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Just discovered I'm a Mif! (lighthearted thread)

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giulia Thu 12-May-22 08:34:34

While enjoying a novel which evidenced British class distinction (mentioned under Books thread today), I was amazed and amused to find I'm a Mif "which is absolutely not done!".

This means Milk in first.

I'd never realized there was any snobbery attached. In fact, had read that the choice of when to put the milk into tea depended on whether or not delicate porcelain cups are being used. If so, it is sensible to start with the milk to prevent the risk of boiling tea cracking the cup.

I don't use porcelain cups and have always started with the milk and do not intend changing.

How about you? I DID say this is a lighthearted thread!

GrammarGrandma Sun 15-May-22 10:37:56

It's a class thing. I was brought up as a MIF but now put the milk in afterwards so I can see how much I need.

timetogo2016 Sun 15-May-22 10:01:03

Mil all day long.

Maggiemaybe Sat 14-May-22 13:56:04

NainDylan

I even have milk in Earl grey, so I suppose I must be really common. I've discovered that really posh people call the living room/lounge etc 'the family room.'

I’ve always called it the front room. I’m not sure why, as our only back one is the kitchen. smile

Shropshirelass Sat 14-May-22 10:00:27

Proper loose leaf tea (large leaves) and milk in first in proper china cups with saucers. Nothing else tastes the same. Tea bags give the tea a strange taste and putting the milk in last scalds the milk. Yuk!

BlueSapphire Fri 13-May-22 22:27:15

I cannot abide a tea-bag in a cup/mug; I have to use a pot - and never milk in the mug first. I always refuse tea made by one of my sisters, as she puts the tea-bag in the mug with milk, and then puts the hot water in; I just say I'd prefer a coffee instead.

Joesoap Fri 13-May-22 21:49:07

I am a MiF, I use tea bags mostly, but I am a MiF when I use a tea pot.Use mostly mugs but I do think tea tastes better in a china cup.I am not a snob I promise.

4allweknow Fri 13-May-22 20:30:26

I use a teapot and teabags. Have a standard size for 3 and a bit cups and a small white china pot for a large one cup. Always MIF.

MissAdventure Fri 13-May-22 19:01:41

NainDylan

I even have milk in Earl grey, so I suppose I must be really common. I've discovered that really posh people call the living room/lounge etc 'the family room.'

I call the lounge "the laaaange" smile
Not posh here.

MrsKen33 Fri 13-May-22 18:58:19

Definitely MIL

NainDylan Fri 13-May-22 18:54:50

I even have milk in Earl grey, so I suppose I must be really common. I've discovered that really posh people call the living room/lounge etc 'the family room.'

MissAdventure Fri 13-May-22 17:46:45

Only in this country could all this be broken down into "class" related, surely?

Smileless2012 Fri 13-May-22 17:41:24

If I'm having tea poured from a pot it's milk first but if I'm making tea with a tea bag it's milk last.

Ali08 Fri 13-May-22 17:36:01

leeds22

Milk in last for me. Tea ball in mug, hot water, swirl it around, add milk, check colour, maybe another swirl. Lovely and DH has mastered it too - he only drinks coffee.

Tea balls are new to me, please explain what these are?

Ali08 Fri 13-May-22 17:35:20

Well I'm definitely a MiF. And I will not change!

leeds22 Fri 13-May-22 15:15:19

Milk in last for me. Tea ball in mug, hot water, swirl it around, add milk, check colour, maybe another swirl. Lovely and DH has mastered it too - he only drinks coffee.

Shizam Fri 13-May-22 15:12:12

I’m proud to be as common as muck: I put milk in first. And I rented my wedding dress!!

Love2Retire Fri 13-May-22 14:19:52

That must make me a NMAA (no milk at all) then.

Madashell Fri 13-May-22 14:12:25

I love the ritual of making a cup of tea. Loose leaf tea from a tea merchant, a small Chinese clay teapot, warm the pot and the leaves, just of the boil water, cover with my home knitted cosy and leave to brew for recommended time. Pour into fine porcelain mug using a tea strainer - perfect!

Now milk or not? Darjeeling without, Assam with?

The worst tea I have ever had was scalding brown liquid in a bucket from a service station. A very sore tongue and the muck down the drain!

Musicgirl Fri 13-May-22 14:06:56

Another Mif here, too. I prefer tea made in a pot and sometimes treat myself to loose leaf tea but do have the bag in a (china) mug regularly. Mil for coffee and Css (can’t stand sugar) in both.

Yammy Fri 13-May-22 13:48:28

Gwenisgreat1

I'm a YNM - Yeugh no milk!!

I'm a YNM as well, as are all the family all my neighbours as a child were too. It's a hangover from when men took cold tea down the mines. The mines were warm and soured the milk so it was always drunk black but with loads of sugar.

Gwenisgreat1 Fri 13-May-22 13:08:48

I'm a YNM - Yeugh no milk!!

bridie54 Fri 13-May-22 13:07:06

It's Mil for me too but it's almost always teabag in a china mug and I compost the tea leaves (not the bags) which I couldn't do with Mif.
I know some teabags are now compostable but i've no idea how long that would take and had previous experience of putting compostable bags into my compost and finding bits of them for ages . Easier to just open the bags up and use the tealeaves.

Juno56 Fri 13-May-22 12:49:43

grandMattie

Gracious, no! Definitely a MIL!
My family, especially my parents and grandparents, would turn in their graves if I was a MIF. Not just that - but one never stirs one’s drink, one gently mixes it with genteel sideways move,ents! ?

Yes I was taught this too grandMattie a gentle sideways movement, the spoon never ever touching the sides of the cup ?.

Grantanow Fri 13-May-22 12:48:36

A teabag!? (with apologies to Lady Bracknell)

Juno56 Fri 13-May-22 12:45:02

I have always been a TIF, as is (apparently) HM the Queen. Good enough for me ?.