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Would you ever go to the cinema/ theatre on your own?

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Kandinsky Thu 19-May-22 12:28:53

I wish I had the nerve but I’d feel a bit silly going on my own - not sure why really?

I wouldn’t go to a restaurant or cafe on my own either, as for a pub! ?

Sara1954 Fri 20-May-22 08:54:28

Zaseret
Okay, point taken
Obviously I wouldn’t or couldn’t actually prevent him from going, but yes, it does make me feel sad to think of him going on his own.

TerriBull Fri 20-May-22 10:29:06

I'm quite happy to do a lot of things on my own such as swimming, going to the gym they tend to be quite solitary pursuits anyway. I'd happily go for a coffee or something light to eat if out shopping on my own. A few years ago when we had painter/decorators in and there were a couple of them doing our hall and stairwell I thought I'd leave them in peace. Husband out playing golf, I took myself off to see Daniel Day Lewis's last film, Phantom Thread, I wanted to see it, but my husband wasn't keen, it was the afternoon hardly anyone in the cinema, I did feel a bit conspicuous, I don't know whether I'd make a habit of it which is foolish of me, no reason not to do anything on your own.

Zonne Fri 20-May-22 10:52:19

I will happily do most things on my own, including travelling/holidays. I don’t spend time alone into pubs that don’t sell food, in the UK.

Bijou Fri 20-May-22 11:28:13

Went to cinema and theatre alone when my husband was alive because he was deaf. The past thirty for years since his death I have preferred to do so and also holidayed and travelled abroad alone.

PaperMonster Fri 20-May-22 11:28:55

I used to go every other week on my own.

Startingover61 Fri 20-May-22 11:31:43

I like going to the theatre, cinema and cafes on my own. Not that fond of pubs so wouldn’t go alone. The only time I’ve ever eaten alone in a restaurant is when I’ve been staying at a hotel by myself and dined there.

Usernametaken Fri 20-May-22 11:36:42

Yes, have been to the Cinema on my own, quite a few times. The first time is the hardest but it’s fine. Plus you get to eat all the nibbles yourself ?

Often go into a Cafe on my own, maybe for coffee and a cake, or even a meal.

Don’t really like going into a pub though on my own, do t know why, just doesn’t feel right tbh. X

win Fri 20-May-22 11:46:19

Of course why not? it is not the same as going with someone and share the experience, but can be very pleasant indeed. I do everything alone if no one wants to come, their loss in my eyes. If you want something to eat in a restaurant do it, if you want to go to the cinema or theatre do it, if it is out of your comfort zone, face your fears you will be pleased you did. Good luck

Amalegra Fri 20-May-22 11:52:58

I would go pretty much anywhere alone! I have been doing it all my life starting at the first youth club I remember going to when I was about thirteen. I was a bit self conscious at first but as none of my friends wanted or were able to come with me I took the plunge! I am a chatty person so it was easy to make friends and get involved. That lesson has served me well all my life and I am particularly glad of it now as I’m divorced, retired but still chatty and unfazed by being alone,even if I’m the only unaccompanied person in the room!

Paperbackwriter Fri 20-May-22 11:53:03

I like being in a cinema or theatre on my own. A bit of blissful peace.

TerryM Fri 20-May-22 11:58:00

Cinema, cafe , pub etc definitely.
Back in 2017 after a few horrendous years I decided to go to Tokyo for a week by myself. I am in Aust. Husband was still working and he happily waved me off.
It was such a brilliant time. It was my first time to Tokyo . Hoping to go again by myself next Feb or March . Husband happily is booked for Denmark this year for a couple of weeks.

Quaver22 Fri 20-May-22 12:01:15

I frequently go to the theatre and to the cinema alone. I was quite proud of myself when I went alone to Verona to see two operas. It was a wonderful experience! The only time I have ever felt uncomfortable was at a cinema matinee a few years ago when I was the only person in the auditorium. That was a bit creepy!

Alioop Fri 20-May-22 12:05:24

I would go to a cafe on my own, but not the cinema, theatre or out for dinner. I'm lucky enough my friend is always up for a night out as her husband doesn't really like the theatre, but I should really give it a try sometime.

GrauntyHelen Fri 20-May-22 12:06:25

Yes have done for years I have no problems going anywhere on my own Nobody looks nobody cares I enjoy me time

HannahLoisLuke Fri 20-May-22 12:09:17

Yes, often pre and post covid. I go in the morning when it’s half empty and the tickets are cheap.
It’s really enjoyable and there are quite a few other lone viewers.

sandwichgeneration Fri 20-May-22 12:10:34

90% of the time I go to the theatre/cinema/concert on my own. I'm going to watch and listen to something not for a chat. It means I can choose what I like to see and not have to compromise. Plenty of time to chat elsewhere.

Connor13 Fri 20-May-22 12:15:14

Yes I go all over on my own even abroad do what you want when you want freedom

Ilikeflowers Fri 20-May-22 12:17:36

Almost always go to the theatre, concert hall and cinema by myself. Haven doe for 30+ years.

Granbelle10 Fri 20-May-22 12:21:30

Yes. I've been to the theatre, restaurants, art galleries, museums and even on continental holidays on my own. I'm happily married and have lots of friends and enjoy all sorts of entertainment both with others, as well as on my own. Sometimes I like doing things on the spur of the moment and prefer to just up and go without too much discussion before my sudden urge dissipates. Also my taste does not always coincide with others, and although I do not mind joining in with friends' choice of entertainment, I prefer to just attend my own choices without imposing on others who are less keen. I don't have to compromise, as to what I see, what I eat, how long I stay, how far I walk, etc. Actually I do enjoy my own company.

Growing0ldDisgracefully Fri 20-May-22 12:28:29

Not the cinema or theatre as those aren't activities I'm interested in, but go to a lot of other places on my own (cafe, pub, festivals, etc).

Saggi Fri 20-May-22 12:28:58

I’d never eat out or go anywhere if I had to have somebody with me. What is the problem with being solo ?

Hemelbelle Fri 20-May-22 12:36:01

I've been to the cinema in the day time quite a few times on my own and found it quite easy. Bought a double scoop tub of ice cream; what's not to like especially if the film is good smile
I've been to cafes by myself as well and felt very comfortable.

Dempie55 Fri 20-May-22 12:36:11

I go to the cinema and theatre regularly in the afternoons on my own. Usually a Wednesday, as they have discount. I go to the Everyman cinema which does Silver Screenings and has Senior tickets anyway at all times. Since being widowed, I have no choice, as there's nobody else I know who would come with me. I don't really go out much in the evenings, unless it's with family. I still feel awkward in a cafe, though, and can't really afford it anyway these days!

Nodj Fri 20-May-22 12:40:02

Yes I have! I did it a few years ago; not as often now since the world has gotten a little crazy!

Lindylou57 Fri 20-May-22 12:56:53

Yes many times. Husband doesn't always want to go with me to plays so I often go alone. Usually end up chatting to person next to me anyway. Why miss out on something you really want to do or see?