mary) originates from Empirical India. (I’m doing this from memory- so, apologies, it may be a bit garbled.)

Anyway, the phrase was originally doolally tap.
There was a town or village in India called what sounds like Doolally, and it had a problem with a disease ridden water supply - which when drunk from sent you delirious.

So a person acting crazily was accused of drinking from the doolally tap.

That’s my contribution for today! smile

Wishing everyone a calm and peaceful day, and my thoughts are with those of us who are sad, worried, or poorly x

GrannySomerset Sat 08-Jan-22 09:12:37

DH died peacefully yesterday evening. I had spent time with him in the afternoon and knew he had moved out of hunan contact and am relieved it is all over for him.

Thank you to everyone who has held us in their thoughts in the past few weeks. It has made me feel so much less alone.

Nannytopsy Sat 08-Jan-22 09:13:05

Good morning Mick and all his followers.
Urms & Marydoll it’s good to catch up on all your news. It was a good opportunity to get to the bottom of things Marydoll.
DH is creating breakfast for DGC before I wash coloured chalks out of madam’s hair and try to remove the sparkles. Then lunch at a local pub followed by the Panto! They don’t really understand what a pantomime is, so men dressed as ugly sisters etc should be interesting!
Best wishes to you all

BlueSapphire Sat 08-Jan-22 09:14:04

Good morning everyone from a wet and grey Northampton, luckily I have no plans to go out today.

Caught up with a few house jobs yesterday, hoovered upstairs, a proper damp dust of the sitting room after all the decs came down, dining room still to do, then cleaned out the cats' litter tray. Then spent the afternoon reading. Have not picked up my knitting since before Christmas as I grazed my knuckle badly, and it has only just healed up.

Another day in with the papers, crosswords and my book, and will probably watch some catch-up tv this afternoon. Oh, I must put pen to paper this weekend and write a condolence note to a recently bereaved husband. Sadly his wife, my old college friend, died 4 days before Christmas. Have chosen a card to send as well.

Very envious Urms, I have eight months to wait (fingers crossed) before I see Spain (and France) on my cruise.

Thinking of those with worries and cares.

Nannytopsy Sat 08-Jan-22 09:15:30

Crossed posts GrannySomerset. Your DH is now at peace and you can grieve for the man you loved.

Jaxjacky Sat 08-Jan-22 09:15:40

My very sincere condolences GrannySomerset and a big hug?.

FannyCornforth Sat 08-Jan-22 09:16:16

GrannySomerset my heart really goes out to you. ♥️ thanks

BlueSapphire Sat 08-Jan-22 09:18:25

So sorry, Grannysomerset, I have just read your news. He will now be resting in peace; may you find peace as well at this sad time. flowersflowers

Ladyleftfieldlover Sat 08-Jan-22 09:20:54

Granny Somerset ???

Alygran Sat 08-Jan-22 09:21:01

Good morning from a very wet North Yorkshire.
GrannySomerset I am sending you a virtual hug. Look after yourself at this very sad time. I am so sorry for your loss.
Highs and lows on Gransnet today. Take care everyone. flowers

Marydoll Sat 08-Jan-22 09:21:31

GrannySomerset, a very sad time for you, but relieved to hear your husband is now at peace. It has been so hard for you. ?

A very sad day too for you and your family, Stilllearning. So much sorrow here.

Susan56 Sat 08-Jan-22 09:23:04

Our sincere condolences to you GrannySomerset?

aggie Sat 08-Jan-22 09:23:28

Good Morning, wet out , but I’m not going any further than the bin today/tomorrow/yesterday ,………. sigh
I had a phone call yesterday from an old colleague, it was great to chat . She and her parents were great friends with my family . I updated her on my connection and she filled in gaps on her side
Marydoll that was an expedition and a half ! The Doctor sounds lovely , I hope the steroids help
GrannySomerset such a sad time for you , so hard to look after yourself , try and rest , easier said than done xxx