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Bath or shower - lighthearted!

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Sallywally1 Sat 01-Apr-23 07:33:25

I have just had a bath! Nothing remarkable about that you say, scratching your head.

We had a Shower put in around three years ago as part of a bathroom re curb, which I usually use. However this morning I had an urge for a nice deep bath like I used to have. I put in some of the expensive l’occitane. Gel my son bought me for Christmas and it was wonderful! I feel thoroughly clean now. I know it uses a lot of water, some people say you don’t get so clean, but it was so nice. I just lay back and thought of…….all sorts of things. Slightly in my defence is the fact I have had some leakage trouble down below recently so wanted a real clean (TMI!).

So what do people prefer? Remember this is a lighthearted discussion so effects on the environment etc are not allowed!

Bellanonna Sat 01-Apr-23 11:51:00

I love a bath. I have the radio on and keep topping up with hot water. A shower is just for speed if I’m going out or need to be quick.
Those who read, don’t your books get wet?

JackyB Sat 01-Apr-23 11:46:31

We have a bath once a week on a Sunday morning so the bathtub gets a clean. I sit there with a face pack and hair pack and discuss the week to come with DH. But I need a shower when I get out, having sat in my own soup.

It is handy to put the DGC in for a happy half hour though.

ExDancer Sat 01-Apr-23 11:29:54

I like a bath, DH likes a shower. We are both 84.

This is what we did. Our combined loo and bathroom is 6ft x 10 ft and we just had the space to put a shower on the same long wall as the loo, and a perspex screen between.
Here is a , not very clear, photo which pleases us both.

Dottydots Sat 01-Apr-23 11:25:06

I find it hard to get in or out of my bath, so opt for the shower. I can't lift my feet in the shower to wash them, though, as I fear I might lose my balance. After I am washed and dried, I then have to sit on the settee and wash my feet in a bowl. What a performance!

crazyH Sat 01-Apr-23 11:08:56

I have a bath, but don’t use it for obvious reasons. The shower is not the walk-in type. I would like to replace it with one of those, but money and upheaval !!!!

Nandalot Sat 01-Apr-23 10:58:07

I used to find a bath really relaxing. Now on the very rare occasions when I have one, I spend my time worrying whether I will be able to get out or if the fire brigade will need to be called.

Merelina Sat 01-Apr-23 10:35:49

I was lying in the bath a while ago, reading my book, when my five year old grandson came in. He put his elbows on the side of the bath, head in hands and studied me, floating boobs and tummy. I waited for The Comment - “ The problem is, how to keep your book dry”

aonk Sat 01-Apr-23 10:29:44

I only ever have a bath at home although we do also have a shower. I use the shower very unwillingly when on holiday or on a cruise ship. I’ve never liked the feeling of water on my face which comes from many years of wearing glasses for severe short sight. I can see so much better since my cataract operations but still hate showering!

Grannybags Sat 01-Apr-23 10:19:59

It's a bath every time for me.

The only time I shower is in hotels or holiday lets as I can't stand the idea of the people that have been in there before me!

I'm odd I know!

BigBertha1 Sat 01-Apr-23 10:04:18

Shower for me mostly and its the best place for hairwashing and leg shaving. BUT I love a nice bath after a cold day golfing or walking but I don't do it often. The bath in this house is huge and takes a lot of filling. You would think new houses would have small baths or no baths. A bath is lovely for my back.

Georgesgran Sat 01-Apr-23 09:48:01

I like both, but there’s nothing like a long bath with a book and a drink for relaxation. It seems to warm the bones and I’m so fortunate that getting in and out isn’t a problem.
Many years ago, we had a huge freestanding bath put into our family bathroom - I’ve never used it. In fact, I think the only person who has is my SinL after she completed the Great North Run, probably 15 years ago!

dogsmother Sat 01-Apr-23 09:20:44

Shower every time. The dog is the only user of the bath in this house! It’s been the same for years….

M0nica Sat 01-Apr-23 09:17:24

When we had a bathroom refit we installed a walk-in shower, as well as keeping the bath, so that should either of us find as we got older we could not get in and out the bath, we had an alternative

The only person who uses the shower is DD, when she visits.

I use our second bathroom because it has a huge 1960's plastic bath, as solid and nearly as heavy as a cast-iron one. I wallow in it, no bubbles, just hot water that flows over and around me.

Soaking in the bath is one of my mental and physical luxuries. I soothe my conscious water-wise by only having one every other day.

Showers are too much like hard work, You have to work at making sure you are thoroughly clean. In a bath, you relax and the water does all the hard work.

I am a spa visitor. For me water is meant to be relaxing.

biglouis Sat 01-Apr-23 09:16:32

As lemsip says you can use the hand shower to do all your "bits"

biglouis Sat 01-Apr-23 09:15:15

The last time I had a bath (years ago) my arthritis made getting up a real problem so I have showered ever since. It uses less water (therefore cheaper) and is quicker. I have never been a fan of lying around in water.

lemsip Sat 01-Apr-23 09:08:58

you can have a real clean in the shower by holding the shower head and putting it up and under and anywhere you want it!
puzzled by your remark!

Mollygo Sat 01-Apr-23 08:59:57

Granmarderby10

Or (b) containing a reluctant dog in one.🤣🤣🤣
Our dog isn’t reluctant but I do go in there with her.

ginny Sat 01-Apr-23 08:57:05

I would much prefer a nice relaxing bath but cannot manage getting out. So, showers have to do.

Granmarderby10 Sat 01-Apr-23 08:53:02

One other thing about showers and wet rooms: ever tried (a) washing a young child and helping them rinse their hair ? Or (b) containing a reluctant dog in one ? That is without getting soaking wet yourself.
Perhaps resort to swimwear😅

Cabbie21 Sat 01-Apr-23 08:39:26

Bath, no doubt.
I hate showers- must date from school days.
Our bath is small, so doesn't take long to fill, or rather part- fill. I don’t stay in long, and takes me as long to get dry as to bathe.
But a bath reaches parts that a shower can’t.

Mollygo Sat 01-Apr-23 08:33:58

Both, and like Nanna8 we have a spa bath. I save it for weekends or GC visits. Showers are so quick, but a bath is so relaxing.

Sallywally1 Sat 01-Apr-23 08:31:38

It’s what suits people really. I just found it amazing after three years to lie back in scented water. My problem is getting out! I have small rails on the bath, but my knees did hurt getting out, it’s what has been putting me off really. But I did it! (Now I will go on to save the world!). I wish. No just the usual. Have a lovely weekend.

nanna8 Sat 01-Apr-23 08:30:45

We have both. The bath is a small spa bath with 6 jets, very relaxing. If I have a bath I take a book with me and read, not something you could do in a shower!

Grandma70s Sat 01-Apr-23 08:27:21

In this retirement flat I only have a walk-in shower. I hate it. However, I could no longer manage the bath in my last house. I could get in, but getting out was another matter. How I miss it! I agree with those who think you never feel really clean with a shower. The water goes down you, but it doesn’t go round you, and I find I have to wash various bits separately, before or after the shower.

A bath is relaxing, a shower is not, and it isn’t any quicker. My baths took less than ten minutes if I didn’t choose to wallow. Get in, wash all over, get out.

Granmarderby10 Sat 01-Apr-23 08:26:19

Both ideally😊
But I have to “make do” with a wet room.
My solution has been (find a plastic chair) that *doesn’t look like it belongs in a care setting and a good quality plastic rectangular washing up bowl - one with a stopper for drainage. Sit under shower and soak feet in bubbles etc etc.
Have to hunt far and wide for these