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Floradora9 Thu 11-Aug-22 09:06:23

I was telling a friend about a neighbour who was having a hot tub delivered and her immediate reply was " Oh how common " . I was reading Lady Hales' biography " Spider Woman A Life ." in it she mentioned tht she and her sisters got the Girl comic as the Dandy and Beano were common . She was the president of the Supreme Court who rule Boris out of order for suspending parliament. She also quoted from her teenage diary how she had disliked the catholic chruches in Austria , too ornate. By the way give her book a miss it is so boring and I do not agree with her views.
The only things I do find common are men wearing sleevless vest tops and anyone covered in tatoos.

Iam64 Wed 17-Aug-22 21:06:30

MissA - yep, that’s why I wept aged 4, 5 and 6. I suspect mum refused totally to indulge me

MissAdventure Wed 17-Aug-22 21:15:13

I used to love those stories as a child.
Talk about firing up the imagination!

I always cried about the tin soldier and the ballerina from the jewellery box (?)

Witzend Wed 17-Aug-22 21:22:36

Talking of shoes, an Irish friend who went to a convent school was told by the nuns never to wear patent shoes because boys would see your knickers reflected in them. ?

Callistemon21 Wed 17-Aug-22 22:33:59

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I used to like my red Clark's sandals best of all.
Some years I got blue ones which were nice but the brown ones were really boring.

Granmarderby10 Wed 17-Aug-22 22:59:10

Oh yes Callistemon and the red polish with a sponge top applicator for scuffs, it used to get on my white sox.
Maybe that was common too though ?

MissAdventure Wed 17-Aug-22 23:02:12

I only seem to remember getting a choice of black or brown lace-ups.

Shoe shopping was always awful.

Granmarderby10 Thu 18-Aug-22 08:19:15

Miss Adventure winter shoes for me had to be lace ups? Clarkes said it was because of my narrow feet. Always, the ones I wanted weren’t in my size. Sulk.

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 18-Aug-22 08:41:01

I hated the process of buying school shoes. The uniform was brown sandals for summer and indoors, brown lace ups for winter. I remember crying in the shop because the shoes - Clark’s I’m sure - were so horrid (but expensive for Mum I expect).

Esspee Thu 18-Aug-22 08:58:50

paddyann I don’t consider gallus as being the equivalent of common though someone described as gallus can often be common as well. To me it denotes someone who is bold and doesn’t give a damn about what others may think about them. I have even used it as a compliment.
My parents expected me to be like Sandy in Grease whereas I had a lingering admiration for Rizzo. She and the Pink Ladies were pure gallus.

Iam64 Thu 18-Aug-22 09:04:36

We always had Clark’s, paid for by one grannie, the other bought winter coats or whitsunday dresses.
I’ve just bought bought shoes for grandchildren.

Miss A I wept at the tin soldier and ballerina. What a love we had of stories that touched emitions

Doodledog Thu 18-Aug-22 09:46:08

The difference between the Clarks shoes that I wore as a child and the ones I could get for my children was enormous.

Mine were lace up black or brown flats for winter and crepe soled Mary Jane closed toe 'sandals' for winter, sometimes with a bit of colour, I think (?). I seem to remember an Oxblood coloured pair, but I may be mistaken. I hated them.

My son's had animal paws on the soles so he could make impressive footprints, and my daughter's had appliqué flowers. Both had trainers with flashing lights on the sides, and all were in measured sizes and in supportive styles that were functional as well as fashionable.

Doodledog Thu 18-Aug-22 09:46:31

Sandals for summer, obviously grin.

Sara1954 Thu 18-Aug-22 10:51:34

Always Clarke sandals with the Daisy type of cutout.
I remember at about twelve begging for something different and eventually getting some, only to be warned that I had better look after them
The next day my auntie sent me to the chip shop for some fish and chips, and fat dripped out all over them.
So I suppose then I really looked common.

Doodledog Thu 18-Aug-22 10:55:10

Yes! The daisy ones. They were barely sandals at all, really.

Sara1954 Thu 18-Aug-22 11:54:18

Doodledog
Haha, you’re right, they weren’t were they.

Candelle Thu 18-Aug-22 12:26:31

White stiletto shoes were beyond the pale when I was a gal!

As were (deep breath) Clark's shoes. Only Start-Rite would do!

Incidentally, I always loved patent shoes so what was I exposing...?

MissAdventure Thu 18-Aug-22 12:30:29

I can remember my mum saying "stop scrunching your toes up! Walk over there - properly!"
While I modeled some hideous shoes.

Luckygirl3 Thu 18-Aug-22 18:29:11

I was not allowed to eat in the street as my ma thought it was common.

storynanny Fri 19-Aug-22 12:17:06

Haha! I also was never allowed red or white shoes
I had brown Clarkes sandals and my dad cut the toes out for the next summers wear
I don’t know why that was considered ok rather than common

Witzend Sat 20-Aug-22 08:15:33

I quite liked the ‘Daisy cut out’ brown sandals. During summer holidays (no socks) I’d get a daisy-pattern tan on my feet.

It was the brown school lace-ups I hated. I do remember once refusing a particularly ugly pair - I don’t suppose the ones I ended up with were much better though. At my grammar school we had to have Mary Jane type indoor shoes - mine were always hand me downs from my elder sister - I’d have loved a new pair for once.

I don’t recall any non-brown shoes at all, until I was in my teens and started buying my own with birthday money etc.

Sara1954 Sat 20-Aug-22 09:16:57

Great excitement in the summer holidays, when we were allowed a pair of jelly shoes from Woolworths.

Callistemon21 Sat 20-Aug-22 09:21:40

storynanny

Haha! I also was never allowed red or white shoes
I had brown Clarkes sandals and my dad cut the toes out for the next summers wear
I don’t know why that was considered ok rather than common

I had Clark's sandals with the daisy cut-out as well and my Dad used to cut the toes out with a Stanley knife towards the end of summer ?

Red or blue were best and I was disappointed when I had to have brown.

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 20-Aug-22 09:24:05

I wish I’d been able to refuse my horrid brown lace ups. I can still see them all these years later. I hated them with a passion but not even crying in the shop saved me from them. I suppose, looking back, they were expensive for my Mum.

Grandma70s Sat 20-Aug-22 09:32:53

Our school shoes were black, and if we could only buy brown ones they had to be dyed. I think I had brown sandals in the summer holidays.

Witzend Sat 20-Aug-22 09:48:08

Germanshepherdsmum

I wish I’d been able to refuse my horrid brown lace ups. I can still see them all these years later. I hated them with a passion but not even crying in the shop saved me from them. I suppose, looking back, they were expensive for my Mum.

I can still see mine, too - plain brown lace-ups, like men’s shoes, but without any of the brogue-y bits.