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HelterSkelter1 Sat 30-Dec-23 10:32:38

What to do when a friend has pronounced a word wrongly for a long time? Ignore it? Use it in conversation?

I feel bad for not "correcting" her a long time ago. As a friend corrected my pronunciation of another word and I was grateful. Saved me looking silly.
A friend of my DD pronounced prosciutto as prossquitto. Which of course we use here all the time now...friend is in the distant past so we are not offending her.

Not that we buy Italian ham often!! So don't need the correct way.

HelterSkelter1 Sat 30-Dec-23 10:34:37

PS another work colleague kept calling the place and the bank Santander Santa Narder. And didn't like my saying it correctly at all!!

Aveline Sat 30-Dec-23 10:35:24

I was at a small gathering recently and a lady completely mispronounced the name of a local area. I was amused to note that two others, while clearly noticing the mispronunciation, continued to pronounce it in the wrong way. I thought it was kind of them not to embarrass her in public.

Charleygirl5 Sat 30-Dec-23 12:27:41

I correct somebody I know who talks about Covoid. It drives me nuts. Apparently I am the only person she knows who does.

crazyH Sat 30-Dec-23 12:36:20

Helterskelter - I’m interested - how do you pronounce ‘prosciutto’ ? I’m serious. I’d like to know.

Bellanonna Sat 30-Dec-23 12:42:16

Hi Crazy. It’s pro as you’d say it in proper and then shooto.And it’s delicious, too.

Freya5 Sat 30-Dec-23 12:42:56

How about expresso, rather than espresso. Quickly pressed out , or pressed out, 😂.

Dickens Sat 30-Dec-23 12:43:08

crazyH

Helterskelter - I’m interested - how do you pronounce ‘prosciutto’ ? I’m serious. I’d like to know.

Pro-shu-toe

... the first "o" as in "of" and, think, a bit of emphasis on the "t", according to my Italian neighbours!

crazyH Sat 30-Dec-23 12:45:50

Thanks Bella and Dickens

Gwyllt Sat 30-Dec-23 12:55:01

Living in a Welsh speaking part of wales I am used to having my pronunciation corrected then usually try it out
We have holiday cottages and I now find myself correcting visitors and they laugh and appreciate it
Never had anyone offended
Guess the key is how you do it

Judy54 Sat 30-Dec-23 13:53:25

I would feel bad if I did correct someone. Best to just let it go and have a giggle about it.

keepcalmandcavachon Sat 30-Dec-23 13:56:07

There's usually a reason though isn't there?
Hearing loss, dyslexia, confusion with dialect or maybe growing up in a household without a lot of stimulating conversation. It must make you feel awful to be 'corrected' if you know struggle for some reason.

Gwyllt Sat 30-Dec-23 14:06:58

When I first moved to Wales I was a little taken aback Actually I appreciate being helped to pronounce words correctly
Welsh pronounciation is not easy

Susie42 Sat 30-Dec-23 14:07:48

I do wish people would pronounce “harassment” the British way rather the American way.

Marydoll Sat 30-Dec-23 14:11:21

I would never embarrass someone by correcting their pronunciation.
I cannot pronounce a former R.A medication I was on called Toxcilizamub ( despite being a linguist 😚), so I just call it Tokkie, as all my clinicians do. wink.

I have a friend, who often invites us for ham and cheese craconts, (croissants) for lunch. We are just grateful at being asked.

BlueBelle Sat 30-Dec-23 14:15:24

I m afraid i would have annoyed you and would have pronounced your prosciutto wrongly helterskelter never used it before
How do you like harassment to be pronounced Susie I say
ha rass ment not Harris ment but don’t know which is which

NotSpaghetti Sat 30-Dec-23 14:21:36

Harass and research grin
Both now American it seems!

Marydoll Sat 30-Dec-23 14:23:26

Bluebelle, you don't know what you are missing. A staple in my shopping basket. wink

BlueBelle Sat 30-Dec-23 14:27:06

I m vegetarian marydoll 🤣🤣🤣

Fairycakes Sat 30-Dec-23 14:39:38

I try not to make it obvious that I am correcting someone's pronuniciation. I usually include the mispronounced word in my response, using the correct pronunciation. I think I heard once that that was the polite way to correct someone.

BlueBelle Sat 30-Dec-23 14:44:28

I don’t think I ve ever corrected anyone, that to me seems pretty rude, however I don’t think anyone’s corrected me either

Fairycakes Sat 30-Dec-23 14:45:45

Susie
I do wish people would pronounce “harassment” the British way rather the American way.

And I wish people would pronounce Schedule the English way, and not the American grin

Marydoll Sat 30-Dec-23 14:47:20

BlueBelle

I m vegetarian marydoll 🤣🤣🤣

My SIL was one, until he tasted prosciutto, Bluebelle! Mea culpa! 🤣

RosiesMaw Sat 30-Dec-23 14:49:19

Marydoll

I would never embarrass someone by correcting their pronunciation.
I cannot pronounce a former R.A medication I was on called Toxcilizamub ( despite being a linguist 😚), so I just call it Tokkie, as all my clinicians do. wink.

I have a friend, who often invites us for ham and cheese craconts, (croissants) for lunch. We are just grateful at being asked.

Did you mean Tocilizumab Marydoll ?

And no, I can’t pronounce it either!
(DH’s rituximab was a doddle in comparison.)

Marydoll Sat 30-Dec-23 15:01:03

I stand corrected Maw. 😉