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Such a tall young man!

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CanadianGran Fri 29-Sept-23 22:39:59

I went into my local jeweller's the other day and was greeted by a young man new to the business. I know he is the son of the owners, and is now working in the shop.

My goodness, he is very tall, and it is very hard not to remark on it! In fact, I just looked him up since I know he played basketball. He is 6'10"

I wonder how many times a day he hears remarks about his height? And I wonder if it can be very frustrating at times; fitting into cars, having counter-tops at uncomfortably low levels, ducking through doors, etc.

Do you know many extraordinarily tall people, and how do they cope with live amongst the average?

Visgir1 Sat 30-Sept-23 17:05:23

Hope he's been checked out for Marfans syndrome?

Sago Sat 30-Sept-23 17:14:01

Our SIL is 6 9”.
People do remark and stare as our daughter is only 5 foot so it makes him appear taller.
He is generally very athletic and has to have his suits custom made, his shoes are a 15.
He was a professional athlete.

LovesBach Sat 30-Sept-23 21:56:03

My youngest Ddil is tall; not exceptionally so, but tall for a woman. She is beautiful, and has physical grace, but sadly she stoops a little because of unkind remarks made about her height all through the school years. I would so like to see her lift that lovely head up, throw her shoulders back and 'walk tall', but she is too self concious.

Witzend Sat 30-Sept-23 22:03:30

We used to have a friend of 6’ 8” - sadly no longer with us.

When dd2 at barely 4 years old first met him, her first words were, ‘Hey! You’re high!’

Yes, he had trouble with beds, baths and all sorts - had to order special sizes. Plus of course with economy seats on planes.

Katek Sat 30-Sept-23 22:08:04

We have a friend who is 6'8 - he ducks under door frames automatically and drives a pick up as opposed to a car. I wonder though if any of these very tall people have undiagnosed Marfan syndrome

HowVeryDareYou2 Sat 30-Sept-23 22:16:35

Lots of very tall people! My eldest son is 6ft 2, which seems very tall to me - I'm 5ft 1, a bit shorter than my 12 year old Granddaughter. People have often commented om my height, as though I'm now aware of being short grin

grannysyb Sun 01-Oct-23 08:43:36

My mother and sister, 5 foot 10 as is my DD and DG1, DG2 is about 5 foot 8. My DGS us 6 foot 4 like his father. I'm the short one at 5 foot 5. However my sister's partner is 6 foot 11, and makes her look quite small! When I first met him my dog barked every time he stood up from a chair, I think it was because he was so tall!

watermeadow Mon 02-Oct-23 13:29:20

I worked at a public school where the average height of pupils was probably 6” above most teenagers. I thought it was because their wealthy fathers could pick the most desirable partners, who would be tall, slim and beautiful.

JackyB Tue 03-Oct-23 07:11:39

I am not tall, but was above average height at age 7-8. My father told me I was tall (he was quite tall himself and his nephews were tall, too).

This made me feel like a freak and I have walked with a stoop ever since, even though I only grew to about 5'5" in the end.