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im a leftie and i can not drive an automatic car

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petunia Wed 24-Aug-22 10:03:57

Im a leftie in a rightie world. But im not talking political leanings here. Im talking handedness.

As a child in the fifties, various teachers had attempts to make me use my right hand. Some spoke sharply, others hit my hand with a ruler. It didn't work. But as I grew up, I learned to adapt to most things using my right hand. I can do most things with both hands but I would prefer to use my left hand, and I can not use my right hand for writing. For decades it has just been a fact of life. I'm left handed but I sometimes use my right hand.

Until now. My OH has an automatic car that I just can not get the hang of. At first I thought it was the difference between manual and automatic and eventually I would enjoy driving this car. But no. every time I drive it I feel......wrong. There is precious little to do with my left hand and foot.

Am I alone in this or do other lefties struggle with automatics. Or is it just that I haven't persisted enough with this new fangled way of driving?

MaizieD Wed 24-Aug-22 14:19:37

My automatic car is driven by the whole family which includes lefties and righties. I tell them that to pretend they are driving a fairground dodgem - stick it in drive and then one foot for the accelerator and the other for the brake!

I wouldn't advise that at all. Just go on using right foot for brake and accelerator as usual. Keep left foot completely still and out of the way. There does come a moment when your left foot forgets there isn't a clutch and comes down hard on the brake pedal... ? Luckily I wasn't going very fast at the time...

Greyduster Wed 24-Aug-22 15:11:12

Our last two cars have been automatics and until this year I had never driven either of them. Fate intervened and I had to, but a few turns around the estate and then gradually out onto the road and I have never looked back. It won’t take you long to get used to it. Automatics are a joy to drive and I don’t even think about it now.

MawtheMerrier Wed 24-Aug-22 15:29:45

I doubt that anyone who has reached our age and always driven with a manual gearbox will ever feel comfortable driving an automatic car

Speak for yourself! M last 5 cars were manual, the latest, bought in February is an automatic and I wish I’d made tge change years ago.
If anything it might be harder to change to a manual if you’re not used to it, but being left or right handed should make no difference to driving either if you have been driving for years anyway.

petunia Wed 24-Aug-22 15:55:13

i think Maw, that its the fact that my dominant side, the left side, isnt keen on sitting in the drivers seat with nothing to do. my left foot wants to shuffle about looking for action and my left hand itches to hold onto the gear stick.
as Cold said upthread, its like driving a dodgem car.
but some good advice here. practice practice practice

merlotgran Wed 24-Aug-22 16:14:49

petunia

i think Maw, that its the fact that my dominant side, the left side, isnt keen on sitting in the drivers seat with nothing to do. my left foot wants to shuffle about looking for action and my left hand itches to hold onto the gear stick.
as Cold said upthread, its like driving a dodgem car.
but some good advice here. practice practice practice

It shouldn’t be any harder to convert from manual to automatic because you are left handed. Just remember to have a lighter touch with your right foot and there’s no need to tuck your left away - there’s a handy foot rest for that. Nobody drives along holding on to the gear stick so just forget all about it.

Never use your left foot for braking. Your right foot should leave the accelerator for that purpose.

It really is the simplest way to drive and long journeys are far less stressful especially if you are stuck in crawling traffic.

When you get the hang of it you’ll never want to go back to manual.

Margiknot Wed 24-Aug-22 16:38:40

My twin was a lefty but forced to use her right hand in school so you have my sympathy!
I am not left handed( I'm very right dominant) but struggled at first to drive an automatic. The trick for me ( as others have said) was to tuck my left foot out of the way to stop it searching for a clutch. I got there in the end- now I have trouble if I have to drive a manual.

Floradora9 Wed 24-Aug-22 21:31:40

grandtanteJE65

I doubt that anyone who has reached our age and always driven with a manual gearbox will ever feel comfortable driving an automatic car.

But the advice to drive a little every day is probably sound.

Do you need to drive your husband's car? Can't you stick to your own?

I am left handed and took to our automatic right away with no problems at all . After 30 odd years of driving this was our first automatic and I loved it . Having to use the same computers at work as the rest of the staff I just got used to using my right hand for the mouse . The only thing my husband hates is to watch me cutting a loaf of bread he thinks I do not look safe but I am .

BigBertha1 Wed 24-Aug-22 22:29:52

TH is a leftie and we have a new automatic hybrid car. He loves it...so much smoother and easier for his poorly right leg and mine.

JackyB Thu 25-Aug-22 09:53:09

I am right-handed and have driven in left-hand and right-hand drive cars in the UK, Germany, France and the US. I am most used to left-hand drives as I moved to Germany not long after passing my test. I find it harder when I first get into a car in the UK because you are pushing the gear lever (when putting it into first) away with your left hand and using the triceps instead of pulling it towards you with your right hand. Otherwise it's not difficult to change sides.

