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Sarah, Duchess of York

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crazyH Mon 20-Nov-23 11:43:17

Duchess of York has been joined This Morning as a Presenter/Agony Aunt .

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 12:02:18

Is criticism acceptable for the rest of the royal family ?

eazybee Wed 22-Nov-23 12:11:02

I do feel some sympathy for Sarah Ferguson, but she and Andrew do seem to have an extraordinary relationship with money, There is an account in the DT today of some strange financial dealings with a Turkish millionairess and a fraudster and money paid into their bank accounts.

Sussexborn Wed 22-Nov-23 12:28:23

She and Andrew were quite happy with an open marriage but I think the pictures of her financial adviser sucking her toes upset the Apple cart, especially as the daughters were apparently staying with her.
She was given a hard time by the press because of her weight, which was very cruel. She and Diana had a falling out at some point. A lot of fuss over her auburn hair initially though it became quite trendy after a while.

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 13:17:45

I don't think nastiness is acceptable where Diana and Meghan are concerned.

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 13:31:09

Is speaking of their words and actions nasty ?

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 14:35:08

Anniebach you said Meghan would be worse, and you misspell her name deliberately.
That seems nasty to me, and disappointing, to be honest.

Sussexborn Wed 22-Nov-23 14:53:20

Why are Diana and Meghan regarded as infallible by you! Diana was manipulative but not on the scale of Markle.

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 15:12:28

nadateturbe when Megan hit the news in error I spelt her name as is done in Wales, had an aunt and several cousins. I was told on this forum to spell it correctly, i then chose not to.

Millymay Wed 22-Nov-23 15:18:07

Anniebach

nadateturbe when Megan hit the news in error I spelt her name as is done in Wales, had an aunt and several cousins. I was told on this forum to spell it correctly, i then chose not to.

I’d feel embarrassed admitting that.

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 15:29:58

Really, speaking the truth should not embarrass one

Millymay Wed 22-Nov-23 15:51:46

Millymay

Anniebach

nadateturbe when Megan hit the news in error I spelt her name as is done in Wales, had an aunt and several cousins. I was told on this forum to spell it correctly, i then chose not to.

I’d feel embarrassed admitting that.

But why would you deliberately choose to spell someone’s name wrongly? Isn’t that quite rude?

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 16:55:05

Sussexborn

Why are Diana and Meghan regarded as infallible by you! Diana was manipulative but not on the scale of Markle.

I don't consider them infallible, none of us are. But for some reason they are treated very nastily by some GNetters. Too much judgement.

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 16:56:37

But why would you deliberately choose to spell someone’s name wrongly? Isn’t that quite rude?

Badly done IMHO.

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 17:02:25

Who knows why Megan Markle chooses to speak lies so often

eazybee Wed 22-Nov-23 17:05:32

Some posters on GN dislike Diana and Meghan because of the lies they told/tell and their deliberate attempts to damage the Royal family.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 22-Nov-23 17:27:46

Yes. I am one such.

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 17:49:00

OK, they're evil people who deserve judgement, unlike the perfect RF.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 22-Nov-23 17:53:21

Nobody has said they are evil people. The words I would choose are manipulative, cruel and selfish.

nadateturbe Wed 22-Nov-23 18:02:48

And the RF aren't. Hmm...

Anniebach Wed 22-Nov-23 18:14:35

Example of a member of the Royal family being cruel and selfish?

JaneJudge Wed 22-Nov-23 18:46:56

funding your palaces and lavish lifestyles off working people paying tax is pretty selfish

that said, Princess Anne caught the normal train the other week as she couldn't fly in her helicopter and she just stood in a normal carriage with the plebs smile but I'd think nothing less of Anne

Good luck to Sarah

Parsley3 Wed 22-Nov-23 19:38:08

Example of the RF being cruel?
I would say it was sending Charles to Gordonstoun and keeping him there when his parents knew that he was miserable was quite cruel.

RosiesMaw Wed 22-Nov-23 19:39:35

My in laws likewise sent Paw to Gordonstoun where he was equally miserable.
I would call them misguided but not “cruel”

welbeck Wed 22-Nov-23 19:54:17

were not most children sent away to school aged 7-8 utterly miserable, and often worse, abused.
it was the upper class norm to do so, seen as a privilege, and character building.
we cannot judge the past by the standards of today.
children were almost never removed, or listened to at all about choice of school.
in fact most children knew it was pointless saying anything.
it just had to be borne.

welbeck Wed 22-Nov-23 19:57:22

the fact that the queen mother urged he be sent to eton, probably sealed his fate. unfortunately.
the law of unintended consequences.
his father doubled down on gordonstoun.