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Fellow Fashionista Grans: do you wear what you like or what you “should?”

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Nanamar Sun 29-May-22 19:34:02

I’m 72 and very short, aka, petite - love clothes and shoes, always have. There are tons of hints out there for petite women - avoid capris, ankle straps on shoes, chunky heels and lug soles - instead wear full length trousers or shorts, high heels, etc. Problem is trousers are too warm at times and my legs aren’t great for shorts, ankle straps help keep my shoes stable, and I can no longer comfortably walk in high heels. Do you follow “rules” for dressing your body shape or just wear what you love?

MawtheMerrier Wed 01-Jun-22 18:40:50

I have the descent flat shoes with glee

I hope the flat shoes prevented any unwarranted descents !

MawtheMerrier Wed 01-Jun-22 18:41:37

Irrelevant I know - but is anybody here quoting their height in metres?

Poppyred Wed 01-Jun-22 19:08:37

No! ?

Allsorts Wed 01-Jun-22 19:32:07

I dress to suit myself, love fashion but don’t slavishly follow it. I was considered tall but now am small by todays standards. I know what doesn’t suit me, would love to wear high heels but can’t walk in them, so it’s trainers, ballet pumps or loafers, however, malways boots in the winter, ankle and mid calf. Look better in scoop necked tops not round neck, but if I did wear one would put a scarf on. Accessories are very important to the basic capsule wardrobe and that’s wear most of my colour comes from.

Barmeyoldbat Wed 01-Jun-22 20:05:47

I wear what ever I like

Blencathra Thu 02-Jun-22 06:39:07

I wear what I like. Jeans and a jumper or jeans with a T-shirt most of the time unless I am going somewhere. Shoes have to be comfortable whatever the occasion.

Farzanah Thu 02-Jun-22 09:52:45

To me “fashion” means following the crowd and conforming to what is acceptable.
Understandable when young but now I’m older I’m more confident with myself and wear what I like and is comfortable. We have too much stuff anyway, which is wasteful.
I value people for who they are, not what kit they have on.
Taste in clothing is an individual thing anyway.

Keffie12 Sun 05-Jun-22 11:16:43

I wear what I like and it's not run of the mill. It's statemented, it's colourful, a mixture of Boho, rock chic and my unique style. If I like it damn what anyone else thinks

GrammarGrandma Sun 05-Jun-22 11:18:53

Not a "fashionista" but I wear what I like. And can - flat shoes only for me for some years as heels kill me.

dumdum Sun 05-Jun-22 11:54:48

Dress for comfort and practibility. Dog walk, so Jeans,top (according to season). Whatever works really.

dumdum Sun 05-Jun-22 11:56:20

*practicability.

Stella14 Sun 05-Jun-22 12:41:40

I wear what I like. I love high fashion and enjoy wearing it. I wouldn’t wear short skirts or very low, busty tops. This is me in my 60s

clobden28 Sun 05-Jun-22 12:48:24

At 66, I dress for comfort and practicality first and foremost. I can't wear high heels any more because after a stroke a few years ago my balance isn't great when I'm rushing about or under stress, so it's got to be flatties only for me. As I've always had wide feet stylish shoes that are wide enough for my plates of meat are difficult to find at the best of times. I also have two small dogs so flat 'dog-walking' shoes are the only style I wear nowadays.

Short skirts and tight clothing - I no longer have the physique for these!

Hairstyle - I have long hair almost to my waist and don't agree with my 91 yr old mother that I'm too old to have hair past my shoulders. I consider myself too young for an old-lady style poodle perm!

Daisydaisydaisy Sun 05-Jun-22 12:48:51

Hi there.
I'm in My mid 50s and wear what I like...Im certainly not a fashion model and absolutely love bright colours from Spring through to Winter...I'm often that woman that stands out wearing bright Oranges;Pinks,Blue Reds ...I'm off to a funeral this week and even My "funeral dress" is Black with bright embroidered flowers ...I hate Black.
I know I'll be the sane when I'm 70 plus grin

coast35 Sun 05-Jun-22 13:07:02

I wear what I like. Mostly dresses because my husband likes them and I love the comfort of them. Nothing to cut into my large tummy. I often look far too formal for occasions but I don’t care.

Treetops05 Sun 05-Jun-22 13:25:36

I look dreadful in most things, except grey jersey trousers and grey jumper - people always say I look great in that...

Marsha Sun 05-Jun-22 13:30:57

You look great, Stella14, very stylish!

Welshy Sun 05-Jun-22 13:31:07

Stella14 you look lovely, especially in the green outfit smile

I'm just a jeans/tshirt, jeans/blouse, jeans/jumper person though, as I really don't know what suits me. Plus I don't have any confidence.

Marsha Sun 05-Jun-22 13:34:05

Welshy

Stella14 you look lovely, especially in the green outfit smile

I'm just a jeans/tshirt, jeans/blouse, jeans/jumper person though, as I really don't know what suits me. Plus I don't have any confidence.

I’m much the same as you, Welshy - partly lack of confidence, but also since leaving work, and then because of the lockdowns, I rarely have occasion to wear anything other than very casual clothes.

Hilarybee Sun 05-Jun-22 13:37:34

Stella14

I wear what I like. I love high fashion and enjoy wearing it. I wouldn’t wear short skirts or very low, busty tops. This is me in my 60s

You look great ??

Dinahmo Sun 05-Jun-22 13:38:25

Callistemon21

I just ordered a pair but hadn't seen anyone else in wide-legged trousers so was going to send them back.

What would you wear with them?

The trick is to get the right length
I've no clue what that might be ?
They're quite long

You could be at the head of the pack in your wide trousers!

Most people take no notice of what we oldies wear so wear what you want.

The French will stop and stare on occasion, looking from head to toe. When they do that I return the favour.

Dinahmo Sun 05-Jun-22 13:42:01

Ladies, how is it that you've reached a certain age and are still lacking in confidence? Bite the bullet and wear what you like, as long as it doesn't frighten the horses.

GrannyGravy13 Sun 05-Jun-22 14:15:34

We are going to a very formal Summer Ball next month, DH is sorted as he has a new Dinner Suit.

I am at the desperate stage of looking for a ball gown apparently it has to be long so I cannot dust off one of my cocktail dresses ????

Musicgirl Sun 05-Jun-22 14:42:21

I wear what I like within the boundaries of what suits me. I enjoy clothes and like to be stylish but do not worry about the latest fashion.

V3ra Sun 05-Jun-22 14:50:02

GrannyGravy13

We are going to a very formal Summer Ball next month, DH is sorted as he has a new Dinner Suit.

I am at the desperate stage of looking for a ball gown apparently it has to be long so I cannot dust off one of my cocktail dresses ????

GrannyGravy13 have a look at TKMaxx, I've had long dresses from there when I needed them.