Glorianny
I'm posting it again Blame shifting never helps solve anything
No one has asked women to deal with men's problems. We are however part of society as are transpeople and we all need to work to create a more tolerant and inclusive society. That isn't done by blaming one section and targeting them or by passing the responsibility for violence onto one section of society.
And certainly not by stirring up hate and division then standing back and blaming others.
Well actually, you have done exactly that. A few examples:
* When I and others have said that we are unhappy about men in our spaces you ask how we (as women) would police things to prevent it, knowing that this is very difficult, as you yourself point out regularly that it is not always easy to spot a transwoman. We are told that we must object if we would prefer transwomen not to be there, but not how we should do this, to whom, or at what point in the process (ie before the event, when we get there, or what, exactly?) If it is too late, and the event goes ahead with transwomen in attendance, it will be women who miss out if we don't attend, and if women just don't bother going, the same will apply. Objecting 'on the door' is likely to be risky, given the history of abuse towards women by TRAs. I am thinking here of events such as the Lesbian speed-dating, and of local sporting events such as women's rugby - not things that people wouldn't attend because of bigotry, but because of fear of abuse or injury.
* The reason you give for putting women at risk by being locked up with male prisoners is that there might be a risk of suicide if they are housed with other male criminals. This means that female prisoners are put at risk rather than the sex offending transwomen to whom we object. If special jails for transpeople are built, where will the budget come from? Will it mean fewer mother and baby units in women's jails? More prisoners being housed in cramped conditions? It seems unlikely that more money will be found to build new jails, but if that happens will it be women who occupy the new, modern space, or will they stay in poor conditions to free up funding for male offenders?
* When male athletes compete against women, it is women who oppose this who are accused of phobia and expected to find a way of making the competition fair without 'discriminating' against the men who want to compete against them. If the athlete is black, and fails the tests for being female, there are also accusations of racism.
* I have mentioned the situation in my place of work, where the one women's toilet block on the floor where I am based is now 'gender neutral', as well as accommodating the disabled and baby changing. The Gents are still there, for men only, so women struggle to pee between lectures, as our loos are used by everyone (including the general public, as the building is on a thoroughfare), and many women are reluctant to use them when it is dark or less busy than usual.
I could go on, but there is enough there to illustrate how I feel that women are expected to solve the issues. We either put up with it or complain (and get accused of peddling hatred).