Many happy returns, Shinamae, GSM and Annapops 

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Such bittersweet memories, but it is important to live the best life we can in order to honour our departed loved ones. We don't know what's in front of us, so it's good to be thankful for what we have. My dear Mum always told us to count our blessings.
It was my dear brother's 53rd anniversary recently, he died aged 12, I was 13. I lost my brother and my pal, I'd never known him not being there. He could have been a father and grandfather by now, I think of him every day. My faith helps me to believe that we will all be reunited one day, that's a comfort.
Annapops, what a close bond with your wee sister, your 7th birthday present ?.
DS3 was born on DS2's 3rd birthday, they celebrated their 18th and 21st together.
Thinking of all with sorrow and sadness.
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