Athrawes
Where does the idea of wearing black come from? Does anyone know?
I loathe wearing black and have told my family to wear anything except black - it's so draining.
When a family member is no longer with us and we all feel very sad black impacts - in my view - on the lovely and happy occasions we've spent with that person. I've been to several funerals now with mourners not wearing black and to me it was far more acceptable to share the good experiences through our clothes as well as our conversation
Yes, ,I do know.
Until the 15th century, royal and noble women in Europe (read: those who could afford a dress just for mourning) wore a plain white dress when attending funerals and in the days between a death and the funeral.
White is still the traditional colour for mourning clothes in the Far East.
In the 15th century, Flemish cloth-dyers discoverd what chemicals could be used as fixatives for dark blue and black dyes. This made it possible to make and sell black cloth that held its colour, instead of fading to greenish-grey, or rubbing off.
Obviously, this new, fashionable black cloth was expensive, so only the rich could afford it. So they wore it on all and every occasion to parade their wealth.
The invention of aninline dyes during the (long) reign of Queen Victoria, brought black mourning clothes within the prices many less rich people could afford, which is one of the reasons for the massive use of mourning garments at that time.
Not everything held its colour though - the crepe and gauze associated with widows' weeds ran like nobody's business if you got caught out in a shower of rain - which in the UK is almost bound to happen at least once in the year that Victorian and Edwardian widows were draped in black!
My mother and grandmothers had one or two black dresses and skirts hanging at the back of their wardrobes and black hats and gloves kept to be dug out when there was a funeral to go to. I have a black skirt and jacket lurking in my bedroom too, although I have attended funerals in dark blue or grey, but black felt right when my sister died.
Obviously, the royal family have black dresses and hats in a wardrobe somewhere - it is after all only about a year since Prince Phillip died.