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Virtue Signalling

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GagaJo Tue 07-Mar-23 09:18:59

What type of virtue signalling really gets up your nose?

I'm starting because I'm irritable this morning!

People who have walls / huge bookshelves full of books but never read. A class signifier.

Galaxy Sun 12-Mar-23 09:57:48

I hope you arent driving to the food bank doodle. I always walk the 14 miles for my shift on the food bank, I cant justify damaging our wonderful planet even whilst doing good.

M0nica Sun 12-Mar-23 10:05:43

Beautifully put Doodledog

nanna8 Sun 12-Mar-23 11:01:48

Yes, sadly, I have to see your point Doodledog. I wasn’t allowing for personality disorders 🫣

Mollygo Sun 12-Mar-23 11:22:17

Admitting to reading the Daily Mail is an abomination to some.
But finding out what’s in the Daily Mail by reading comments on is permissible?🤣🤣

JaneJudge Sun 12-Mar-23 11:58:19

There have been some horrible threads on our local facebook about the cars people turn up in when using the food bank and then people justifying what car they have turned up (it was my neighbours etc)
People are mean

M0nica Sun 12-Mar-23 13:53:34

One of the joys of reading the Daily Mail is seeing how aeriated other people get when you tell them. Including on GN!

sodapop Sun 12-Mar-23 17:20:45

The Christmas card thing annoys me as well Grannygravy as if sending cards precludes charitable donations.

Iam64 Sun 12-Mar-23 17:51:51

Reading the Daily Mail is one thing. Agreeing with its awful right wing belief systems another thing altogether

Doodledog Sun 12-Mar-23 18:12:33

Iam64

Reading the Daily Mail is one thing. Agreeing with its awful right wing belief systems another thing altogether

Agreed, and neither has anything to do with virtue signalling grin

M0nica Sun 12-Mar-23 21:12:17

But you cannot understand the politics behind the DM or understand the rational behind its politically motivated readers unless you read it.

Mollygo Sun 12-Mar-23 22:14:49

Is there an assumption here that all DM readers believe everything they read there and follow its politics without question?

Iam64 Mon 13-Mar-23 08:09:17

Mollygo

Is there an assumption here that all DM readers believe everything they read there and follow its politics without question?

There may be Mollygo. I’m tempted to start an ‘I read the daily hate on line and it increases my loathing of its politics ‘ thread.

I confess, I look at it on line. I know, I’m contributing to its empire by doing this and possibly need a good talking to. I’m possibly addicted 😱. I never fail to be shocked by the level of bigotry and bias printed as though it’s a true reflection of what’s happening in our country. I’ve not been seduced into following its outrage. I also read the guardian, times, the I and occasionally the telegraph.

M0nica Mon 13-Mar-23 09:03:40

I cannot believe that anyone on GN could believe that my politics align with the DM.

Turn away from its politics, and I don't, I read them, it tells us a lot about a large group of our fellow citizens and a large tranche of our professional politicians. Outside its political pages its weekly sections on both medicine and personal finance are excellent.

Thanks to its medical pages I have been able to identify and understand the bowel condition that dogged my childhood and led to bullying and unhappiness.

The DM is like a political scratching post for those of us who find being profoundly irritated by the DM saves us from the deep deep ennui, caused by the Guardian.

varian Mon 13-Mar-23 10:11:54

The worry is that some people actually believe what they read in The Daily Mail.

The Daily Mail has been criticised for its unreliability, its printing of sensationalist and inaccurate scare stories of science and medical research, and for instances of plagiarism and copyright infringement. In February 2017, editors on the English Wikipedia banned the use of the Daily Mail as a source. for “poor fact checking, sensationalism, flat-out fabrication”

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daily_Mail

M0nica Mon 13-Mar-23 10:42:34

Of course they do. They buy it because it echos their views, not echo its views because they buy it.

What about readers of The Guardian, Times, Daily Telegraph.?

It is intellectually arrogant for GN members to consider themselves a cut above the rest because they do or do not read a specific paper.

One of the pleasures of reading the DM is watching how other people react. A bit like trout fishing. Holding a fly over the fishes head and try and flick it away before it jumps.

Casdon Mon 13-Mar-23 10:53:11

What did Oscar Wilde say?
We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.

varian Mon 13-Mar-23 11:26:28

As far as I know The Guardian, Times, Daily Telegraph are still considered to be newspapers.