However, I find it interesting that there are those who can't do a thing with their left hand (my mother-in-law was one), many who are fairly good at some things with either hand, right across the spectrum, through the pure ambidextrous to those who are exclusively left-handed, like petunia in the OP.

JackyB Thu 25-Aug-22 09:53:52

Was going to say: one solution would be to move to the continent.

Charleygirl5 Thu 25-Aug-22 12:08:53

JackyB I am a true oddity with both parents being left-handed I grew up being able to use both hands equally but I do write with my right hand but I prefer to use my left for everything else.

Zonne Thu 25-Aug-22 17:13:28

Both my parents and all four of. Y grandparents were left-handed. All my siblings bar one poor soul are, that one’s kids are both lefties. So by both nature and nurture, I am strongly left handed - at least I always thought so, until I injured my right shoulder. Now I can’t believe how much I used either just my right hand, or both, for.

Honeysuckleberries Thu 25-Aug-22 17:21:50

My husband was an advanced class 1 police driver and a trainer for the Institute of Advanced Drivers and he always drove an automatic with both feet. Left foot on brake of course. Perhaps you could try that.

PamelaJ1 Thu 25-Aug-22 18:16:26

DH had an automatic and I had a manual so occasionally I had to remind myself which one I was driving. Now we both have automatics it’s much easier.
I can’t understand why being left handed is an issue. I tend to drive with both hands on the wheel, safer than having to keep taking a hand off to change gear I think.

Mollygo Thu 25-Aug-22 23:21:22

Honeysuckleberries

My husband was an advanced class 1 police driver and a trainer for the Institute of Advanced Drivers and he always drove an automatic with both feet. Left foot on brake of course. Perhaps you could try that.

That’s a scary concept, however much of an expert you are or are or not. The whole idea of using the same foot for the brake as the accelerator is that you have to take your foot off the accelerator to use the brake.

merlotgran Thu 25-Aug-22 23:41:16

There was an incident in the town a few miles from where I used to live where a car, driven by an elderly woman, mounted the pavement and ploughed through a waste bin and some bollards. It’s a miracle nobody was killed.

She was driving an automatic and had used her left foot to operate the brake but mistakenly thought it was the clutch and that her right foot was on the brake not the accelerator. When she realised her mistake she took her foot off the brake!

It beggars belief that a police instructor would advise such a dangerous manoeuvre when driving an automatic.

Honeysuckleberries Fri 26-Aug-22 01:44:14

I didn’t say he was a police instructor and I also didn’t say he trained or advised anyone else to drive like that. That was my suggestion.

nanna8 Fri 26-Aug-22 08:26:59

Nearly all the cars here are automatic and I can only drive automatics- never bothered to learn how to drive a manual and won’t start now. My daughter is left handed and so is her husband and there is really no difference at all , neither of them has ever had any problems driving automatics. Now knitting- that’s another matter ! I couldn’t teach her and she never learnt.

MawtheMerrier Fri 26-Aug-22 08:29:26

Mollygo

Honeysuckleberries

My husband was an advanced class 1 police driver and a trainer for the Institute of Advanced Drivers and he always drove an automatic with both feet. Left foot on brake of course. Perhaps you could try that.

That’s a scary concept, however much of an expert you are or are or not. The whole idea of using the same foot for the brake as the accelerator is that you *have to take your foot off the accelerator to use the brake.*

I was surprised too to think this was standard practice as it is certainly not what learner drivers are taught, sounds very (potentially) unsafe too.

merlotgran Fri 26-Aug-22 08:34:40

Honeysuckleberries

I didn’t say he was a police instructor and I also didn’t say he trained or advised anyone else to drive like that. That was my suggestion.

In which case your post was misleading and your suggestion nothing short of dangerous to somebody who is clearly not a confident driver..

Germanshepherdsmum Fri 26-Aug-22 08:38:03

I agree merlot. It’s certainly not the way to drive an automatic car (which I’ve done for the last 25 years).

MawtheMerrier Fri 26-Aug-22 09:22:07

My husband was an advanced class 1 police driver and a trainer for the Institute of Advanced Drivers and he always drove an automatic with both feet. Left foot on brake of course. Perhaps you could try that

So am I right in thinking you are saying, Honeysuckleberries, that he contravened the correct way to drive an automatic while instructing others? confusedconfused

MawtheMerrier Fri 26-Aug-22 11:13:09

Specially for you Petunia - and all other “lefties”.

pen50 Fri 26-Aug-22 11:28:44

I'm an extreme right-hander, but I have lived - and driven an automatic - on the continent. It was a bit weird at first but I persisted and found it quite easy after a month or so.

Silvertwigs Fri 26-Aug-22 11:44:11

@ petunia, I’m a ‘righty’ but cannot for the love of Mike drive an automatic vehicle!

If I strapped my left foot somewhere tgen with time I could hopefully but would hold my breath!! I’m neurodivergent do that May have something to do with it?