> I don't think that discussing personal relationships with other members is appropriate, especially in their absence. A line has definitely been crossed.
Yes, you are right.
I was challenged as to my motivation and I tried to explain.
The lady posted earlier in the thread and may post later. If the lady herself would prefer that I don't help her, then I won't, but in fairness, in another thread the lady has thanked me for offering to help her. So the decision is for the lady, not for others, whatever their opinion of me.
As the lady is of working age, I am clearly much older than her and more or less housebound in practice, needing assisted transport to go anywhere.