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grannyactivist Wed 06-Dec-23 17:11:25

On Monday my husband and I will be at Heathrow waiting to welcome our daughter and granddaughter home for Christmas and I am finally allowing myself to feel anticipation and excitement.

They live in NZ and when our granddaughter was born (at 27 weeks) she was very poorly for a long time (old timers on here will remember holding my hand through some very scary weeks). In the years since then she has been back to ICU several times (including last summer) and yesterday she had to have an MRI because of heart problems, but we’ve had confirmation that SHE’S COMING HOME FOR CHRISTMAS!

It’s been four years since we’ve been together, so we have a lot of hugs to catch up on and the family has grown since, so there are photo’s to be taken of ALL my grandchildren together. It’s the best gift I could have and more than makes up for what otherwise has been a dreadful year.

Who else has long distance family home for Christmas?

grannyactivist Thu 07-Dec-23 22:46:08

Thanks all for your good wishes. My granddaughter is eight now - and in spite of early concerns about brain damage has just been accepted into MENSA. She does have some health problems related to her early birth and is definitely a quirky little individual, but she has shown herself to be remarkably resilient. I think she gets it from her mum who also had major health problems as a baby/child, but she survived and thrived too.

crazyH Thu 07-Dec-23 22:51:10

grannyactivist - imagine being accepted into MENSA. Congratulations to your clever little granddaughter - well done 👍

silverlining48 Thu 07-Dec-23 22:54:42

Wishing you all a wonderful Christmas. We didn’t see our dd for nearly 3 years fir to COVID snd health problem so know how excited you must be. Enjoy it all.

annodomini Thu 07-Dec-23 23:34:29

GA, what lovely news. I'm so glad that you will have a happy family Christmas together. I remember your trials and tribulations in our early days here and sharing your anxiety about your New Zealand granddaughter. She sounds like a bright spark despite her early arrival. I count myself fortunate to have five healthy grandchildren (adults now) and a very robust 18-month-old great-granddaughter; and now live close enough to have regular contact with them.
A Happy Christmas to you and yours, GA and many more to come. xx

Witzend Fri 08-Dec-23 08:26:20

How lovely, have a brilliant time! 🎄🎅🏻

DanniRae Fri 08-Dec-23 11:53:52

Wishing you and all your family a Wonderful Christmas!
smile

Niochorio Fri 08-Dec-23 12:39:24

Congratulations GA, I can totally understand your excitement at seeing your family again, it is such a worry when they are so far away. My middle son is returning home next week for the three weeks covering Christmas and New Year. He has lived and worked in Japan for the last 10 years and it is two years since we saw him last. I can’t wait to have Christmas with all my boys together. He is also particularly looking forward to Christmas as it isn’t an event that is really celebrated in Japan. He already has his list of food he would like to eat prepared.

Twig14 Sat 09-Dec-23 11:25:12

That is absolutely wonderful news for you. Treasure every minute with your family. We were going to see our family this Christmas at the other side of the world. Sorry to say my DH just diagnosed with Cancer. We will have zoom calls which will be nice. I bet you are so excited have a wonderful Christmas and a very good New Year

Dottynan Sat 09-Dec-23 11:41:02

What a wonderful message. I hope your granddaughter goes from strength to strength. Merry Christmas to you and your family

Mrsdof Sat 09-Dec-23 11:44:20

Not quite the same but we are flying out to Melbourne on Tuesday for 5 weeks and I really can’t wait! My DS2 had open heart surgery in September, it was a very worrying time being so far away but he seems to be recovering well. Then it was discovered his lovely partner had to have a large fibroid removed and at the same time had a hysterectomy, this was just 4 weeks ago, luckily she is also doing well. My eldest grandson will by flying in from Perth for Christmas as well. Haven’t seen them for 5 years and I am sooo excited to be able to give lots of hugs and kisses all round. smile

Annma Sat 09-Dec-23 11:46:35

Have a fantastic time this Christmas.It will be a magical and memorable time for you and your family.

Mojack26 Sat 09-Dec-23 11:48:15

Enjoy every moment! 🥰🥰

grannybuy Sat 09-Dec-23 11:49:34

Enjoy!! I can guess you’ll be just watching the time until that arrival at Heathrow. So exciting!

2020convert Sat 09-Dec-23 12:00:06

Enjoy every moment. They’re so precious. Have seen my son and DIL, but not my two grandchildren in Australia since before covid lockdown.

knspol Sat 09-Dec-23 12:02:56

How lovely for you and for them too. I'm sure you'll all have a wonderful time together, enjoy every minute.

Jill0753 Sat 09-Dec-23 12:08:02

I share your excitement as my son and his family are travelling from Australia to spend Christmas with us. We saw him briefly when Australia opened up after Covid so, like lots of others have seen him once in 4 years. Our daughter and her family will be there so for the first time in almost 5 years we will all be together. I can feel the excitement bubbling up already.

labradorlinda33 Sat 09-Dec-23 12:33:09

What a wonderfully uplifting post....👏👏👏.
Have a special happy Christmas and New Year all together...🎅🤶

spottybook Sat 09-Dec-23 13:29:04

I know how you feel GA. Have a wonderful reunion. Our son and family have moved back to the UK this year from Singapore and we will all be together around the table along with our daughter and family who live locally. We haven’t spent Christmas together for four years.

GrannyGrunter Sat 09-Dec-23 13:37:19

That is absolutely wonderful. I am so happy for all of you and I wish you all a wonderful Christmas and a healthy 2024.

Newatthis Sat 09-Dec-23 14:14:55

Soooo pleased for you. I experienced this a few years back during Coverd when my daughter gave birth. I didn’t see my granddaughter for 20 months. Have a fabulous time, how wonderful!

Bazza Sat 09-Dec-23 14:19:41

Just brilliant to have such a positive post! Have a fabulous time.

Shandy3 Sat 09-Dec-23 15:29:32

Enjoy, it sounds well deserved on every level x

mynest Sat 09-Dec-23 16:26:55

You are blessed!! May you have a wonderful Christmas. I know you will cherish every single moment. So happy for you and your family.

springishere Sat 09-Dec-23 17:08:40

My son and family arrive on Monday from Dubai for three weeks. My granddaughter was 5 lbs at birth and a month premature. Now a healthy happy 12 year old, but a little worrying at the time. A happy Christmas to all you lovely ladies (and the occasional man!).

mistymitts Sat 09-Dec-23 17:11:48

Have a wonderful time. My daughter is living in Canada now so won’t be seeing much of her. Hope to go out next year though. Such a long way, thankfully there is zoom. But not quite the same.