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Did you or didn't you? Sex before marriage!

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Judy54 Sun 07-Jan-24 16:29:25

I agree to much information and no I don't want to share my experience.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 07-Jan-24 16:27:43

I can’t imagine why anyone would ask others or want to share. Presumably the OP is talking about her husband’s previous girlfriend with whom he recently ‘reconnected’. I wonder what he or the girlfriend would say about her post?

RosiesMaw Sun 07-Jan-24 16:22:05

I tend to be suspicious of threads starting with intrusive questions like these.
1) because I have no interest in anybody else’s sex life half a century or more ago
2) I don’t expect to share mine with anybody else
3) I am aware of threads about grannies’ private lives and maybe loves appearing on Facebook or in the popular press.
Why would anybody want to know?

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 07-Jan-24 16:20:47

Crikey, do I want to know all that? No I don’t. Nor do I wish to share, thank you.

RosiesMaw Sun 07-Jan-24 16:09:00

TMI

Nana75 Sun 07-Jan-24 16:02:29

We waited until the engagement before we indulged!(easier for me than him!)I was "entitled" to being on the pill,being an engaged lady! Plus I definitely didn't want to risk a pregnancy! Also as an added "no no"I was brought up with the" nice girls didn't ".I was 21 at the time and" it"happened when we were on holiday.We were staying with his aunt and uncle.Separate rooms for DH(then)and I but when they left for work,himself visited and we did the deed.I was an "innocent" virgin.He,d had a teenage girlfriend before me whom he lost his to. She DIDN'T need a ring or the pill .I was told,much later no other method was used either.I insisted on "back up".I must have been thorough!!Can't say it was earthshattering but it was nice to be" close ".Anyone else have good or bad memories of their" first time "?