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im a leftie and i can not drive an automatic car

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petunia Wed 24-Aug-22 10:03:57

Im a leftie in a rightie world. But im not talking political leanings here. Im talking handedness.

As a child in the fifties, various teachers had attempts to make me use my right hand. Some spoke sharply, others hit my hand with a ruler. It didn't work. But as I grew up, I learned to adapt to most things using my right hand. I can do most things with both hands but I would prefer to use my left hand, and I can not use my right hand for writing. For decades it has just been a fact of life. I'm left handed but I sometimes use my right hand.

Until now. My OH has an automatic car that I just can not get the hang of. At first I thought it was the difference between manual and automatic and eventually I would enjoy driving this car. But no. every time I drive it I feel......wrong. There is precious little to do with my left hand and foot.

Am I alone in this or do other lefties struggle with automatics. Or is it just that I haven't persisted enough with this new fangled way of driving?

Mollygo Wed 24-Aug-22 10:13:02

Petunia I hope you can get to grips with the automatic enough to enjoy it.
I had the same problems, particularly with my left foot, continuing to work the non-existent clutch for a long time.
Good luck.

Mamissimo Wed 24-Aug-22 10:13:36

I'm a leftie too and I wouldn't swap my automatic for anything! The trick is to firmly plant your left foot to the floor and keep both hands on the wheel until you get used to it. Drive every day for 14 days and it will become a learned behaviour.

Good luck!

Charleygirl5 Wed 24-Aug-22 10:21:46

I ended up not buying an automatic for that reason.

I have a desktop computer with the mouse etc on my left and most people who do not know me and enter my house for whatever reason make some comment.

I no longer knit but when I did, I felt like something from the circus being seen using my left hand.

Grannynannywanny Wed 24-Aug-22 10:23:15

petunia I’m another who had my left handedness discouraged as a small school child. I write with my right hand but do everything else left handed eg using a carving knife, screwdriver etc . I even kick a ball with my left foot.

I would suggest you persevere with the automatic. I had only ever driven a manual car till last year when my daughter encouraged me to use her automatic VW camper van. I was very apprehensive at first and expected I’d never become used to it. But I was surprised how quickly I mastered it after a few local test drives.

My only problem is when I return home after a few days away and start to drive my manual car again. I have to be extra careful for the first few hours as my feet don’t seem to naturally find the clutch and brake pedals without extra concentration.

Visgir1 Wed 24-Aug-22 10:32:42

My new car is an Automatic, DH had them for years
Why did I wait so long, easiest Car to drive, you just need remember not to use your Left foot.
Good luck and this will be second nature soon.

MissAdventure Wed 24-Aug-22 10:35:33

I can't even work a can opener properly, so behind the wheel of a car is a bit of a worry.

M0nica Wed 24-Aug-22 10:36:55

I am not a leftie but have always operated a mouse with my left hand. It was instinctive from the time I first sat down at a computer and transferred the mouse from right to left because operating it with my right hand felt so clumsy.

And I agree with Charleygirl5 people always comment on this and I get fed up with people who swap it to the right in order to use my computer and then fail to return it to its proper place! Thats you, I am talking to, DH, DS, DD.

petunia Wed 24-Aug-22 11:29:15

Being a leftie in the world is fraught with minor irritations isn't it MOinca and Charley. When I was a student midwife I was told quite firmly that all vaginal examinations and episiotomies MUST be done with my right hand. I converted to the right side but it took quite some time to feel normal.
I've always struggled with group activities such as zumba and other exercise classes. While everyone else leads with their right, I automatically lead to the left-causing many a clash with people at my side.

