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kittylester Tue 18-Apr-23 08:24:47

Watching the TV last night some one mentioned something being 50 years ago. It was quite a shock to discover they meant 1973!!

How the heck did that happen?

Auntieflo Tue 18-Apr-23 08:30:26

I know the feeling Kitty. This year our eldest son will be 60. Just remember his little 'Michelin Man' legs kicking away in his pram and thinking how wonderful he was. Course he still is, but now with a lot more hair smile and over 6 feet tall.

Hetty58 Tue 18-Apr-23 08:31:04

I really don't know - it just can't be right can it?

GrannyGravy13 Tue 18-Apr-23 08:33:56

It is really quiet scary how time is flying by, I do not feel old on the inside only when I see my reflection 🤣🤣👵👵

Grannybags Tue 18-Apr-23 08:35:08

It does come as a shock doesn't it!

Someone was talking about all the fuss over 1999/2000 New Year when all our tech was supposed to stop working. I was surprised to realise that even that was 23 years ago.

Seems like yesterday!

NannyJan53 Tue 18-Apr-23 08:50:30

1973 I turned 20, this year I will be 70! That cannot be right? shock

In the 60’s, when the Millenium was being discussed I remember thinking I will be so old then at 47! grin

Septimia Tue 18-Apr-23 09:06:49

When I was researching for my thesis - in the 2010s - I was told not to use "old" references. As far as I was concerned they weren't old. They dated from the 70s, so easily within living memory (and relevant if nothing had been written on the subject since)!!

NotSpaghetti Tue 18-Apr-23 09:10:37

Auntieflo

I know the feeling Kitty. This year our eldest son will be 60. Just remember his little 'Michelin Man' legs kicking away in his pram and thinking how wonderful he was. Course he still is, but now with a lot more hair smile and over 6 feet tall.

I love this post!
My Michelin-leg boys now have much less hair though!

Grannybags Tue 18-Apr-23 09:15:40

Mine have more on the face but less on their head!!

Yammy Tue 18-Apr-23 09:18:31

1973 was my second year of teaching,I was really enjoying it.
My parents were alive and we were all enjoying life looking forward to my possible wedding the next year.
DH was due to qualify and get his degree. Life was in front of us.
Now it is behind and we look back with nostalgia and have the grandchildren to brighten the skies when we manage to see them.

Cheeseplantmad Tue 18-Apr-23 09:38:31

I feel like I’d got on a train in 1973 , it then raced by at top speed , and now I’ve got off the train in 2023 , only to find I’m now 50 years older and the best years of my life has passed by in a flash.

Very often things from the past spring to mind for no apparent reason , some with happiness some with sadness .

The only consolation is that I’m now much more confident, knowledgeable and wiser and have my lovely grown up children and grandchildren to enjoy .

Kate1949 Tue 18-Apr-23 09:43:01

I know what you mean kitty. Although our granddaughter is 23 and the light of our lives, it still feels strange when she introduces me to someone saying 'This is my nan'. Although I love being her nan, I feel like saying 'No you don't understand. I'm still in mini skirts and Afghan coats'.

Marthjolly1 Tue 18-Apr-23 09:50:24

Mum was horrified when my sister turned 60. "Fancy having a daughter whose a pensioner" she cried. That was now 18 years ago and sadly neither are with us now.

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 09:54:41

kittylester

Watching the TV last night some one mentioned something being 50 years ago. It was quite a shock to discover they meant 1973!!

How the heck did that happen?

Well yes, a true shock as our DD1 will be 50 soon (so probably something happened in ... 1972 ;) )

Fleurpepper Tue 18-Apr-23 09:55:55

Cheeseplantmad

I feel like I’d got on a train in 1973 , it then raced by at top speed , and now I’ve got off the train in 2023 , only to find I’m now 50 years older and the best years of my life has passed by in a flash.

Very often things from the past spring to mind for no apparent reason , some with happiness some with sadness .

The only consolation is that I’m now much more confident, knowledgeable and wiser and have my lovely grown up children and grandchildren to enjoy .

I got on the wrong train in London in 1970 ... the rest is a long history (I asked a young man to help me- and we married in 1971...)

Witzend Tue 18-Apr-23 10:02:56

I do often wonder how I can possibly be 74. How on earth did that happen?
(though better than the alternative, I know…)

Wyllow3 Tue 18-Apr-23 10:03:57

It always feels "no way!" but when I think about it my Nan was born in 1897 and I carry her stories and my mums and Dad's stories and everything that happened - what a rich tapestry - its almost impossible to think what a different sense of history our grandchildren will grow up with.

annsixty Tue 18-Apr-23 10:09:45

I get a shock when I have to enter my birth date online and I scroll forever to reach 1937!!
I keep expecting that one time it won’t go as far as that.
However I do know I am far from the oldest GN member.

annsixty Tue 18-Apr-23 10:25:06

To add to that it is 4 years today since my DH died, it seems like a lifetime or yesterday, depending on the day or the memory.

kittylester Tue 18-Apr-23 10:31:09

Oh, ann, sending huge hugs. thanks

annsixty Tue 18-Apr-23 10:44:04

Thank you kitty
You were a great help and support during his dementia.
Sorry to derail the thread, please all go back to the OP.

Ali08 Tue 18-Apr-23 11:20:42

Kate1949

I know what you mean kitty. Although our granddaughter is 23 and the light of our lives, it still feels strange when she introduces me to someone saying 'This is my nan'. Although I love being her nan, I feel like saying 'No you don't understand. I'm still in mini skirts and Afghan coats'.

I wonder what my lot would say if I wore a mini skirt, especially with bare legs?
I think I'd be too busy laughing at the looks on their faces to hear whatever came out of their mouths!

Kate1949 Tue 18-Apr-23 11:23:40

I hope it was clear that the mini skirts and Afghan coats were in my head only! I don't go swanning around in them now at 73.

Callistemon21 Tue 18-Apr-23 11:29:01

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Elless Tue 18-Apr-23 11:31:37

Are you talking about when they mentioned Emmerdale had been on air for 50 years Kitty? I was shocked too. My DH and I were having a discussion about a 70 year old he met who was learning to ride a motorcycle and I thought he was too old until I realised my DH is 65 and I'm 62 and we ride 😂😂