Vanity thy name is woman (yes I know it’s a misquote)

Grandmabatty

Fanny your comment seems rather flippant towards the OP, considering her sad news. I may have got it wrong, of course, as tone is difficult to ascertain.

I think you might have.

Grandmabatty

Fanny your comment seems rather flippant towards the OP, considering her sad news. I may have got it wrong, of course, as tone is difficult to ascertain.

We are all different of course but sometimes a bit of lightheartedness is a welcome relief in these situations. And from my experience of Fanny’s posts, she is concerned and caring. And from my experience of Lucca, she has a sense of humour

Grandmabatty

Fanny your comment seems rather flippant towards the OP, considering her sad news. I may have got it wrong, of course, as tone is difficult to ascertain.

It’s because she said that she was crying.
I was offering her a metaphorical tissue, just as I would pass her one in real life.
I also gave her ‘a massive, massive hug’ up thread.
I’ve ‘known’ Lucca for a good while.
I have sent her an email this morning.
I’m not happy at all about having to reply like this on Lucca’s thread, (sorry Lucca) but I really needed to clarify things.

Fanny your comment seems rather flippant towards the OP, considering her sad news. I may have got it wrong, of course, as tone is difficult to ascertain.

So sorry to hear this, I hope the treatment goes well, you are not being vain at all. Sending best wishes ?

Sorry to hear your news Lucca . Thinking for you.

Now you have your crown covered may I suggest go out and spend on good confortable but sexy looking underwear. You may laugh but my French friend did to feel good all over.

Here’s a tissue Lucca…

Lucca
I also have a silk bonnet for sleeping.
' There's no label on it, but I think its from a company called Thick Tails

Lucca, so sorry to hear your news. You seem very brave and your positive attitude is the best way to be. I am sure you will look very glam in your wig.

You’re not being vain at all. Good luck with the treatment, and keep rambling!
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Lucca…. It’s all been said above…????????

I’m very sorry to hear your news, Lucca. Of course you’re not being vain, but so what if you were? It’s hardly the crime of the century!

It is bloody awful MissA.

It's bloody awful.
I have bald patches all over.

It was never exactly my crowning glory, but it's part of who I am.
Being bald isn't.

Nobody will say that Lucca. Well nobody who has experienced hair loss anyway.

And now you’ve made me cry !!

It’s odd how I have decided to share this with people I dont know but it’s kind of comforting.

Galaxy ! Agreement ? We can’t have that. Maybe someone will come along and say “ yes you are being ridiculously vain ! Get a grip (A hair grip?) woman “

So sorry to hear your news Lucca, sending you healing thoughts and best wishes. ?

I'm sorry for your news, Lucca and I don't think it's vanity at all. It's about what makes you feel good and what helps you face the day. Some people are fine with losing their hair, others may choose a wig, or a headscarf or whatever. It's all about finding what you feel most comfortable with.
Oh, and please do keep 'rambling' on as much as you want...

Lucca ??? It's all been said by others. Stay strong.

I’m so sorry to hear your diagnosis Lucca.

Lucca I am so sorry . I love seeing your posts, you always seem to be able see different points of view and thats such a rare thing.
And look what you have done. An outbreak of agreement on GN .

Lucca I’m so sorry to hear your news. ? and a big bear hug are sent to you.
Vanity? Hell no.
If you see your reflection in a mirror or a shop window and it makes you feel good that’s a big tick. A PMA and everything necessary for it is high up my wish list for you.
LauraNorderr you’ve nailed it.

Lucca you are one brave lady and not in the least bit vain.

My hair causes me quite a lot of problems fine flyaway etc etc but I would definitely mourn it's loss.

I hope you are able to find some really bright comfy scarves.

Please post when you are up to it.
I would be happy to listen to a rant if you so wish and also share your good days and bad days.
I know there will always be support for you on Gransnet. ? X

I’m perfectly certain you do look fabulous in your new wig Lucca and my goodness don’t you deserve it after getting such devastating news.
I’m pleased you’ve started your own thread, and as you can see, everyone is rooting for you.
Best of luck with any treatment or trials offered to you.

Sad news Lucca.
It’s not vanity, but another part of you that you’ve lost control over, by getting wigs, turbans or scarves, you’re taking some control back.
Difficult times ahead for you, lots of us lovely people here will always be available to listen, chat, commiserate and send strength. X