In all these threads, no one has ever said people should not be what they want to be, only that they should not use ‘being what they want to be’ as an excuse for cheating in sport, cheating in jobs, denying female rights to safe spaces-created for the very reason that some TW would try to access them, and claiming that they have changed sex-which is not possible.
The few transwomen who do that, together with those who support the rights of such TW to do those things have done more harm to trans people than anything else.
The video? I don’t understand why someone who wants to be seen as a ‘woman’ would want to show on film that they are actually male.
At 28 the person being filmed has had time to decide what gender they want to be. It tells nothing of what went on before in that person’s life, whatever it implies. We don’t know if this person is so convinced that they are a ‘woman’, that they have 1. opted for surgery to remove their male attributes or whether 2. they have plans to discriminate against females as some TW do.
If neither of those apply, what’s the problem?