When "mail order brides" became popular some years ago, I read some articles from serious sources - ie. NOT from Hello and such publications - that there were "schools" in eastern Europe (including Ukraine) coaching young women how to catch themselves a western European man, particularly those in the UK. Men from the UK were seen to be less aggressive and violent, more generous, kinder and loyal (??!!!!) and more motivated by sex. Who am I to disagree!!!!! I totally understand the motivation to "catch" yourself a man who is more liberal and kind, but these relationships are often only long enough to qualify for a UK passport. This is something for the gay community to consider too - I have a gay friend who met a Malaysian man, married him, and was abandoned after two years - as soon as his husband could get a UK passport of his own. It's a sad world, full of minefields and heartache.