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farview Thu 15-Dec-22 09:43:12

..in sods law...my H has an appointment at the memory clinic tomorrow, weve waited quite a few months for it...on Tues he was shivering and coughing...yesterday was really poorly, today hes seeing the doctor..suspected pneumonia....I've been so desperate for a diagnosis for him....

Baggs Thu 15-Dec-22 09:46:17

Oh! how rubbish for you and him, farview. Will the pneumonia be treated in hospital? And if so could they do a memory assessment there too? Hope so! flowers

farview Thu 15-Dec-22 09:49:06

I dont know Baggs will have to see what the doctor says...

Blossoming Thu 15-Dec-22 09:52:50

Sod has a lot to answer for in my opinion! I hope your DH is soon on the mend and something can be sorted about his assessment.

Redhead56 Thu 15-Dec-22 10:12:30

You are bound to be concerned about your DH he will be in safe hands. He will most likely be treated for pneumonia first. Then the memory assessment and any treatment required it will hopefully put your mind at rest.

FannyCornforth Thu 15-Dec-22 11:45:29

Oh no, you must be so worried thanks

Susan56 Thu 15-Dec-22 12:03:18

I’m so sorry to hear this fair view.Wishing your husband a speedy recovery and hope he can have the memory assessment very soon.
💐for you.

HousePlantQueen Thu 15-Dec-22 12:06:49

Wishing your DH a good recovery. It's so frustrating isn't it!

Grannybags Thu 15-Dec-22 14:49:00

That's so annoying isn't it!

Hoping all goes well for both you and your DH flowers

HeavenLeigh Thu 15-Dec-22 14:53:22

That’s so frustrating hopefully will get sorted soon

Smileless2012 Thu 15-Dec-22 14:56:14

How frustrating for you both farview. I hope your DH feels better soon and you don't have to wait too long for another appointment at the memory clinic.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 15-Dec-22 15:01:43

That must be so frustrating for you both. Maybe they will pick something up as regards to the memory loss and treat it as urgent? I hope he will feel better soon 💐

Kalu Thu 15-Dec-22 15:05:25

I hope your DH recovers soon and is assessed ASAP. If he requires hospitalisation, hopefully a member from the memory clinic can do the assessment during his stay.
Such a worrying time for you both. Best wishes.

nanaK54 Thu 15-Dec-22 15:06:12

That is so difficult, sending kind thoughts flowers

farview Thu 15-Dec-22 15:12:17

Just back from the doctors...she thinks it's a virus...has given us a prescription for in case it gets worse over weekend...and she said its okay for us to attend the two hour appointment at the memory clinic tomorrow...he keeps saying hes not going because theres nothing wrong with him...but there is and I'm finding it very wearing...we were in Dubai at our daughter and family Nov3rd until November 24th and within 2 days of being home..hes no recollection of having been there...that's just an example...

Jaxjacky Thu 15-Dec-22 15:21:52

Phew in one respect farview but I can understand the frustration in respect of the memory assessment, I hope it goes as well as it can.

Blossoming Thu 15-Dec-22 15:22:39

Relieved for you, hope tomorrow’s appointment is productive.

Ali23 Thu 15-Dec-22 17:17:20

So sorry to read this. It must be so hard for you both. I do hope that you can get some support.

farview Thu 15-Dec-22 17:24:12

Thank you all for your comments and good wishes...I shall post re the outcome tomorrow.....

hollysteers Thu 15-Dec-22 17:24:29

Very difficult situation farview have been through this myself 💐

Oldnproud Thu 15-Dec-22 17:43:07

I feel for you, farview.
When an H is in denial, there is a lot if pressure on you both.

Wheniwasyourage Thu 15-Dec-22 17:49:29

Best wishes, farview. Hope you get on well tomorrow. flowers

Hetty58 Thu 15-Dec-22 17:50:08

Farview, has he had a blood test recently? I'm asking, just in case, because my friend's mother was seriously low in Folic Acid - and it made her memory symptoms much worse.

farview Thu 15-Dec-22 17:56:44

Yes he had full range of blood tests after failing an NHS memory test done by our GP....hence his referral to the memory clinic...sorry hollysteers that you have been through this also...

Chrissielou Thu 15-Dec-22 18:02:37

Im very sorry to read this farview, so worrying for you. flowers