They have their own political bias, and most of their readers will be aware of that bias, but unlike The Daily Mail, they have not been found to be mainly unreliable .

Doodledog Mon 13-Mar-23 12:13:04

I have gone off the Guardian, after a lifetime of reading it, because of its anti-feminist stance on trans issues. The way it has treated female journalists who believe in fact-based feminism is shameful, and this is reflected in its reporting as well as its editorial and columns.

I feel politically homeless these days, and that's not helped by the struggle to find a news source that I can rely on to any great extent. I am posting less on here, too.

The DM, however, is reliably awful. What I object to is not just the barefaced lies it tells, but the fact that they come from a place of small-minded unpleasantness and a culture of blame. Everything is the fault of one group or another, and it fosters division and 'othering'. I loathe it, and wouldn't read it if it came through the letterbox free of charge. My mum reads it (purportedly because she likes the TV pages and the crossword) and I hear its bigotry from her.

varian Mon 13-Mar-23 12:15:58

I recommend the "i" - the most balanced reporting and interesting articles from a wide range of political viewpoints.

FannyCornforth Mon 13-Mar-23 12:32:46

Re The Daily Mail.
It’s really not that big a deal for me.
It’s not exactly a hill I’m prepared to die on.

The main reasons we have the DM:

1. I find it mildly entertaining
And like Monica, there are regular articles I enjoy.
I also enjoy being outraged

2. Craig Brown. My favourite writer, he writes two columns a week (not sure what has recently happened to his book review though)

3. It’s a comfort / tradition thing,
a little reminder of my mom.
I read the DM as soon as I could read (and it’s never done me any harm! wink)

4. DH likes it. He has dyslexia, and the format and the length of articles suit him.

Fwiw I’m a member of the Labour Party and MrC is a floating voter.

We all make decisions based upon our circumstances and preferences.
I’m sure that many of you do things that I’d disapprove of and vice versa.
It doesn’t mean that any of us are bad or stupid people.

Sarah75 Mon 13-Mar-23 12:40:33

TerriBull

My husband has been picking up the i to read in The club lounge after golf, he thinks it's a pretty good as newspapers go. If I go to Waitrose, certainly not every day, I've got a free nominated
paper on my Waitrose App,which is The Times, but at £2.50 I'm not sure I'd buy it, too expensive! AND YES I read The Mail on line from time to time shock as I suspect many of its fiercest critics do, as they always seem to now what's going on in ithmm

I thought Waitrose had stopped free newspapers? I’d be interested in knowing more, TerriBull

Callistemon21 Mon 13-Mar-23 12:45:54

FannyCornforth

Re The Daily Mail.
It’s really not that big a deal for me.
It’s not exactly a hill I’m prepared to die on.

The main reasons we have the DM:

1. I find it mildly entertaining
And like Monica, there are regular articles I enjoy.
I also enjoy being outraged

2. Craig Brown. My favourite writer, he writes two columns a week (not sure what has recently happened to his book review though)

3. It’s a comfort / tradition thing,
a little reminder of my mom.
I read the DM as soon as I could read (and it’s never done me any harm! wink)

4. DH likes it. He has dyslexia, and the format and the length of articles suit him.

Fwiw I’m a member of the Labour Party and MrC is a floating voter.

We all make decisions based upon our circumstances and preferences.
I’m sure that many of you do things that I’d disapprove of and vice versa.
It doesn’t mean that any of us are bad or stupid people.

We buy it on Saturdays for the TV section - and I like Monty Don. The Mail has run some good campaigns with which many who despise it would probably agree (if they read it).

I also see links and articles posted on here by Gransnetters, which I would never have seen because I don't read the DM regularly, but it must be scoured daily by those who like to be outraged.😂

I also read articles from the Guardian (apparently too many because I'm always getting messages about how many I've read so far this year.

All this must mean I am very well balanced as I have a chip on each shoulder.

FannyCornforth Mon 13-Mar-23 12:46:00

Oh! And another thing! The DM is on the (what I believe to be) right side regarding women’s rights and safe spaces etc

FannyCornforth Mon 13-Mar-23 12:47:38

Yes Callistemon I’m always being reprimanded by The Guardian.
And The Telegraph has cancelled me altogether! sad

Callistemon21 Mon 13-Mar-23 12:58:02

I don't subscribe to any that want my email address!