Mildmanneredgran
All I can say is that for me, if I hadn't taken HRT, I would have been writing this from prison, where I would have been sent for murder. Sounds dramatic, but my symptoms, like so many others on this thread, were absolutely intolerable. I got my life back. As for the implications that HRT causes breast cancer, these theories have been completely discredited. I did indeed get breast cancer, but as I told my GP when he prescribed it, all the females in my family got it at around the same age, including my mum and grandmother, without HRT. The likelihood (to me, in any case) is that I would have got it anyway. The great benefit of having the breast cancer was that I went into "the system" - scanned for bone density every year, vitamin D supplements on prescription, etc. Obviously I don't consume any soya now! We are all different, however, and that should be respected.
Your experience is very valuable in helping to get rid of some of the myths and misunderstandings about HRT. Most people have heard that it has been linked to breast cancer but this was mainly because of the findings of the discredited 2002 Women's Health Initiative (WHI) trial in the USA. Things have changed since then and it is known that the risk of breast cancer is very low, less than, for example, drinking 2 glasses of wine a day, being overweight or not exercising. HRT is a choice for every woman. But it is very difficult for anyone to make that choice if they don't have the full story. This information is discussed for example, in Davina McCall's documentary on Channel 4 and can also be found on any evidence-based website, for example Dr Louise Newson's.