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Daddima Sun 01-Oct-23 10:05:26

As I was searching for a pen ( kitchen drawer, where else!), I struggled to remember the last time I wrote anything. It was a letter to a friend whose wife had died, and I wrote it over a week ago.
I have one friend I write to, but otherwise it’s emails or media messages.

Davida1968 Mon 02-Oct-23 09:51:29

I write "by hand" almost every day. A small appointment diary, lists, notes (mostly to self!), letters (occasionally), & greetings cards. Pens are located all over the house , but they still go "walkabout"....

Redhead56 Mon 02-Oct-23 09:57:30

I study online different subjects to keep my brain active so I spend a lot of time taking notes. I don’t keep a diary for personal stuff I just write on a calendar things to do trivia appointments etc.

Susan56 Mon 02-Oct-23 10:30:45

I keep a diary and also a weekly to do list.I have just written a note to my granddaughter.

ninamoore Mon 02-Oct-23 12:33:13

I was once told by an else friend of my mum to write every day. It’s a skill that’s easily lost. I keep a journal, write when I have something to say, reading journal, after every book read and a yearbook for the family events also write events and appointments on the wall calendar. Sometimes my writing resembles my younger writing sometimes it doesn’t. Reinforcing what my my mum’s friend told me.

grandtanteJE65 Mon 02-Oct-23 12:50:32

I write shopping lists, lists of things to do, lists of questions for DH's oncologist, but apart from that I no longer write by hand.

Due to deterioration of my eyesight, my handwriting is awful these days, and I have never subscribed to the view that a hand-written letter is better or preferable to a typed one, or an e-mail.

Letters should be a joy to write and to read, and my handwriting being what it is these days, mine would be neither if I wrote them by hand.

Mallin Mon 02-Oct-23 13:47:44

Do I write letters? Why ask when a glance at my pen holding hand shows a clerk’s callus.

Gundy Mon 02-Oct-23 13:58:15

I journal everyday - not a diary - but make notes of interest, books I want to read, record a recipe I want to try, make a list of boy/girl names for new family baby, a good quote I want to remember, references to things I want to investigate, lists of gifts I’ve given at Christmas/birthdays, music notations… All Kinds Of Things!!

It’s like my personal encyclopedia. It only takes a few minutes each, but I don’t want to forget certain things of interest.

I also send lots of cards and thank you notes. Who doesn’t love getting things in the mail?

Try journaling!
USA Gundy

CBBL Mon 02-Oct-23 14:02:54

I use a diary and wrote in a journal. Will sometimes write to friends, as well.
Still send Birthday and Christmas Cards.

Missiseff Mon 02-Oct-23 14:12:00

Every day

Susieq62 Mon 02-Oct-23 15:10:12

I have three penfriends but happy to have more!
I write a weekly journal.
I am writing my memoirs for my daughter to have a lasting legacy of her background.
My best friend and I write letters as we are 250 miles from each other.
I write a shopping list and a calendar plus a diary. Pretty full on.
I write poetry during the pandemic as well

Froglady Mon 02-Oct-23 15:22:03

I write shopping lists and 'to do' lists but that is about it. My writing is not good and I would prefer to type it on the pc and then print it and send it. It's so stressful for me to try and handwrite something for someone else that it's not worth it and I probably wouldn't do it.

Oldnproud Mon 02-Oct-23 15:29:30

I usually jot down notes several times a day, but very rarely write anything long these days, and my handwriting, which was never great, is definitely deteriorating.

Thisismyname1953 Mon 02-Oct-23 16:19:34

Last week I made a note of an appointment to have blood tests soon and I also wrote a birthday card to my great nephew who has just turned 10 .

mar76 Mon 02-Oct-23 16:25:01

I wrote a letter to my 10 year old grand daughter wo lives 400 miles away in Staffordshire She took it into school to show her teacher. Her teacher said I was a beautiful writer.

grannyro Mon 02-Oct-23 16:44:41

I write all the time. Lists...and then lists about my lists! I write reminders in a note book and I keep a diary every day. I don't send letters anymore as my friends in the USA and I now email but I love to write and I worry that no one does enough of it anymore!

Romola Mon 02-Oct-23 16:54:51

I'm left-handed and have never been particularly proud of my handwriting, which is entirely legible but not as neat as it used to be. Normally, I make notes and lists, write birthday cards etc., but nothing extensive. Otherwise, it's on the devices.
Recently I addressed about 100 envelopes for the political party which I support. I think it did improve with practice.

Lucyd Mon 02-Oct-23 18:56:05

Daily lists, anything that needs to go in my diary eg appointments, shifts at work, etc, messages to pass on at work, couple of crosswords each day, etc.
Last year I wrote an account of my childhood in the sixties and early seventies. Both my late Dad and late Granny were great story tellers but never wrote anything down and I wanted my family to have a written account as these things are easily forgotten.
When my husband died very unexpectedly in his early fifties I kept a daily account of how I felt and stopped about a year later when my Dad, who was terminally ill, moved in with me. Initially it was so difficult as he was very poorly for the first three weeks (we believe he probably had covid but it was never diagnosed) and I stopped writing. I did glance at one of the last installments recently when I was sorting through things and it was heartbreaking.
Used to write to my husband as we lived in different countries for a couple of years and whenever he was away on military exercise we wrote to each other even though we had mobile phones and computers. Still have all his letters to me and the ones I sent him but cannot bring myself to read them.
Wrote my son a letter on his wedding day three years ago.
My son and his wife each wrote a letter to their baby on her first birthday and will continue to do so as she grows up.

Sohamsue Mon 02-Oct-23 19:11:58

At first I thought I never write, but then I saw the other replies, silly me shopping list, birthday cards etc but I have not written an actual letter for years, a friend of mine wrote in pen and ink to a penfriend abroad for 30 years. The one word I dread is writing 'happy' it always looks untidy when I write it so I sign my name with a flourish and hope they do not noticd the untidy word.

Hemgranot Wed 04-Oct-23 20:23:09

I wrote 30 short letters on Monday, another 40 today and hopefully a similar number on Friday. It’s part of my job. All orders get a handwritten letter included.
I hate my handwriting and strive to write neatly but I do need to be speedy too.

Abracadabra Wed 04-Oct-23 21:16:57

Susieq62

I have three penfriends but happy to have more!
I write a weekly journal.
I am writing my memoirs for my daughter to have a lasting legacy of her background.
My best friend and I write letters as we are 250 miles from each other.
I write a shopping list and a calendar plus a diary. Pretty full on.
I write poetry during the pandemic as well

I have about 20 pen pals so I write long letters most days. I also love using beautiful stationery! I write in my journal most days as well, and all about my various trips (with picture postcards), lists at the back of events I’ve been to, movies I’ve watched and the rating, books I’ve read..I find writing things down is soothing.