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Goodbye to my Annus Horribilis. How was your year, lol!?

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Lexisgranny Tue 02-Jan-24 21:32:37

I would describe our year as similar to the Curate’s egg, mainly as a result of health problems - hoping for an improvement this year.

Fairycakes Tue 02-Jan-24 21:32:07

RosiesMaw
I wasn't making light of anyone else's situation - just my own. I have had a terrible year but I'm trying to be hopeful. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.

Fairycakes Tue 02-Jan-24 21:27:47

Hev61
I'm really sorry to hear of your loss. It must be difficult to bear. Things will get better in time. It's about taking one day at a time, and eventually you will turn a corner. Take good care of yourself.

RosiesMaw Tue 02-Jan-24 21:06:13

I'm not sure that "LOL" is going to be appropriate for many of us particularly those who have experienced an annus horribilis

Redhead56 Tue 02-Jan-24 20:54:28

So very sorry for anyone who has had a difficult time recently. It’s been a rough year for our family through an illness with a loved one. I personally have found it very upsetting as I’m a distance away. I think because I could not be physically closer it caused stress and anxiety and a lot of tears. Not just from me but my husband too as he worries about me.
After months of illness feeling dreadful I was diagnosed with COPD which is now being treated and stabilised thankfully. So yes I was glad to see the back of 2023 and hope this year is better.

Hev61 Tue 02-Jan-24 20:39:08

My year was awful. First My husband had bowel cancer and was having horrendous chemotherapy treatment. My sister's husband died in February, my brother in law ( deceased sister's husband) died in march. A friend's husband died in April. After chemotherapy treatment a scan showed husbands cancer had spread to liver. More chemo had. In July my husband told his cancer had spread to bones and nothing more could be done to treat it. You have several months to live he was told. 5 weeks later at beginning of September he died. I'm heartbroken.

Fairycakes Tue 02-Jan-24 19:37:06

Well, it's goodbye and good riddance to my annus horribilis. I ended up with stress after overstretching myself, and while dealing with that I pulled a muscle in my leg and couldn't walk. Then I suffered vertigo (for the first time in my life) - not once, but three times. While all this was going on, my husband was taken ill, and while struggling with my own health problems, I had to take care of him and phone for an ambulance (which typically never arrived). Then, just a few weeks later, we both caught covid at the same time, which was terrible to say the least. My father described all these problems as 'a dark phase' lol!

But in spite of all the problems, there were glimmers of light. The family supported me through the stress problems, everyone rallying round. My son married his sweetheart and thankfully I recovered enough of my health to attend. It was a beautiful, romantic wedding, the memories of which I will treasure forever.

So maybe it wasn't an annus horribilis, after all. We need the tough times. It's good for the soul. And from every bad situation comes good.

So here's looking forward to a great 2024!

How was your past year, and what are your hopes for the future?