Georgesgran
Don’t get me started Bea65
My DD2 suffered a stroke when she was 12 and left a full-time wheelchair user with other problems. I was turned down for carers allowance, appealed and was turned down again!
I could write a book on the injustices, but I had to learn to channel my energy into helping her - rather than wasting time on anger. Rant over. X
Oh I am sorry - yes we DO have to jump through hoops so how these people get away with it is totally beyond me?
Georgesgran the thing with Carer's Allowance is that they will take the income off your daughter potentially anyway, which is what they have done with me .....
BUT and I don't know if you are all aware, once we have jumped through those hoops the Local Authority then takes what benefits we have to pay for any care that we might get ... so SCOPE in 2019 said that the average disabled person has excess costs of £570 a month. We don't even get that much, but the LA takes that money we need in order to provide services we need to help us 'exist' .... Thousands of disabled people have actually had bailiffs round/been taken to court and become criminals for non payment of care charges, which they just cannot afford. Some have taken their own lives because of it. Just disgusting ..... I was fortunate because I am 'with it' but many people aren't and are being taken advantage of, not knowing there are things that can be done. I was asked to pay almost £200 a WEEK for a 30 min daily wash and 4 hours a week of help around the house. I sent loads of income and expenditure spreadsheets which they ignored, showing that if i were to pay it, I would be in deficit every month by around £500 once I had accounted for my mortgage and bills etc. Eventually I got a home visit financial assessment and with my Disability Related Expenditure (which they do not tell you about!) it went down to £0, thank heavens or I would have been in a terrible mess. They have just assessed my friend and not told her she can offset some costs, which is just awful.
I hope your daughter is ok and has her full entitlement of PIP or DLA and she isn't being stripped of all her money?