I go to bed just after 9, and read my phone for about 45 minutes. No games or interacting with people, just read.
Then I turn my dvd of series 11 of Frasier on down low, give the dog a small biscuit and compose myself for sleep.
I get up at 05:30 when the alarm goes off. I like being up early.
I Know what all the experts say about blue light and devices and so on but this is what works for me.
I used to be a championship grade sleeper until chemo 9 years ago, when I developed insomnophobia. I don't know if that's a real word but I became petrified of not sleeping - so of course sleeping got harder and harder, and my mental health declined to the point of "well, we don't like to call it 'breakdown' these days".
I tried all the "clean" sleeping methods but all lying in the quiet darkness did was give me hours of time to panic about not sleeping. I came to dr ad the dawn chorus.
A little background TV I've always found soporific, so I tried that. Now it's refined to the same dvd every night. If I've dozed and missed a bit of the now well known script, I can think, "Oh, I CAN sleep", and that relaxes me to the point of dropping right off. Sometimes I wake up 7 hours later to a blank screen. Sometimes I wake up, restart it, and off I go again.
It's not perfect - I wish I could just go to bed and sleep like I used to but better this and good mental health than how it had become.
Last month I had to have my beautiful old dog pts very late at night. When I eventually got back I went through the same bedtime routine, and surprised myself by getting some sleep.
Finding what works is a great blessing, and Tough to all the advice that says it won't!!