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biglouis Tue 03-Jan-23 13:22:50

There was recently a thread on MN where posters expressed the view that using sh**t and f**k were ridiculous and there was nothing wrong with the actual words.

Probably most of us use swear words in moments of stress or anger, including stubbed toes and banged elbows. However I was brought up to believe that people who expressed themselves mostly by swearing showed a poor vocabulary and lack of intelligence.

Mostly I steer clear of people who are constantly effing and blinding. My father worked on the Liverpool docks as a young man and I never once heard him use the F word.

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:31:02

Wibble.

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:32:00

GN goes into meltdown, people leave en masse, the end of the world is nigh. 😱 🤣

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:34:52

My turn?

volver Thu 05-Jan-23 19:36:41

Aye, have a go. wink flowers

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:42:32

I always roll a double 1

Callistemon21 Thu 05-Jan-23 19:43:14

JaneJudge

the funniest thing about this thread is the silent nigel slater video but I don't know if everyone else can see it grin

Ive got 'How to make Easy Arancini'

How did she know I'd planned that for Saturday dinner? 😲

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:44:19

No I’ve got slimming world confused

JaneJudge Thu 05-Jan-23 19:45:55

Slimming is a swear word in my house angry let alone a whole world of it

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 19:46:51

I got nothing

Yammy Thu 05-Jan-23 19:51:35

I've got Dementia "How to spot the early signs in time". We certainly don't need any lessons about that or do we.

Dickens Thu 05-Jan-23 19:58:02

Callistemon21

JaneJudge

the funniest thing about this thread is the silent nigel slater video but I don't know if everyone else can see it grin

Ive got 'How to make Easy Arancini'

How did she know I'd planned that for Saturday dinner? 😲

... did you Google the recipe for Arancini?

I believe ads are 'tailored' sometimes. I was looking for information on adjustable beds the other day, and now I keep seeing adverts for them.

BTW, M&S do some rather nice Mushroom Arancini!

Dickens Thu 05-Jan-23 20:04:54

VioletSky

When it comes to swearing , this is onething I really truly do not understand?

I don't see the difference between typing fuck and typing f**k

Isn't it realistically the exact same thing?

Why do we do that?

I think the strangest thing is when people type, "G*d"... I had it explained to me once but didn't understand the reasoning.

Can anyone enlighten me why God becomes G*d?

VioletSky Thu 05-Jan-23 20:10:48

Idk

The word atheist seems a bit of a swear word too...

Which is weird because there are over 2500 deities in the world and the vast majority of religious people only believe in 1 out of those 2500

I only believe in one less than them

Callistemon21 Thu 05-Jan-23 20:11:43

.... did you Google the recipe for Arancini?

No, Dickens, I'd never heard of it!

I was joking when I said I'd planned it for dinner.
It will probably be Spag Bol as a DGD is staying.

Elegran Fri 06-Jan-23 09:44:12

Dickens The ads ARE tailored on Google, and on any site which has opted into Googles ad scheme, unless you specifically select that you don't want tailored ads. They can scan the site page for mentions of - well, anything - and then place a relevant ad from one of their customers on the selling side. Gransnet has obviously opted in, to get some revenue from the site without actually selling ad space individually.

It is possible to stop the tailored ads, but you have to keep up your vigilance and check your settings frequently.

happycatholicwife1 Sat 07-Jan-23 00:48:40

Not a fan of swearing. I do it sometimes in the company of my DH (or someone I'm really close to) if I'm very upset. I don't think it's an indication particularly of being intelligent or creative. Some of the most intelligent and creative people that I know don't swear at all. Actually, I think people who swear a lot are just lazy. They're too lazy to use language that is inoffensive, or more descriptive or more uplifting. The English language is so rich, the words are so fascinating, why dilute it with words that are in the lower echelon of aesthetics? However, I will say some British swear words make me laugh, and I think they're so interesting, whereas American swear words are pretty much just vulgar. Frankly, when someone uses a lot of swear words, I lose interest in what they're saying. My eyes just glaze over.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 07:07:54

I am more upset by blasphemy than swearing.

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 08:13:57

mumofmadboys

I am more upset by blasphemy than swearing.

Why? Genuine question - what upsets you about it?

MerylStreep Sat 07-Jan-23 08:28:21

Dickens
It’s when you get adds for stuff you have only spoken about in your home: not searched for on line. That’s when you need to be concerned.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 09:29:11

My faith is very important to me and I find it upsetting when someone uses God's or Jesus' name so lightly and , to my mind, disrespectfully

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 10:36:07

mumofmadboys

My faith is very important to me and I find it upsetting when someone uses God's or Jesus' name so lightly and , to my mind, disrespectfully

Fair enough - but surely if one's faith is so strong, it's hardly going to be shaken by someone using blasphemy. If I remember rightly, this was one of the reasons I used to get into trouble at Sunday School, for questioning this type of belief.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 11:23:17

My faith is not shaken by someone blaspheming!

Blondiescot Sat 07-Jan-23 11:24:33

OOh, ok then! You do seem to be very touchy on the subject though.

Caleo Sat 07-Jan-23 11:31:39

'Shit' has become vey common, if TV films are any indication. When 'shit' is a metaphor for personal baggage of belongings or ideas it's a worthy metaphor, as baggage is subjective and can be dispensed with, same as faecal matter.

'Cunt' is often unpleasant as when it's a swear word it's always linked to sexist attitude, even when the user is unaware of the link.

Personally , and despite I'm what most believers would call an atheist, I almost shudder when the name of God is casually used as a swear word.

mumofmadboys Sat 07-Jan-23 16:41:58

No Blondiescot - not touchy at all. Just simply giving my opinion.