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Do you ever just do nothing?

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kircubbin2000 Wed 09-Feb-22 15:53:27

Was at a group this morning full of busy people. One lady even gave off to us over coffee as she wanted to get back to the activity and we were chatting too long.
I asked what they were doing later and all had about 2 or 3 more things to do, out for lunch, grandchilds concert, visiting friends etc. No one admitted to ever just sitting down to read or watch tv in the afternoon. It wasn't an age thing either as most are in late 60s and 70s. I quite often do nothing, browse internet or read.

geeljay Fri 11-Feb-22 12:37:05

Like many, I worked every single day since I was 15, some 60 years, so to do something seems normal. Life. Raised a family of 4, built up a business, sometimes working 18 hours a day, retired looked after my other half, travelled a bit, like everyone. Now fingers crossed to enjoy good health, and looking out to sea aometime each day and writing silly poems.

Kc55 Fri 11-Feb-22 14:41:08

I love just pottering around. I do a bit of this, a bit of that. Read the paper, check my emails, pay bills, read, watch rubbish TV. Now and again I bake, especially if I'm expecting callers or if I'm visiting a friend. It's bliss. I don't think I've ever been bored.
I'd hate to be dashing about - plenty of that went on in the past. And I absolutely refuse to be made to feel guilty . To each his own!

Annie2609 Fri 11-Feb-22 15:33:39

Having worked really hard most of my adult life, I love having the time to "do nothing". Reading, watching TV, looking out the window at the birds, squirrels, and even foxes, make me appreciate my free time even more, and I don't feel guilty, or at least, not very!!

Anniepanni Sat 12-Feb-22 12:11:36

I love doing nothing, I really enjoy sitting and contemplating. Or I may read a book or meditate. lt soothes me, I don’t feel guilty unless my husband is doing something, at the moment he is fitting a new bathroom!!

silverlining48 Sat 12-Feb-22 12:54:56

To my shame have only just got out of.bed. That’s how little I can do.

MissAdventure Sat 12-Feb-22 12:56:14

I'm still in mine. blush

silverlining48 Sat 12-Feb-22 13:10:56

grin

TillyTrotter Sat 12-Feb-22 13:57:41

While you are in your beds, you are saving shoe-leather .
Enjoy.

JdotJ Thu 17-Feb-22 08:45:23

Unfortunately this spills over to children who think they must always be busy, after school activities, weekend clubs etc.
There is a world of imagination in just sitting and doing nothing or reading.

Janamax Thu 17-Feb-22 10:03:47

During lockdown I learnt to do nothing because I had no choice. I pottered about in the garden, did lots of reading and drawing and painting. It was a chance for me to explore myself without the demands of the modern world imposing itself upon me.