Jb2022 and Pippa22, - before covid, when I was people watching in a Waitrose cafe on a regular basis, there was an older woman, very neat and trim, but tottering along on painfully high heeled shoes. I saw her most weeks and she never gave those darned heels up. It seemed to me that this was her one outing every week and she was going to be done up to the nines! She seemed overdressed for the supermarket to me but she was happy, particularly when someone stopped her to compliment her dress - she truly beamed with pleasure!
This week I couldn't help but think how times have changed here in the UK. When I was a kid you had to be clean, tidy, nothing tatty or torn, no beachwear, no sports wear, nothing that showed more skin than was the norm and certainly no showing of underwear however pretty it was. Now anything goes. Men wear shorts (and sometimes flip flops) in the winter, I've seen young women in their dressing gowns and pyjamas in the supermarket (!!!!) and I've seen some huge women (and I'm a 22 so when I say huge I mean huge) wearing tiny tops and shorts. Some of it I think is just plain wrong but I have to say that I also think I wish I had just some of the confidence to wear what I'd like to wear (not shorts, I promise you) that the body-positive women have right now. Good for them. You really do have to be comfortable in your own skin and my feet love my various pairs of trainers, I hope it shows on my face. You really can learn a lot by watching people, can't you.