People often say 'I don't know how you have the time for....' whatever it is that they don't like doing - with the implication that if you prefer reading to gardening (their particular hobby) you are somehow lazier and by implication inferior. It's very nice to relax in front of Netflix in the evening - and we all have time for the things we want to do!
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Can You Name 5 More Songs? (number 2)
Being moved along by someone who "wants your place".