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Falling out with family

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Nanderin Sun 25-Dec-22 03:33:50

My daughter has fallen out with me. Now grandchildren won't speak to me. due to my husband haveing words. I am beside myself.

VioletSky Mon 26-Dec-22 15:25:29

I can

Norah Mon 26-Dec-22 22:22:31

OP, this post is quite confusing.

Your D has fallen out with you. Your GC aren't speaking to you. Your H has had words with you, your D and or GC?

Who is correct? I'd say the person at fault issues an apology.

GC shouldn't be involved in adult fall outs, one of you has that bit correct. Stay away from GC until an apology clears this.

MercuryQueen Mon 26-Dec-22 23:02:09

Thing of it is, if you fall out with one half of a married couple, expecting them to choose you over their spouse is generally advised against, even if they’re your parents.

And, while it seems to be something OP’s husband said, the question for me is, was OP present at the time? What was said?Did she support what her DH said? What was her reaction?

With the lack of context, it’s really hard to know what to suggest to improve the situation.

Nanderin Mon 26-Dec-22 23:06:19

Everything fine now thanks everyone.

Smileless2012 Tue 27-Dec-22 09:00:02

That's good to know Nanderin.