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Now I'm a Senior Citizen!

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Bea65 Fri 10-Jun-22 01:48:23

So finally made it to State Pension Age...am not an OAP or Pensioner do not like either of these terms as think in my head I'm still 21! However, am resentful that I have to carry on working as with cost of living etc., am unable to retire...thru ill health have had to reduce work hours from full time to now 21hrs a week so work pension forecast drastically reduced. Am ok with working a bit longer as quite enjoy job, but deep down am struggling with the fact that when i started working in'74, was informed could retire at 60 on a state pension and then of course, we got screwed over.. Is anyone else feeling a bit miffed inside ?

Shinamae Fri 10-Jun-22 01:57:08

I’m 69 and still work three shifts in a care home, 18 hours a week. I could barely manage on my state pension before all this cost of living prices and gas and electric prices going to rise stratospherically .Just glad I don’t drive a car…

Bea65 Fri 10-Jun-22 02:07:02

Shinamae, my car is a 2004 model and thankfully still running ..unlike myself! Due to poor mobility, cannot use public transport easily so have to rely on old motor -just wish/pray that the astronomical fuel hikes get sorted ASAP!

Shinamae Fri 10-Jun-22 02:19:49

I just take each day as it comes and really try not to worry about things but I’ve got a feeling if things don’t radically improve there will start to be pockets of civil unrest in this country,if it really does come to the fact that people have to choose to eat or heat,that can never be right … I remember the poll tax and all the riots that were about that and I can see that sort of thing happening again… you can only push people so far

notgran Fri 10-Jun-22 07:54:29

I can remember the days when you had to leave your job when you reached state pension age. I knew of a couple of ladies who really struggled as their income was hugely reduced. Thankfully now we have many options and it is up to us when we retire/give upworking. I happily carried on working past my state pension age and we had decided we would both retire when my OH reached state pension age, which we did. Retirement is one of those things you must prepare for most of your working life and keep re-visiting your plans as circumstances change.

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 10-Jun-22 10:08:11

I wouldn’t want to be referred to as a pensioner or OAP and definitely not a senior citizen, but we have no power over the way in which other (younger) people describe us. I may be 71 but the figures are reversed in my mind.

Redhead56 Fri 10-Jun-22 10:24:00

My state pension is due September I retired three years ago just before lock down. Mentally I don’t feel older still young but my body tells me I am getting old with arthritis!
I am me I don’t want to be stereotyped or labelled as old a pensioner or senior citizen either. Grumpy old lady coming out here does that show my age….no it doesn’t I have always been a bit grumpy!

Bea65 Fri 10-Jun-22 10:42:09

[Redhead56] Same here with the widespread OA but always had a bright outlook about retiring don't mean to come across self pitying and maybe its leftover Covid pandemic symptoms together with what is going on in the world but feel my personality has changed and yes, i can get enormously grumpy and irritated! grin Can't wait for Bday Prosecco and Champagne later!

Kateykrunch Fri 10-Jun-22 11:43:42

Happy Birthday Bea65, enjoy your celebration? ? x

Redhead56 Fri 10-Jun-22 11:53:06

Enjoy your day Bea65 I will join you with a Rose Cava later?

Davida1968 Fri 10-Jun-22 12:43:29

I've always liked the American term "senior citizen". (Often abbreviated simply to: "seniors".) For me, it has more gravitas & status than: "OAP". For instance, if there's a special ticket price, it will state "seniors' rate". (IMO this sounds much better than "over 67's rate"!)

ElaineI Fri 10-Jun-22 12:52:05

I am 66 on 22/6. Not heard a thing about pension after applying for it. Anyone recently reached this age and heard anything? Online tells me there are delays and if you phone you are on hold for upwards on 40 minutes. Congrats Bea on your birthday flowers

Dickens Fri 10-Jun-22 13:34:44

Germanshepherdsmum

I wouldn’t want to be referred to as a pensioner or OAP and definitely not a senior citizen, but we have no power over the way in which other (younger) people describe us. I may be 71 but the figures are reversed in my mind.

Me, too.

But I don't know an acceptable term.

I don't like OAP - 'old age' in this instance is superfluous, if you are a pensioner, you've reached an age whereby 'pensioner' is a sufficient description.

Definitely don't like 'senior citizen' although I suppose logically it's more apt.

How about "perennials"? grin

sharon103 Fri 10-Jun-22 13:39:12

Happy birthday wishes Bea65 wine cheers!

ShropshireMiss Fri 10-Jun-22 17:56:45

A ‘pensioner’ is some who is in receipt of a pension. So if you are receiving a pension you are objectively a ‘pensioner’.

Nannagarra Fri 10-Jun-22 18:46:22

Generally I avoid the terms (except that glorious one, retired) however I did ask in a high street supermarket offering a 10% discount to those over 60 on Tuesdays if I’d been given “the pensioners’ discount”. I could see without my specs!
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If I buy a bottle of wine, I like to joke with the assistant that I haven’t been challenged about my age!

Nannagarra Fri 10-Jun-22 21:26:53

*couldn’t
Happy birthday Bea65.

Edge26 Fri 10-Jun-22 21:44:18

Elaine1,
I am 66 at the end of July. Have had my invitation code so went online and filled in form. There was a query as they called me but said everything in order. I have a twin sister who heard more or less straight away about her pension, I.e, how much and date of first payment. I'd not heard anything so called DWP and they told me it was in the process of being finalised. Still not heard anything so this week called again and nice adviser said she would e-mail claims dept as a matter of urgency and should hear within the next 10 days. I will ring again if I've not heard anything. Also , I got through straight away. Hope this is helpful to you.

crazyH Fri 10-Jun-22 21:49:38

Happy Birthday Bea65 ????

nadateturbe Fri 10-Jun-22 22:29:33

Shinamae

I just take each day as it comes and really try not to worry about things but I’ve got a feeling if things don’t radically improve there will start to be pockets of civil unrest in this country,if it really does come to the fact that people have to choose to eat or heat,that can never be right … I remember the poll tax and all the riots that were about that and I can see that sort of thing happening again… you can only push people so far

I do think some action is needed, and I'm surprised it hasn't happened already.

Bea65 Sun 12-Jun-22 11:26:07

Davida1968 I agree "Seniors" sounds better andI think in Eire, they also refer to elders, as Seniors...so I'm a Seniorgrin

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 12-Jun-22 13:38:46

Ghastly Americanism.

Bea65 Mon 13-Jun-22 10:06:01

Germanshepherdsmum ..what is Ghastly Americanism? Half of my family are American - LA and PA relatives...find your comment ghastly! Have a nice day nowwink

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 13-Jun-22 10:29:39

It’s an expression imported from America, one which I dislike intensely. I didn’t say that Americans are ghastly.

Bea65 Mon 13-Jun-22 11:12:02

THANK YOU all for Birthday messages- had lots of cake, Bolly and Prosecco...never slept better!