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Callistemon21 Sun 04-Dec-22 14:19:45

I am glad to say that excess does not come into for me and my family
Keep the chocolate brazils away from me then!!

MerylStreep Sun 04-Dec-22 14:14:05

Karmalady
Would you be offended if posters criticised your spending habits, probably not, I’m thinking.

merlotgran Sun 04-Dec-22 14:03:33

Gymstagran, The first Christmas is so hard. I won’t send flowers. Have a few 🍷 instead.

Enjoy the kind of Christmas you want, Baggs. The thing I look forward to the most is no longer having to drive long distances in horrible traffic/weather now I’ve moved just ten minutes away from DD2 and her family.

And no more kennels for Peggy which always had me wracked with guilt.

Kandinsky Sun 04-Dec-22 13:44:15

I’m not quite at the ‘bah humbug’ stage, but at almost 60 I’ve seen it all before, and Christmas is now just an expensive ritual I go through.
I loved Christmas when my children were little, but once they grow up the magic disappears.
It’s still nice to get together with family & open a few bottles of something, but overall, it’s just another long weekend now & a break from the office.

Smileless2012 Sun 04-Dec-22 13:40:37

Each to their own, it's their business yes it is Marydoll. How much, how much it costs and how they pay for it.

Marydoll Sun 04-Dec-22 13:38:13

I haven't noticed any posts on GN, where people have indicated that they are planning lavish spreads, spending to excess and even worse, paying for it all 😱)with credit cards.

Each to their own, it's their business.
IMO, a tad judgemental Karmalady.

Smileless2012 Sun 04-Dec-22 13:28:41

Gymnstagranflowers.

HousePlantQueen Sun 04-Dec-22 13:24:19

I am definitely not bah humbug wrt christmas but am watching so many here on GN, planning huge spreads and spending loads of money, which is often being put on credit cards. Buy now pay later

My christmas will conisist of a few happy hours with family, I shall drive there and drive back in the light. A nice short inexpensive family gathering. I am glad to say that excess does not come into for me and my family

Well that's us telt

karmalady Sun 04-Dec-22 13:20:20

gymstagran, I am so very sorry. flowers

I am definitely not bah humbug wrt christmas but am watching so many here on GN, planning huge spreads and spending loads of money, which is often being put on credit cards. Buy now pay later

My christmas will conisist of a few happy hours with family, I shall drive there and drive back in the light. A nice short inexpensive family gathering. I am glad to say that excess does not come into for me and my family

Baggs Sun 04-Dec-22 12:54:39

gymsta 🫂 flowers

Marydoll Sun 04-Dec-22 12:46:14

I love Christmas!

As a child I didn't have very nice ones, so once I had children of my own, I made sure it was an important family occasion.

My Christian faith also has a lot to do with it.

Gymstagran Sun 04-Dec-22 12:45:47

I'm totally bah humbug this year. 1st year without my daughter, another brain tumour casualty.

Smileless2012 Sun 04-Dec-22 12:38:30

Love the card Shinamae grin even though I love Christmas.

Shinamae Sun 04-Dec-22 12:30:13

I’m absolutely with you…..

MerylStreep Sun 04-Dec-22 12:27:03

We hosted bar humbug xmases for many years after the children had grown up.
Everyone contributed food and drink: they were wonderful.
Then the grandchildren came along and I had to join in again.
I did a lot of Crisis At Christmas in the 80s. They are the best, although I have to say I volunteered for a Quaker Xmas once, they were lovely.

Luckygirl3 Sun 04-Dec-22 12:24:41

Nope! I love Christmas .... but I guess it depends whom you share it with and what you do.

All the family get together and we have lots of fun. All the wee cousins get on so well together and love to see each other. Now that I am widowed and live alone I am very glad of this get together.

Baggs Sun 04-Dec-22 12:19:51

The title was just going to be Bah humbug but that patronising message you get when composing your title made me add extra characters, including three full stops 🙄

I just wanted to start a thread for people like me who don't really do xmas. I'm not a feasting sort of person so that side of it has no appeal. Nor do I like turkey anyway – well, it's good cold with bread sauce and stuffing in a sandwich but I'm not cooking a whole blasted turkey for that, nor steeping in milk an onion stabbed with cloves as in the Delia bread sauce method. It's the best bread sauce but...

Anyway, the kids are grown up and all away. The grandkids always have xmas at home and this will be especially important this year for my brain-tumoured daughter.

So.... Mr B might want a bit of chocolate and/or an extra toddy of Laphroaig but he is now successfully losing the very excess weight he had accumulated so over-indulgence should be avoided.

All in all then, it's not so much bah humbug (except for the canned music in shops!!) as, in usual Baggs style.... shrug 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyone want to join me?