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Ijustwantpeace2020 Sat 26-Feb-22 07:33:24

Anyone know of a children’s home from the 1950s possible called the Red House and might have been somewhere in Surrey? I was there around 1956/57ish but have drawn a blank everywhere I’ve checked, including local authority records that still exist.

Whitewavemark2 Sat 26-Feb-22 07:47:22

Have you tried adjacent counties? Sorry I’m not being any help, but just a thought.

Sago Sat 26-Feb-22 08:24:53

There was a Red House home in Little Shelford Cambridgeshire.

Humbertbear Sat 26-Feb-22 08:29:40

I Googled Red House Childrens Home and came up with several answers.

Ijustwantpeace2020 Sat 26-Feb-22 09:18:03

I have tried all the ones that came up on a Google search but either the records don’t go back that far or too far away from the area I was told. Thanks for the replies though.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 26-Feb-22 09:29:31

I remember the Red House in Lt Shelford that sago mentions. Lived nearby. Were Red Houses possibly part of some organisation? I thought the one in Lt Shelford was rather like an approved school but that’s just a childhood memory and may be wrong, however there was an ‘ordinary’ children’s home in Gt Shelford (Abberley House) which didn’t suffer the same local rumour of ‘bad children’ so there might have been something in it. Not suggesting you were a juvenile delinquent OP!

Ijustwantpeace2020 Sat 26-Feb-22 14:34:44

Germanshephersmum. I was only born in 1954 so couldn’t have been that terrible!?.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 26-Feb-22 14:39:23

Oh, I don’t know …!!!?

lavendermine Sat 26-Feb-22 14:41:24

Have you tried the archives of the library in the area. I found some information about a mother and baby home I was looking for in a nearby local library.
Good luck.

kissngate Sat 26-Feb-22 17:12:29

Red Bank Community/children's home was/is in Newton le Willows, Merseyside.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 26-Feb-22 17:17:53

Good suggestion lavender. I found records of an orphanage in I think Hertfordshire which featured in my family history research in the London Metropolitan Archives. Not where I expected.

Ijustwantpeace2020 Tue 01-Mar-22 23:04:50

Thanks for replies. I’ll keep searching.

grannyactivist Tue 01-Mar-22 23:25:59

Ijustwantpeace I think you’re looking for a children’s home when, judging by your age, what you may want are details of what actually was called a Residential Nursery.

Either way, the links below should at least give you somewhere to go for more information. Local History sites are treasure troves of information and usually resourced by lovely kind people, if you contact them and explain your query they may be able to help.

www.formerchildrenshomes.org.uk/looking_for_former_children_s_homes.html

www.childrenshomes.org.uk/list/Surrey.shtml

www.exploringsurreyspast.org.uk/collections/search/?s=Residential+nursery&qa%5Bkeyword_reference_type%5D=0&qa%5Bpartner%5D&qa%5Btitle%5D&qa%5Bperson%5D&qa%5Bplace%5D&qa%5Bsubject%5D&qa%5Bformat%5D&qa%5Bidentifier%5D&qa%5Bdate_from%5D&qa%5Bdate_to%5D&cbav=2&cbadvsearchquery

welbeck Wed 02-Mar-22 02:24:59

have you checked for other areas, boundaries change.

chocolatepudding Wed 02-Mar-22 14:19:37

I grew up in Coulsdon Surrey and there was a childrens' home nearby called Reedham Orphanage. Have a look at

www.childrenshomes.org.uk/PurleyReedham/

reedhamheritage.co.uk/

Perhaps this is your former home? Best wishes with your search

Ijustwantpeace2020 Thu 03-Mar-22 23:34:32

Thank you. I’ve tried lots of places over the years and then give up searching. I’m nearly 68 so I might give it another try.

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 04-Mar-22 10:35:37

During what years would this home have existed do you think?