MissAdventure Wed 24-Aug-22 11:35:45

I can remember many a time, me and my girl lifting something ridiculously heavy, and me doing it "wrong'.
Ironing my mums knickers, then getting told I'd put them in the drawer the wrong way round, and my grandson telling me everything in his wardrobe is hung up facing the wrong way

SueDonim Wed 24-Aug-22 12:45:13

Both my DD’s are lefties. The older one drives my automatic car with no problem. The younger one isn’t allowed to drive it yet - insurance is too high! grin

kittylester Wed 24-Aug-22 12:58:24

I'm left handed but was never discouraged. I write like a right hander as does my left handed daughter. My 2 lefthanded sons in law both write 'over the top'.

When I worked in a bank all the adding machines were made to be used right handed so I did.

My next car will be automatic and I am not expecting any problems.

grandtanteJE65 Wed 24-Aug-22 13:05:14

I doubt that anyone who has reached our age and always driven with a manual gearbox will ever feel comfortable driving an automatic car.

But the advice to drive a little every day is probably sound.

Do you need to drive your husband's car? Can't you stick to your own?

grandtanteJE65 Wed 24-Aug-22 13:07:10

MissAdventure

I can't even work a can opener properly, so behind the wheel of a car is a bit of a worry.

But surely you can buy both tin openers and scissors for left-handed people?

If they are not available in Britain try Amazon.de.

MaizieD Wed 24-Aug-22 13:07:19

I'm right handed and have had to drive an automatic car from time to time. I have trouble with what to do with my left foot, too.. and my left hand... I think it's just a question of getting used to it.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 24-Aug-22 13:12:29

But you don’t have a problem with the gear stick in a manual car petunia?

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 24-Aug-22 13:13:25

Sorry I didn’t think - of course you don’t! Doh!!!

SueDonim Wed 24-Aug-22 13:15:18

Sweeping statement there, Grandetante. It took me all of five minutes to get used to an automatic car.

GrannySomerset Wed 24-Aug-22 13:26:14

When I collected my automatic car I asked a neighbour to come out with me for an hour and have never looked back. Only wish I had had one years ago.

NotSpaghetti Wed 24-Aug-22 13:32:36

MissAdventure

I can't even work a can opener properly, so behind the wheel of a car is a bit of a worry.

Maybe invest in a left-handed can-opener?

NotSpaghetti Wed 24-Aug-22 13:36:29

I have recently inherited my mother-in-law's automatic. I'm right handed but still found it really difficult - especially that left foot! ... as someone else said, plant it firmly on the floor!!!

I made myself go out in it every day for about 2 weeks - even if I only drove a few miles to the tip or 15 to visit mother-in-law. I am OK now. You will surely get there with use.
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Cold Wed 24-Aug-22 13:45:47

I think that driving an automatic car takes a bit of adjusting to regardless of which hand you use as it is the feeling of something being "odd" or not enough to do.

My automatic car is driven by the whole family which includes lefties and righties. I tell them that to pretend they are driving a fairground dodgem - stick it in drive and then one foot for the accelerator and the other for the brake! DD1 manages to drive it well despite having grown up without a dominant hand - she writes left handed but uses a computer right handed.

When you change cars there is a period of adaptation and I speak as someone who:
- learned/drove manual for 14 years in the UK - gear change left handed
- moved to Scandinavia and drove manual 15 years - gear change right hand (but pedals the same as UK)
- had accident and switched to automatic as not able to change gear

merlotgran Wed 24-Aug-22 13:48:06

I’m left handed and have been driving automatics for about fifteen years. My left knee is arthritic so is grateful not to have to do anything.

Zonne Wed 24-Aug-22 13:50:58

I’m left handed (and left-footed) and can drive an automatic. It’s just a matter paid practice. Tuck your left foot under the seat for a while.

Rosie51 Wed 24-Aug-22 14:12:04

I'm right handed and for years wouldn't drive my husband's automatic, it felt so alien it scared me blush . Eventually when we were going down to one car I had to. It took a little while before I stopped going to put it in first gear every time I pulled away from a stopped position but I got there in the end. I also did what Zonne says, placed my left foot right back against the seat, completely out of the way.