Franbern
The death/funeral of a 96 year old has a absolutely no effect on me or a anymember of my extended family.
As for respect - well, I never knew or met this woman so have no idea if I have any specific respect for her. I can definitely state that I have no respect whatsoever. for an archaic title she used
No, I agree. But I don't see world events in terms of how they impact on me or my extended family, other than on a reactive and immediate level. I am happy to be watching a box set and doing some knitting, but can also see that this is an important event on the world stage, which is not somewhere that I occupy a space.
That is not to say that 'ordinary' people are less important than others in an existential sense - just that more people know about leaders, movers and shakers, so their coming and going has a greater impact on the world at large. Funerals of those in my family and friendship groups have a far greater impact on me than this one, but they won't matter to you, and I don't expect them to, as you don't know the people involved, and other than in the 'butterfly flapping its wings' sense, they won't have made a difference to your life.
The religious aspect is also lost on me, as I am an atheist; but it is a comfort for many to hear the words of the service and to listen or sing along with the hymns, so why not? The Queen was head of the Church, so it makes sense for her to have a full Christian send-off. Of course it is unbalanced that one person gets all of this pageantry when many others die and have their remains disposed of alone, but either we decide as a society that there will be no more cakes and ale or we have to accept that these discrepancies exist.