Ijustwantpeace2020 Fri 04-Mar-22 12:33:03

Germanshepherdsmum. I was born 1954 so I think around 56/57/58. It was before I started school as I remember being with my parents then. I could not get a straight answer from them when I found an old photo many years ago just that mum was ill and no one to look after me. Very odd as we lived with grandparents, aunt, cousins and my sister in one house. I have a distinct smell that comes to mind every now and then. Almost like hot bread and milk being given to me. The photo showed a very young me with a nurse or nun in a garden. No relatives to ask now. All very odd!

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 04-Mar-22 12:41:32

I can understand why you want to find out. It’s an important part of the jigsaw of your life. I’m sure that like me you’ve tried searching on google but there are so many children’s homes which come up in Surrey, none called Red House. There is an ole people’s home of that name and I wonder if it might previously have been a children’s home - a big Victorian house apparently. You mention that there might have been a nun in your photo, which could mean it was a religious institution. Do you remember if your Mum was Catholic or CofE? Just might narrow the search.

Ijustwantpeace2020 Sat 05-Mar-22 08:52:27

Germanshepherdsmum. My parents were both Jewish. None of it makes any sense but I suppose I’ll never find out.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 05-Mar-22 10:09:15

That might make the search a lot easier as they would I imagine have wanted to entrust your care to people of their faith. Don’t give up hope. I’ll have a rootle round when I have a moment. I love family history and a good mystery!

Elegran Sat 05-Mar-22 11:05:20

This page has a list (not comprehensive) of former children's homes, grouped by location. There are links to more details of some of them, with some photos which might trigger a memory. www.formerchildrenshomes.org.uk/1900_orphanages.html
It could have been in Sussex or Kent as well as Surrey - the three counties all meet together at one point. Many of my ancestors lived in that area, their records being under any of the three authorities, randomly. It makes it difficult to follow a line of enquiry, as they seemed to move home over the county border at frequent intervals.

Chardy Sat 05-Mar-22 11:38:04

There's a Red House Care Home in Ashtead. I don't know how long the big house has been a care home, but maybe it was a children's home in a past life.

Anarlia Tue 13-May-25 16:44:03

25 Newton Road little shellford unfortunately it shut in the 90s

NotSpaghetti Tue 13-May-25 16:56:44

I looked this up with AI looking for 1950s children's homes:

Here's what I've found:
Children's Homes in Surrey in the 1950s:
* Princess Mary Village Homes, Addlestone: While established much earlier, records indicate they were still operating in the 1950s. These homes were set up as a "village of cottage dwellings" with housemothers caring for small groups of children.
* Southern Railway Servants' Orphanage, Woking: This orphanage was functioning in the 1950s. It later became known as the Southern Railwaymen's Home for Children and Old People.
* Beechholme, Banstead: This was a large cottage home that housed many children. Personal accounts suggest it was active in the 1950s, although house names may have changed over time.
* Oakfields, Wokingham (near Surrey border): While it reportedly closed around 1956 to become a home for the elderly, it was a children's home in the early to mid-1950s.
* Woodrough, Guildford: This is listed as a children's home during this period.
* Lesslands, Godalming and Sutton Park, Guildford: Photographs from 1947-1952 held at the Surrey History Centre show these as children's homes.
* Bognor Regis, Surrey Children's Home: A photograph from around 1955 exists, suggesting a children's home with this name, although Bognor Regis is now in West Sussex. Historical county boundaries might explain this.
* Linkfield House, Redhill: While primarily a wartime nursing home for unmarried mothers, someone recalls being there as a child in 1954-1956.
Where to Find More Information:
* Surrey History Centre: This is a key resource for records related to Surrey's past, including children's homes. They hold various documents, including photographs and some registers. You can check their online catalogue.
* Exploring Surrey's Past: This website has information and user contributions about various places in Surrey, including some children's homes.
* Former Children's Homes: This website has a section where people share memories and information about former children's homes, and you might find more details there.
* The National Archives: While they primarily hold policy and administration records, their research guide on children's homes can provide context and point you towards other potential sources.
Keep in mind that records for individual children are often held by the institutions themselves (if they still exist) or in local authority archives, and these records may have restricted access due to data protection.

One of these is in Redhill, and the Beechholme consisted of several houses each with thete own name.
Maybe one of those was Red?
Bit of a long shot - but maybe.
Good luck