GeorgieGirl, unless he is mentally deficient he must be able to understand an ultimatum. If you have visibly emoted on numerous occasions and he has not empathised let alone sympathised you have the moral right to tell him what you will do next, and mean it.
If you still feel affection for him after the divorce or separation it may be possible to carry on a more distant relationship.
I guess the above is not the sort of reply you need. I think I know what you are going through . Your husband could pull his weight in the marriage and is failing you.
"I leaned my back against an oak
I thought it was a trusty tree.
But first it bent and then it broke
So my true love did lichtly me."
How do you hang your washing out?
It’s been a while so I will start us off…….whats for supper and why?
